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Birth Date: 1983-11-17
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Date: November 25, 2022
You were not partners. You were two teenagers who were dating. And the relationship has now run its course which is healthy and normal. In the future at this age just keep things casual. There's no need to feel the pressure to have a partner at your age or to make major life decisions based on another person. This is the time of your life to be selfish and focus on you like your ex is doing. Good luck.
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she still bathed me when I was 17 and I wasn’t allowed devices unless there were for learning time. I was only allowed to leave house once a week to the library
(the doors were always locked and she always hid the keys but I never really had any reason to go out since I was homeschooled)
That’s abuse. The amount of control she wielded over you was super abusive. Not letting you leave the house, not letting you use devices, bathing you at age 17… holy shit girl. That’s abuse.
She didn’t have to hit you to be abusive. She was enmeshed and codependent and controlled you with an iron fist.
The fact that you accepted this with “I never had any reason to go out”… girl. No wonder you have low EQ, you were never allowed to socialize, have friends, go out, do normal kid and teenaged things. You were in a prison. That’s abuse.
She has conditioned you to think that it was love, but it wasn’t.
she just loved me a lot. She was a loner too so I was all she had. So she put a lot of effort into taking care of me.
we lost contact because she was mad I went to college and decided to move out, she thought I was ungrateful even though I was grateful.
Control is not love.
Enmeshment is not love.
Codependence is not love.
Cutting you off when you decided to leave her to go to college, and trying to twist it around to be your fault, is manipulation and emotional abuse. The fact that you defend her and think that this was normal and what a loving mother does is deeply disturbing.
It’s no wonder you can’t function in a normal society. You have no friends, no hobbies, no activities, and only your husband. That isn’t healthy, but that’s what you were conditioned to do by your mother. It feels normal to you, but it’s really not ok.
Get some therapy, please. I recommend EMDR therapy, which has helped me a lot, because you’re going to need some help to undo all the damage your mother’s control and emotional abuse has caused you. You may not see it as abuse now, but once you start meeting people and making friends and seeing how other parents interact with their kids, you’ll realize how utterly fucked up your upbringing was.