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Date: October 18, 2022
This was exhausting to read. I can't imagine your poor girlfriend having to online it.
I'm really glad I found your comment. I was in a similar situation with the guy last year and it just killed me what I went through. I always questioned what I did wrong and if i was wrong for feeling the way I did
Why the hell did he go through your phone and what did he find in your phone????
Oh dang
Yeah, some kind of addiction where is most likely is having problems getting an erection, so he has to blame his wife because he doesn’t have a problem. Goes along with his preference for fantasy; he’s going to have issues with facing his problem head on. Probably trying to convince himself that it’s her because he doesn’t want it to be him.
The woman is in her prime years according to men, so I would start making a plan unless he is ready to go to marriage counseling and individual counseling.
There are better men out there who would be more than happy to appreciate you. ❤️
It wasn't performance issues, I hear you on that being a frustrating & vulnerable moment!
He was angry because he felt rejected. She was in pain and got off him, he felt like she pushed him away and started stomping around and yelling at her for pushing him away. This was his first time in the relationship not getting to finish. It sounds like he got upset pretty quick, didn't check in on her pain, and didn't give her a chance to help him finish in another way.
It's a really emotional manipulative responce, and sounds like it's WAY more than just sex he's worked up about.
If it were the scenario you described it would be a different story for sure
He's a selfish young man and immature
Im a firm believer that racism is taught not something you are born to be
So my next question is, has his circle also grown with him? If you have children will they be influenced by them? Is he ready to cut off family and friends who are racists?
I would expand on that with him and then go from there
This is a red flag. You need to sit down with him face the facts . If he is accusing you after you stated the truth that means he is either cheating or does not trust you. Don't waste your time on him.
I'm going back to school next semester.
Thank you that advice, I'll probably have to do that, but I'm really hoping it won't come to that.
Without any context, how exactly do you expect total strangers to give you advice?
In general, I would say that in both friendships and in romantic relationships, when one person decides to end things, it's pointless and often toxic for the other person to fight their decision and try to convince them to stay. You can periodically check in to see how your former friend is doing (unless they have specifically asked you not to), but if something happened that completely blew up the friendship for them, they are unlikely to eventually have a change of heart. Instead of figuring out how to win them back, take the time to figure out if there are valuable lessons you can learn from this bad experience, so you can be a better friend to other people in the future. I wish you well.
My view on this is always it's never too early. So what, you move in and find out you're not well suited, better to find that out early rather than wasting time with each other. Life is short, don't online by other people made up rules on when things should happen. Crack on and have fun.
She’s being immature and unreasonable. My boyfriend bought me a shirt and it was a children’s size, so I laughed and said “thank you”. I feel like she’s being mean to you and she is spoiled.
Give her something she will never forget. It’s not about the value it’s the sentiment. If she’s getting you a guitar she supports your hobbies. Support hers maybe she likes crafting take her to hobby lobby.
Just end it You said it was a boundary, I'd have the same boundary. If I found out a boundary was crossed, even much later I'd still feel betrayed a bit. I mean it's fresh, sure it's minor but when you trust each other on a boundary and it's crossed. Then it's Crossed
Plus I've found that anytime trust starts to fade and there's no communication, or even lack of care towards q boundary then there's no coming back.
And who still thinks of their ex? My last two exes were incredibly abusive physically and mentally, my last ex threw a shotgun at me, and even threatened me with it. I get taking time to just leave that behind, and everyone takes their own time but like, no.
How did you notice that it was ex's number? Did you check every single telephone number? This sounds obsessive to me.
If your cat is so deadset on going outside, he may have been used to being outside before you adopted him, if you didn't get him as a new kitten who has been kept inside from the start and doesn't know anything else. Some cats just can't be trained to be happy to be inside permanently, unfortunately. I noticed in one of your comments you said you take him out a couple of times a week on a harness and lead, but it might be worth considering getting a cat run for him set up outside for when you're not home, so he can get the fresh air and still be safe. There are some cool structures around, or if you're handy you might even be able to build one yourself. Just make sure there is shelter as well as plenty to entertain him, and make sure he still gets his walks when you're home so he can explore more since he's clearly curious. Daily walks would be ideal. If your cat could go in the cat run while you're not home, that's a safer option than relying on your parents, especially since he's your cat, so he is your responsibility. NTA for worrying about your cat, but you can't rely on your parents to look after him for you either, so might need some more creative thinking for a long term solution.
