Did you ask to look through it? If my partner asked to go through my phone then I'd find it really really off putting and a big red flag, but if he refused to give me his passcode then I'd also see that as a (much smaller) issue. Our arrangement is that we have access to each other's phones for e.g. getting onto Google maps while driving, checking things at the specific request of the other, etc. but we would absolutely consider it a violation if we found the other one just scrolling through our messages of their own accord (sometimes we'll show each other a chat, but that's obviously a completely different situation).
It means Batman shaped cuff links and a subtle pattern tie that fits the theme. He’s not going to show up with a cape.
Did you ask to look through it? If my partner asked to go through my phone then I'd find it really really off putting and a big red flag, but if he refused to give me his passcode then I'd also see that as a (much smaller) issue. Our arrangement is that we have access to each other's phones for e.g. getting onto Google maps while driving, checking things at the specific request of the other, etc. but we would absolutely consider it a violation if we found the other one just scrolling through our messages of their own accord (sometimes we'll show each other a chat, but that's obviously a completely different situation).