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Date: September 25, 2022
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[and, no, she's not going to want to have sex with you because you do more housework no matter what people here say.]
Well, that depends on how exhausted she is. If she is doing night feedings, housework, laundry, marketing, cooking, cleanup, bathing kids, and so on, it is possible that she is simply “tapped out” at the end of the day. Stepping up to do more household chores can provide some relief so there's more energy left at the end of the day.
I wasn't able to have kids but I also did most of the housework, marketing, bill-paying, cooking, laundry, yard work, car maintenance, etc. I was working a full-time job too. When I was put on mandatory overtime, working 80+ hours a week, I just couldn't any more. My husband got up for work after I left for work and I got home hours after he did. So he started doing more around the house which really helped.
I always figured I was immature in regards to relationships because I've only been in two other relationships and they only last a year. I didn't date much between those two either. My last relationship was with a physically and verbally abusive partner, so this one was a relief up until he started treating me like this..
Started dating at 20 vs 28 – he probably enjoys the power dynamic and is pushing boundaries and ignoring/disrespecting OP as he keeps moving the goalpost of what is acceptable.
Bruh him and his wife “are cool”? People are often cool with cheating ? make sure everyone who wants to inform her is in agreed regarding how to do it, who tells her and how you support her going forward; no need to separately stab her with this news it’s gonna suck enough.
I broke up with you. I wish you the very best.
You: Can we still be friends?
Her:
You: can we still be friends?
Her:
You: Can we still be friends?
Her: *crickets*
You: I don't understand. Can we still be friends?
Her: Going out and about living her life.
You: So, we're friends?
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Break up with him immediately. You don’t even have to discuss the reasons why you are ending things.
Hey we get it, sometimes shooting your shot doesn't work. Better luck next time champ
What problems lead you to break up?
I'll lay out the solution to this simply. You need to leave her. That's all.
Leave him asap and file for custody and child support.
LOL how stupid do you have to be?
Have these meetups never been specifically called out as dates? Is there flirting or any romantic progress whatsoever? She may be signalling that she doesn't want that – or that she just prefers not feeling indebted to someone. Either way you have to specifically tell her that you're interested in dating and growing your relationship.
Be prepared for rejection of course. Thats just the way it goes.
Agreed, I think both are very important things to consider.
Thanks, I really have no need of any advice, especially from a random person with dubious taste. And I'm coping perfectly well in a happily porn-free life. I just reacted in shock that you think a woman might find it normal to be compared to a porn star, as if they should be the ones to set an “example” (to quote you).
And it is not triggering to be faced with the prospect that a lot of guys aren't into short hair, not at all. I wear my hair the way I want, nice and short because it's much more practical, and I don't give two hoots to what any guy might think. The shock is solely because you set up porn stars as some kind of example to be followed.
Why is he still your boyfriend? Kick that dipshit boy
Ma'am, i love you
I think the age gap is a bit much at that age really. The main issue being maturity. She's barely out of her teen years and is just starting adulthood while you've got 8 years (your entire experience of adulthood) on her. I dated a 19yo when I was 23, biiiiig fucking mistake despite the fact we were both working full time and living fully independent adult lives. He was suuuuper immature and ended up horribly abusive to me and it took me 7 years to leave. Now, I am 32 dating a 26yo and even still the maturity and experience gap is noticable to me and not fun. I feel like I have to guide him in how to healthily deal with relationship issues because he just isn't as experienced as me (although as a woman dating men this seems to be the same issue women dating men their own age or older deal with anyway to be fair).
All in all, I wouldn't recommend it.
First of all you need to apologize. You were hurt and you lashed out. You felt betrayed so you couldn't talk about it then okay. But you two have to talk about this. It is very possible that there was no lying or manipulation. As people get older their feelings about having kids can change a lot for a lot of reasons.
Look, it’s tough to know who to trust these days. But let me tell ya something, Internet strangers ain’t exactly known for having their sh*t together. Your fam is probably a better source of wisdom than some rando on this godforsaken website. But hey, if you wanna argue with people on the internet about sexism and gender roles, knock yourself out.
Ah, Italian women… They'll break your heart!
Ecaf, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you), often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
Ecaf, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
It's not cheating but if you're playing on it for many hours rather than give your girlfriend attention, reduce the hours and do things with your girl
Flow chart for buying a house with someone. Are you legally married? No. Then don’t buy a house together. End of the flow chart.
He needs to know and he should probably get a paternity test.
He just assumed I'd stay living in the apartment we have now and kept asking why can't we just live! separate…
After living together as a couple 6 years of your 10 year relationship? What an idiot. You've made his choices clear, let him make the one you know he's gonna and let him go. He's wasted a decade of your young life already.
It isn't concerning that she asked, or that she would be interested. I get why that would make you nervous, but people can be curious about things they have no intention to actually try, generally because the consequences are not ones they want to have to deal with under any circumstances. What would concern me would be how quickly she denied it and claimed to be joking. She could intend to be faithful and just wanted to disavow her interest in order to keep you from being suspicious, a more suspicious way to do it has yet to be found but people are dumb all the time. But if she can't come to you and assure you that even if she is mildly curious, it isn't something she is willing to threaten your relationship over and she would far rather have you around every day and feeling secure in your relationship than to have any cheap thrill, then I'd be a bit nervous about her feelings too. Communication cures all, even when one side is feeling curious or left out, because it shows consideration, and that they know what they would be losing for that curiosity. It also shows she isn't terribly afraid of hiding things, even if she is terrible at it.
Big hugs, you're welcome.
It sounds like you already admitted to it, but yes, you sound way too needy. I suspect that neediness or clinginess is one of the biggest turn offs for a woman which could be why she is hesitant to commit to you. Since you already have this self-reflection going on, you need to let her know that you recognize it and that you're working on it.