I focus on the good things in the moment, what we are doing, what we have planned the next couple days.
Don't date hookers.
Was it a holiday party? Had it been planned for a while?
I mean he obviously open to cheating, be a good person and save her from the drama and heartbreak later on. He don’t need to be in a relationship. Also gives a pretty great vindictive effect, that’ll help with your closure. My toxic ass roots on your ex and her “friend” fucking around in the near future?
Worse thing is that OP said that if she knew his ex would drive her home, she would have taken a day off work to help him.
How would I be a narc?
How many times are you going to spam Reddit with your weird obsession with deepthroating this week? Because it’s still boring.
I’d prefer a thoughtful guy that gives me presents over a verbally abusive AH any day.
They have a big and unique personality that I think my guardian is intimated by, and their behaviour can sometimes be boisterous
Funnily, the thought crossed my mind that this might be the case. Don't worry, it happens and you can only learn from it. I dated a guy that I did all the cleaning, cooking, gardening, paid more and in general did more for. Next time, I'll make sure to date someone more like you!
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Just keep in mind that this is natural in a traditional man / woman dynamic. Men / Fathers tend to want to remain fiscally responsible and save for the family’s future and women / mothers are the ultimate big brain consumers who really strive to create the best home possible. (Obviously this isn’t always the case)
But it’s good to have both. It’s actually a really powerful dynamic.
Just keep in mind that this is natural in a traditional man / woman dynamic. Men / Fathers tend to want to remain fiscally responsible and save for the family’s future and women / mothers are the ultimate big brain consumers who really strive to create the best home possible. (Obviously this isn’t always the case)
But it’s good to have both. It’s actually a really powerful dynamic.
Is it bad I had a chuckled at this? I wouldn't, it is crazy and his wrath isn't worth it. But does it make me bad I giggled?
tldr?
Why would she need an excuse?! It's her body, her phone, her life.
You can do whatever you want, but this is who she is. She isn't going to change for you. She can't. She probably tried fixing that for years and never managed.
I am like her. There is one thing I have to be in time for. Flights. Whenever I travel I am sooooo stressed about it that I can't sleep at all the night before and after the flight I am generally useless for a day because all that nervous energy from 2 days comes down crushing. There is no way I would be that stressed for a date or a relationship. I'd probably die if I lived with that level of anxiety every day.
I've been told that it might be ADHD, so it might be the same for her. Maybe she can see a therapist and get medication. Otherwise, just tell her a different time. You want her there at 6 pm? Tell her you want her to come at 3 or 4.
Nope, nope, nope. All of this screams bad news. I seriously doubt he was joking given everything you've written in your post and comments. Usually when someone tries to expedite the relationship like this, they're trying to lock you down and make it harder to leave because they can't keep up the “good guy” act. At VERY best he has zero understanding of appropriate social boundaries, which is a massive issue in and of itself.
Post nut clarity.
I get my money if she dies first.
That’s what I was thinking, but like idk how to say it in a non common way, like “hey I’m here if you need to talk” sounds too superficial, have any ideas?
This is an emotional affair. It will not end easily, because it's her boss. The convo needs to be:
“You are having an emotional affair with your boss. I know it may not have started out this way, but I am not interested in staying with you if this continues. You have two weeks to submit a resignation, or we're over.”
If its not your style, dont wear it out of pity. I like another commenter’s idea: maybe admit that its not your style, but that its beautiful and you can tell he put alot of effort into designing and picking it out. Because its so sentimental and expensive, and not your style, display it as an heirloom in a nice case perhaps next to some wedding photos?
