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Date: October 9, 2022
Why is everything from the op deleted? It didn't seem to be violating any rules
I personally think it's rude of her parents to plan a trip and expect someone else house them at all. Will you have to feed them and pay for their entertainment as well? Transportation?
If I can't go on a trip and afford to house myself and family on that trip then it's not a trip I should be going on to begin with. It's not anyone else's responsibility to give her parents a place to stay.
Why do they need to stay for 6 months anyway? If they cut the trip to a reasonable amount of time can they afford to house themselves in a hotel or something? Also, if they don't even speak the language they are going to be an even bigger burden on you guys.
Speak for yourself
Kindly inform your ex boyfriend that you were not unfaithful, but notwithstanding that, he does not have proprietary rights over YOUR body!
Don't be stupid. If she wants a sperm donor she should get one the legal way. No matter what she says in the eyes of the law you are legally and financially responsible for that child and she could come after you for more than just money if she changed her mind. Red flag. Don't do it. You will be ruining your own life.
Ahem. “Ex-wife”.
Who has sex 3-4 times a week? Or multiple times a day? Are these couples without kids? Because, my husband and I both work full-time. We both travel over an hour for our jobs. I spend more time in my car with my 3 year old than I do at home. I see my coworkers way more than I see my husband. Sex for us is lucky to happen once a week. I didn't think that was abnormal…Its life? We're busy. The way I see it you make time where you can if you both work demanding jobs.
I'm sorry about your baby, sending you so much love and comfort.
As for this situation I don't know because of lack of context.
She needs to cut contact and let her know that he has no respect for you and your marriage and it's obvious he is just waiting for the right moment to make his move and that he is not trying to be friends and say how would you feel if i had a female friend who did that to me
Sure fire way to get served divorce papers.
The oldest one doesn’t even talk to his father he got his last name changed to his mothers years ago so I don’t know what happen everybody keeps me in the dark until I find out.
It's a no for me dawg
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First time means first time, right? I don't understand.
Crikey I can't imagine how boring my life would have been if I limited myself to one or two casual partners every year due to some unknown future partner's objections LMAO (ofc I am a male so this ridiculous judging of past sexual partners is rarely bestowed upon me)
You 2 are not compatible. You both put energy in this, certainly not the right way, but there is too much history that makes you exhausted and him angry. Just pull the plug otherwise you'll be back with the same questions in 1 year, 5 years, 20 years.
I will try to put my opinion on the matter as structured as possible
He asked you to stop being cringy and called you a “White Knight”, this screams to me guy being told that you were still trying to get back with her when she told you she didnt want anything to do with you and that he thinks you didnt get the hint (she didnt tell you this but she may have to others to get her “sad plz protect me” points, which would not be unusual at all and I have already seen play out way too many times)
She didnt block him but didnt talk much and then he offered her his place to stay? You gave her more than enough money, she wants an excuse so it wont sound weird why she is at his house, nobody would go and stay at the house of someone they dont know moreover when they already have more than enough money
I dont know and I cant affirm if she was trying to get money out of the community and you because she was a scammer but I DO FEEL very strongly about the fact that she and the dude who bullied you have started being more than friends. Sucks for you but it would be better if you got it out of the way and assume you lost money and lost her.
Talk about your fetishes sooner rather than later. But also be mindful that fantasy can be very different from reality.
“He's as vanilla as they come”- IMHO, the more vanilla a person seems, the more hidden kinks they have. You just need to discover them together.
No, but I’m planning to start ASAP.
I wouldn’t no. Because 1 accusation might be “false” but the fact several of his siblings have accused him of assault AND it went court (which means there must have been some evidence or some belief in plausibility by the police and prosecutor) and your bf thinks it’s all made up. That to me is someone who at best is traumatised (and will want contact with their father) and unable to properly judge a situation or at worst they have internalised really horrific misogynistic views about women, women lying about sexual assault etc. she missed out on 5k and he thinks she spent that on going to Ireland and going through a trial bc she’s pissed about inheritance?? Don’t be daft!
I wouldn’t necessarily have an issue with someone’s who’s family member did a horrible thing if they were reacting to it appropriately. Ppl can’t help being related to weirdos I guess.
I just wanted a reason to cut her off. I made the decision when she asked me. If I said no and she didn't do it, I would have wanted to stop talking to her. I thought her goons would feel less inclined to disturb me, but I was mistaken.
Just ask her to cuddle in underwear lol, spoon in underwear. Likely answer tho, she didn’t shave her legs.
Eh, I would need to read the court transcripts before believing either side. I heard about that case of 2 or 3 girls accusing a guy of raping them. They later admitted they lied but his rep was destroyed. And if this is in the US, a LOT of innocent people go to jail. I need to personally see the evidence that convicted him cuz if it's crap, then there's a possibility he didn't do it. I've seen people do more for less money. People have gotten killed over $20 for Pete's sake.
What? Did i say that?
The age gap between OP and this guy is OP’s actual age
Wait, so does he watch porn or not? Because if so, all of this makes way more sense.
