I think you should not be in a relationship with either right now until you are in a better headspace. Work on yourself so you can be happy alone, then you will be ready to try being happy with a partner.
Honestly, fuck Bob. There was nothing rude about what you said, it was direct and to the point. Bob knows what he did, and now he knows you know. He seems to still have the ability, on some level, to feel shame, so now he's uncomfortable around you. I'm assuming he's not going to be the sole guest at the wedding, so staying the fuck away from you shouldn't be that much of a challenge for him. If your friends have all known Bob for so long, they have to know that he's a piece of shit. You might want to rethink your relationship with a group of people who put the feelings of a fucking dirtbag over the feelings of someone who set a boundary with the dirtbag.
Interesting so it’s because she had the surgery then?
I think you should not be in a relationship with either right now until you are in a better headspace. Work on yourself so you can be happy alone, then you will be ready to try being happy with a partner.
Honestly, fuck Bob. There was nothing rude about what you said, it was direct and to the point. Bob knows what he did, and now he knows you know. He seems to still have the ability, on some level, to feel shame, so now he's uncomfortable around you. I'm assuming he's not going to be the sole guest at the wedding, so staying the fuck away from you shouldn't be that much of a challenge for him. If your friends have all known Bob for so long, they have to know that he's a piece of shit. You might want to rethink your relationship with a group of people who put the feelings of a fucking dirtbag over the feelings of someone who set a boundary with the dirtbag.
That's utterly insane, and surely can't be correct legally. Are you in the US? I suggest trying a different police dept
Most of us were out of HS by 18. Was the bus you road to school a regular bus or a short bus?