Thank yoh
I disagree… I wouldn’t give a fuck if roles were reversed and I’m a woman
i appreciate the advice. I’m definitely going to think about this more before making any decisions
I completely understand. As I said in my direct response his action was uncalled for. Much better way to approach it
Yes, sometimes, we call them zombies. When they die become a ghost, then come back to life to take more from you
Is it really a beautiful relationship if your needs aren't getting met and if he can't really communicate with you? I'd vote no.
You both deserve better, even if that means being on your own. He's settled for you, and you deserve better than that.
Were you exclusive? Did you verbally clearly talk about it? You never called her your GF in the post.
Ew ew ew leave that immediately
Wow… I can’t imagine someone putting me in the situation of having to choose between a parent who has fallen severely ill or them. So sorry you’re going through this.
Dude… you suck. Too much of a coward to own that the true MVP of this story was decent enough to let you go, you had to drag her down and besmirch her name?
I’m so sorry. Drugs make people do crazy things, and you say she’s using. You don’t deserve that, but realize these people she’s hanging with are absolute scum. Also realize that she didn’t choose this loser guy; rather, she chose drugs, and he gives them to her. One day (if she lives long enough) she’ll be the humiliated one when she realizes what she so carelessly threw away. One day you will be with someone who actually deserves you.
I’m glad that you have separated you ‘righteous’ fustian from my apparently ‘repugnant’ distain. And for the record, you could opt out of fossil fuels it would just be very inconvenient…but if all of you climate warrior brothers and sisters were to stop…?
Idk about you… maybe it’s fake? Who keeps something like that.
That was a pretty horrible thing, no doubt
Updateme!
Never let her babysit again just hire a professional babysitter next time
She isn't “making it seem like he did something wrong”. He, in fact, did something wrong.
Congratulations on posting the most useless comment. I’m trying to see if I’m overthinking. How about you act like a grownup and stop being so brain dead.
I think this is the silver bullet OP. I think your wife has been dicking around behind your back. I would be asking these questions and demanding to see her entire phone. Even if nothing pops up, I would probably be getting ready to talk to a divorce attorney
You can't start a real relationship with someone who says you have to change first.
Sorry, he isn't the guy for you.
I agree with you ?
Yes! And I even said no I don't want to get involved. He basically made me get involved now I'm stuck in a shit place
Leave him alone and move on. Don’t poop where you eat.
This sounds like an unhealthy relationship.
Would it be wrong if I asked him to stay with his parents for a few days? I'm extremely lonely and depressed about this. I'm married but feel so lonely. I want a few days in the apartment by myself. I asked him to get rid of the console completely and he said no because “what if I get rid of it and you leave anyways?” That means, in my opinion, he doesn't see a problem with it. he's just doing it because of me and he doesn't see it as an addiction.
Stop putting yourself through this. Definitely does not seem to be mixed signals, he’s just outright being a dick. He seems to really be enjoying hurting you.
Deal breaker. Get rid of her and go see your doctor immediately.
Man, I didn’t even read that last part. Omg, OP run! He’s not worth it.
I need a link
Attraction is somewhat important. I'd be careful not to lead him on, and you did great so far from what I see. I'd stay a bit more distant if I were you, unless he is experienced in relationships and can learn to adjust to your boundaries. He seems grateful for “young” attention and using his resources to “improve” your standard of living or take care of you. If that is not you, make that clearer, even if you have to stop talking to him. Seems he is fantasizing of marriage and the whole enchilada and you hardly know each other. Unfortunately, that is bad sign, imo, very bad.
It doesn't happen for many, but I think the best chances for a good relationship require more attraction than you have for him. He could find another young'n in hot minute if he is looking for someone to take care off and not just flailing about, i.e. he can be attracted to another real easily, so let him go find that someone.
It seems tough finding a decent friendship online only to have it turn a bit sour, pushy and weird, but he did state his hopes for marriage and such, so that is him stating his purpose in spending time with you (nice to be upfront). Your move now.
Well you just said your parents always told you you should be able to choose who you like and not be forced to marry.