You’re kinda going zero to ridiculous there.
Very hot agree. I'm so concerned with the amount of people that are dissing OP. It's ok to talk about timelines in relationships. How OPs gf is going about it is unhealthy and not really a discussion but her telling him what's going to happen in their relationship
It's your body and your choice. It could be that he decides to divorce over this, but if you don't want IVF or other procedures, don't get pressured into doing them.
Whatever you do, don’t make any major decisions that could permanently tie you to him just yet (move in together, shotgun wedding, pregnancy, combining finances, etc.).
He might truly be perfect, and nothing wrong with rushing if it feels right. But no need to make any life altering commitments just yet.
Off to the gyn with you.
There’s no reason anyone should be suffering from PMS these days. There’s a lot they can do to help.
Married, not dates. And I’m 36 not exactly a spring chicken so no I think your writing kinda sucks.
Your lifestyles do not match anymore. Breaking up seems ideal
this all sounds sus af, especially when combined together. He's downplaying your relationship bc he doesnt want ppl to ask questions? Wtf does that even mean?!
I think you shouldnt ignore your gut. You know somethings off. Time to steal yourself against what that may be and decide how/when you want to find out.
Your an idiot an hour friend is right
What's gonna happen is this guy is gonna groom you and I'm a few years suddenly you will be too old for him, he will dump you an go for a new younger person
Happens literally every time an being on Reddit I don't know how you DONT know about this already
Yeah not sure what is best for me. Though it seems like he needs a good month or two apart to make a decision… unfortunately a lot is hinging on his decision cat, furniture
This abc girl is either lying and your too gullible to realize she’s lying or goddamn she is a REALLY good liar. I could also be wrong and abc was pregnant and she lost the baby (then I’m sorry). But 90% confident she’s a can artist.
Anyways, my two cents, even though I’m just a rando on Reddit, is if this eating you alive this bad then tell your ex everything then leave her alone. Go ahead and pour your heart out to your ex, be 110% truthful, be authentic. Then once your done doing that leave her alone and let her do what she wants with your life. You fucked everything up. You gotta live! with that. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be truthful to her.
Good luck with everything.
I had a short fling with one of my best friends. We learned from it that we're very different people in relationships and we definitely don't work. I'm no threat to her dates/boyfriends and she's not a threat to my gf.
Sorry K if you read this ?… also quit going through my reddit history
I don't think going to bars is cheating. My boyfriend goes out with his friends too. I don't consider him cheating when he goes out with friends to bars. And I wouldn't consider it cheating if he felt he had a fleeting crush on someone. It happens and it doesn't have to mean anything. I never said anything about my conduct towards my coworker, and you are assuming I've made advances. I haven't. She's invited me out several times and I've said no because I don't think it would be a good idea. My communication with her has been nothing but cordial. Furthermore, getting hit on isn't cheating because you cannot control what other people do. If someone hit on my boyfriend, I wouldn't consider him cheating unless he responded in kind. And a lot of my friends are not single. That's another assumption you've made. There's nothing wrong with friends going out to bars together.
Why is he done?
Thank you so much for your input. It really is a nasty issue, and I want to be as delicate and aware of S’s feelings as possible. I can’t help but feel bad, as I’m also very insecure so I understand it might not feel great being 2nd best constantly to someone who is lighter skinned. at the same time, I can’t help what other men say or do, I don’t even want the attention at all.
I definitely think I need to just keep a distance for now. We should be lifting each other up, and the more I think about when I’ve been in her shoes, I realize Ive never felt negative when my friends are hit on. Part of me wants to talk to her one more time, especially since we’re sober now, but I’m also slightly exhausted from it all. Im sure I’ll see her again in a group setting though, so I might pull her aside and talk to her about it..or if it happens again, I will 100% say something.
Are you gay/lesbian? Because that will be your relationship if you continue with your transperson relationship. If you are not gay/lesbian just find another because it won't change the fact the person was born with and still has a vagina.
We were on and off together since 2018 and married in 2021. We have never lived together with each other yet. I keep asking him to come live! with me here at my uncles, but he refuses. He says he is not comfortable living over here. But this house is triple times bigger than his own house.
Yes. Someone who takes marriage seriously. Unfortunately, women today don't which is why marriage is off the table for me. I'm happy just having a girlfriend.
No problem. Take care.
While it's sweet you worry about him, he should care about your feelings too. It's okay to have boundaries, it's okay that you're not okay with this, it's completely reasonable.
I would frame it kindly, but firmly, if this is what you want to do: Boyfriend, I love you so much, I find you so attractive and I really enjoy what we have together. I just really can't enjoy kissing or oral sex properly, if your mouth hasn't been flossed recently. It's nothing against you as a person, it's how I feel.
Or something to that effect and take the convo from there.
i just don’t want to ignore her because i do care about her and i don’t want to leave it with a bad taste. i feel like i at least owe her a polite message so she doesn’t think i’m an asshole. and even though i said my piece it doesn’t seem like she understood me properly.