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Date: November 1, 2022
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You fucked up big time. Don't fuck it up anymore. Behave like an adult this time. Sheesh.
The good news is she won’t be thinking about calling you a year from now. You blew up a relationship over a possible thought and a phone call that was either a butt dial or aborted. Everyone thinks about their exes from time to time. If you don’t get a handle on your anxiety you’re going to end up alone.
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Tell me you’ve no idea how relationships work without telling me you’ve no idea how relationships work..
Yeah I know. I’m side eyeing a lot of disorders and diagnosis since watching these damn stupid videos.
I'd fuck 'em and then ghost them. Payback, b\%#h!!*
As a mother, daughter and grand-daughter your comments make me so queasy. People are not extensions of anyone else. They are individual humans. It’s a fun fact that female babies develop egg cells while gestating, and it means absolutely nothing for their relationships as autonomous beings.
Don’t get it twisted, it’s fine that OP’s MIL bathed his kids, and I hope she has a lovely relationship with her grand-daughters. But it has nothing to do with gestation or some biological bond, and your daughters don’t owe you grandbabies because you were a matryoshka doll for a few months!!
I also think it’s gross to suggest women have deeper, more valuable relationships with their families than men do. It’s not true, and it has the dual effect of making the men lonely and giving the women more work to do, reinforcing that men are guests and babysitters in their own home.
We got pills to address the erection issues, but I think it’s more that I don’t feel desired by him. I enjoy his companionship, but when I rub his back or his arm, he goes stiff. Doesn’t ever touch me in a romantic way which FEELS like it’s because he’s not trying to excite me. If that makes sense. He told me a while ago he stopped watching porn in order to see if that could remedy what was going on. It lasted for all of a week, maybe 2? Now it’s just a conversation that we seem to be avoiding.
dont say anything. take it to the grave. become a chimera. don’t leave dna laying around anywhere.
that’s a new perspective, thank you so much
that’s sad
If you’re thinking this way you need to break up with your boyfriend, full stop.
It’s crazy how many of these I see on here.
You should know. As a 34m myself, I can’t date under like.. 26-27.
I have absolutely zero in common with younger girls.
I wonder what his intentions really are, and I don’t think you can blame anyone for questioning that.
I’ve dated girls that dated older men when they were young, and they all talk about how creepy it is in hindsight.
I would imagine this will be your experience too.
Ofc not marring right now. Don’t worry I’m off the same opinion as you are. I just meant planning as in the further future.
Thank you, I actually just booked an appointment with the same counselor she has. I appreciate it!
I'd tell his mom
My fellow redditor, I’ve lived with romantic partners and flatmates long enough to be tired of it.
But bag of dead animal fur is something I would draw the line too. There is nothing wrong with that. It’s just not my kind of crazy.
She gets 30 hours of childcare paid. Plus Dad takes the kid 3 days a week. Sounds to me like she could easily work 4-5 days a week.
As it currently stands, could you say with full honesty that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with her? Are you a better more fulfilled person with her at your side?
You should be nervous. Don't tell her. Move on like you never knew the dude.
Have you discussed having an open relationship so you can fulfill your sexual needs elsewhere?
Did you ever pursue your friend?
If she leaves? Well…sometimes the trash takes itself out.
FYI I can see that people commented, but it won’t show me them so idk what’s up
If you're tiptoeing around the truth so that this precious rare perfect man doesn't break up with you….he's not precious, rare, or perfect.
This is a man who has cheated on his postpartum fiancée with a young naive woman. He has zero morals, and will keep this charade up as long as OP will believe his BS. Of course she isn't a priority, she's a side piece to entertain him while his fiancée does the nude labour of raising their child.
OP doesn't deserve a happy ending out of this, she's willing to help destroy another woman's family. I almost hope they end up together and make each other miserable while the Fiancée finds someone who isn't pond scum.
Girl WAKE UP!! Social person or not, he wanted to cheat on you with his ex. The worst part is that she was the one to stop things not him.
If you think that's physical abuse then I envy the fact you've clearly never been abused. Idk a single abused person who was asked for consent to be abused, nor that offered a safe word to end abuse, nor that agreed when asked for consent. Like OP literally discussed terms, she agreed, he layer on the floor and she got on top and pinned him and then he got out of it and pinned her. She never told him to stop. That's literally akin to play wrestling. Grow the fuck up and be fr
So listen to him. They're the parents.. you need to step back.
The incident happened during a time when you weren't yet a couple. People often keep their options open during such phases because so many would-be relationships burn out before they have even flickered into life, but it is also common for people to stay quiet about such stuff because it can make the other party feel like things weren't so “special”.
The important thing here though is that the connection you had was real and special regardless of what else was going on in your lives at the time, and this connection rode through to become the strongest winner during a time when she really could have gone out with anyone (and was perfectly entitled to as well).
If you need to talk about it more, talk about it some more. But make sure you put an end to the chapter soon (don't let it drag on and don't let it consume you). If you over-focus on this issue (which is a bit of a non-issue) it will destroy what has otherwise been a great relationship. And if things are otherwise great between the both of you, I think it would be rather foolish to throw away the relationship because of something that occurred in its earliest formative days before you were officially a couple.
You need to throw the Hollywood and traditional notions of relationships out. A relationship doesn't have to have perfect, pure and star-crossed beginnings for it to end up becoming the best thing that ever happened to you. As long as your GF has been entirely devoted to you since you actually agreed to get together, then that is what matters most.
sounds terrifyingly familiar…
The part that she is such a good friend of his and you let them go to lunch and also go out and have drinks with her is you trusting him.
The part that she never tried to get to know you at all as his GF, shows that she is very disrespectful to both you and your BF.
I think you need to show your BF this thread and let him read the comments. I believe you gave him enough space with her. Going to Vegas, or out of town would be a no go.
Holy shit, this is her modded out hobby car and you expected her to give it up to shuttle around her nephews around? And you lied about buying it back later?
I wasn't really on anyone's side here because ripping up the room is quite the overreaction, but damn, you're making me take her side.
That'll be forever the best reference here ??
Uh…..it couldn't be the sex explanation. I was 7 at the time.
I completely agree with your assessment – this is not something I would ever tolerate in a relationship.
Get a different therapist. You have your reasons for not wanting a relationship with this woman, she’s forcing you to have a relationship with her that you don’t want and punishing you when you don’t conform to her idea of what she wants you to be. Your therapist should be working WITH you based on your needs.
I just wanted to add that the fact that you had sex with him wasn’t going to impact whether or not he was looking for a hookup.
If you didn’t have sex, he may have ghosted you just the same, or maybe asked you out on a second date to see if he could get in your pants. It wouldn’t suddenly alter his motives.
You did nothing wrong and there is no need to blame yourself.