So if G and E like each other, it’s not their fault. Why force G to be with you and shame E?
Move on and find someone who like you for who you are. G is not the dude.
First: friends don’t exchange nudes at all. Period. You just assumed her being your friend reflects a trajectory towards a romantic relationship. We run into this scene too much, unfortunately.
Second: you can’t read the room, apparently. Your nudes attempt was shut down so you follow it up with her favorite sex position? Crude, oafish, & desperate.
Third: after she demurred from trading nudes, you sent one anyway. You literally don’t listen. The babbling about how she was warned & not obligated to look means nothing. No respect, no class, won’t listen.
Ultimately, you’re untrustworthy, manipulative, & not even a friend. Leave her be.
Asking him to pay more rent is only okay if he's offered to split things differently. Just because someone makes more doesn't automatically mean he's supposed to pay more rent. That's something you decide AS A TEAM.
You're pissed that you're making less and that's not on him. You don't get to “claim” money from him just because you're dating.
I don't think it's fair that he earns more than me for working less yet the bills are still 50/50 that doesn't sit right with me.
I’m betting with you , or a micro p
Why can't you go to family?
Thr lesson to be learned is Dont ask questions you don't want answers too.
She is with you not them is all you need to know.
What you can ask is you did x with him, why not me?
You want to withdraw from the relationship but without taking any blame for it.
You need to divorce.
YOUR HUSBAND IS A RAPIST.
I don’t think you understand how toxic what her bf did is. She was excited to have a rare opportunity at work and he assumes it’s just another dude trying to get into her panties; it wasn’t a legitimate learning opportunity at all – more like a date. Now he’s got into his head that this guy is a threat and he is going to interrogate her about their every interaction. You don’t understand why she’d want to avoid that?
She was wrong to lie, they’re both toxic, but her reasons were sound. The best thing for her to do would be to move on and never look back. But it looks like she doesn’t value herself, maybe she was always like that, maybe he’s already worn her down.
So what advice do you want? You just posted feeling numb and that you believe anything you are told.
I'm getting serious stalker vibes from that move with the ring.
good fucking god.
Jesus this is awful
GF, your parents are abusive. Your BF owes them diddly squat. Nothing. Not a thing. They’re bad people. They abused your BF. You allowed this to happen. The disrespect is insane.
You need to let it go. It really is none of your business. It was before you. He doesn't owe you the details of those encounters and from what it sounds doesn't remember them all anyway. Stop fixating on things he did with other people before you. He I assume has tested clean and yall have been together 5 years. You're doing nothing but hurting yourself and relationship with trying to force this conversation over and over again.
(and yeah my SO was with a good number of people and I was a virigin when we met. I have never once asked him about his past relationships and don't plan to ever. he shared the very basics but not even all of that and I am more than happy to leave that in the past where it belongs. it in no way impacts our life together)
That was no accident. Hopefully your a better parent to your daughter. And maybe your husband can hook up with her friends when she’s 18…. On a different note keep up updated.
Before telling him see if you can find a way to bring up sex workers… mention you don’t think there is shame in sex workers… or sex worker rights… something of that sort. Gauge his reaction.
I would still wait a little longer… make sure you have a bit of funds saved in case work gets awkward.
You don’t want to wait too long but also this is your private information, so you should know you can trust anyone you give this info to.
When you do tell him, make sure to ask if you can talk about something a bit serious about your past. Ask him that if you tell him, can you trust him with the information and not to tell anyone, even if things don’t work out. Get active agreement here. Tell him your worries..”I am afraid you will think less of me or be mad at me. I know you may need time to process and think but at this point I trust you and think you deserve to know part of my past.” Wait for acknowledgment “I used to work as an escort. I haven’t for some time …”
Oh OK that makes total sense. That’s what we have to do so good luck to you.
Oh yeah, sorry. Completely okay now /s
It's a pity that Amanda doesn't resent you enough to cut ties with you on her own. That would make it a lot easier on everyone, her included.
