Wait. So here is my question, if having a shared chore split makes you guys closer to roommates, then what does that make chores that only you do, like cooking and dishes? Does that not bring you closer to roommates too?
This isn't legitimate feelings he is having. If it were, he would have thought the same about other chores. This is him being upset that he has to do his own laundry.
Let him leave the relationship. He can do all of those things himself after!
Your dad is a very disturbing (and disturbed) person. I totally understand your girlfriend's concerns
Wait. So here is my question, if having a shared chore split makes you guys closer to roommates, then what does that make chores that only you do, like cooking and dishes? Does that not bring you closer to roommates too?
This isn't legitimate feelings he is having. If it were, he would have thought the same about other chores. This is him being upset that he has to do his own laundry.
Let him leave the relationship. He can do all of those things himself after!