Look, you need to accept that your relationship with Amanda was never meant to be. It sucks for her, and you can bet that it has left issues and emotional scars, but… It is what it is. The past is the past, you can't change it. If I were Amanda, I would just forget you exist rather than create this Frankenstein monster of a father/daughter relationship.
There is nothing that you can do for Amanda because you can't undo the past.
What you can do is avoid creating a second Amanda in Kelly. You already missed her birth, so you're starting off strong king ?
Well yes, but that goes counter to what she currently wants. If she wants more kids she's out, which makes more sense than having another child in the hopes OP warms up to the idea after the fact. But of course, if she changes her mind and invalidates the central point of conflict, then yes everything would be fine. Minus the need to improve communication.
This is the most reddit “she was asking for it” post I've ever seen. . I'm calling troll.
If OP is trying to be funny whilst dealing with that weird horror of “we can't figure out what is wrong but something is definitely wrong.” Not a doctor, but there's liver, pancreas, gall-bladder, kidneys in terms of digesting. And it takes a disgusting amount of time and energy and appointments to narrow down which of those organs is failing at their job.
No because if she vomits she could choke and die
Go through all your paperwork and vendors – you might lose some deposits but there might be “day of” costs that you can avoid by cancelling some parts of it? Obviously it will depend on each vendor and contracts, etc., but it's worth a shot – you might be able to cancel enough or restrict enough to “only” deposits that you can scrape together something for a rental.
In some organizations, they have Equal Employment Opportunity office, which is usually a subgroup of HR, sometimes not. Normally? Sexual harassment cases will be investigated. We have new trainings that have popped up over the last year. Say I was a coworker and saw their behavior in my organization, I could file a case against them. Is there a policy that prohibits employees from dating or being in relationships? Their employer may have different rules. However, getting involved with coworkers is never good. You still have to still work with them after the dalliance ends. Awkward, and if in your case what trust would you have with your BF? He would see her every day. One of them would have to leave their job or be reassigned if the workplace is big enough to distance them.
Wow that just sucks. This may be where you rethink the relationship. At 18 and having limited experience it may be that he has no understanding of mutual satisfaction in everything to maintain a healthy partnership. You are young so being vocal about the unfairness and standing up to his failures by saying no more. I learned it is better when both partners peak together and it can take time and effort to achieve. If unsuccessful you should seek a new partner
No, it’s not. Your personal experience doesn’t define what is common or rare.
Thank you so much for your reply.
It is naked to read that he is zapping all the joy out of things I used to love but your are right … unfortunately.
Do you have any advice how I start a conversion with him about this without him going in his ignore phase? I am afraid to talk to him and be ignored for the next days – feeling bad about it and wanting to fix it. (omg, while I am writing this I realize how stupid I am…).
Sometimes he also says some strange things like “If you would leave me …” – not that he would hurt me or anything, but kind of he would be thinking about this (btw, always I am leaving in his statement, not him).
He’s not really breaking up with you. It’s just a game to make you desperate so he can have even more control over you. Please please block and don’t let him in when he invariably comes around.
Exactly. It’s often the case that the son will work on the farm and then inherit it one day. My cousin is in the same boat. Difference is he gets on with his parents, and when he got married they moved out of the main house and into a smaller cottage on the farm, the same as his grandparents did previously, so the new generation could online in the farmhouse.
This is obviously not the case here, with the added fun of the mother sounding like a nightmare to online with.
Yeah i think you're right, i just didn't want this to be an option because i really enjoy making my friends lives easier, but i do understand that if i continue like this it'll just foster resentment and i dislike that more than just cooling off.
And you are still with him because … ? He's a violent, narcissistic bully and you don't deserve that. SECRETLY plan your exit strategy and leave.
Yeah— break up with him and get counseling.
Controlling behavior won't stop a man from cheating or leaving.
Problems in relationship are inevitable. However, if your partner's reactions is to go cosy up to a person that makes you greatly uncomfortable, then you should know this is not who you want to be with. Even if this argument was your fault, this is not how she should act. If she wants to start something with him, she should properly break up with you.