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Yeah essentially. It was going on for half an hour until I decided to leave to call and not talk to her for a while.
You made your decision, stick by it. Tell your mum to butt out. Find a nice guy who treats you as a priority.
People are mercenaries of comfort in the name of self love fr
What does this mean?
Sorry if it came across that way, I just meant without knowing everything and assuming things IF that’s what’s she’s doing then that’d be the case.
I wholeheartedly agree with your comment with my own personal take on it.
I'm not sure why you are getting downvoted, as a sa survivor, i agree met him in his comfortable space, be a willing ear but most importantly, just be there. I am friends with several sa survivors, everyone's “support” can look different and that's ok. For men specifically, it's OK to express concern for his emotions and let him know he saved you and acknowledge that he paid a price for that. Affirm his masculinity and let him know he's not alone. It's also ok to seek support for yourself. Care and well wishes for you both.
Who ever had the idea of the date supposed to pay
In the case where both sides are very selfish and unstable there is nothing much that can be said. You are free to do whatever you want with your money. She is free to name her own child coming out of her womb as whatever she pleases. Both of you are asking something from the other without giving up anything in return. Even just listening to you talk about your legacy and making this all about yourself kind of just find it hot to find any justification for you. That's why I think both of you are selfish. You can both respect each other's freedom or make a compromise or fight without any compromises. Honestly even if either of you had different partners, most people wouldn't be able to tolerate the level of selfishness to stay in the relationship. I think this is something both of you could work on. Stop making it about me, me, me.
You can't “accidentally” cheat.
Well. That shit is for him to deal with, he shouldn't have put it on you. You'd probably be none the wiser if you didn't know, most people won't be critical to your face.
However, if they are, that'll be good to know, it means your potential in-laws are an impediment to your future together. Sadly, family is a consideration when it comes to staying with a partner.
I will say I understand your boyfriend's position to some extent, it's a lot of pressure if he's witnessed a lot of criticism of people that don't conform to his family's standards. Doesn't make what he did right, but it does provide some context.
I suggest you sit down for a moment and list out what you need to cross the commitment line. That's a question of what is important to you.
The act of putting it into words on paper clarfies your thoughts and is someting you then take to the conversation. If you want to date for a extended period of time to ensure your making the right choice, there is nothing wrong with that. Be able to state that and give your reasons.
Mold on toast ain’t even that bad. You can cut around it and the rest of the bread is still relatively good
You're friends. Be reasonable in your expectations, don't expect perfection from a human being.
It can.
Yep. 100% correct.
That's so weird because you're practically the same age. Could she be trying to flirt, badly?
Why in the world this has 500+ downvotes is beyond me. Don’t answer questions I guess. Glad you’re okay OP!
I wouldn't say necessarily that it is “controlling”, as it doesn't sound they are doing it to control you, rather he is just geniunely uncomfortable with you carrying out roleplay romantic relationships with other people.
I also wouldn't necessarily say that you are selfish, you two just have different views on roleplaying games and relationship roleplay in particular.
There may be a compromise where you both come to an understanding of what is and isn't okay. It all depends on how much you want romantic roleplay and how much he doesn't want romantic roleplay.
If you are really not okay with stopping and he really isn't okay with it happening then breaking up might be the most healthy solution.
Leave , if you can’t imagine the next 10 years with her it’s because you don’t want them.
Also your friend isn’t wrong, she is abusing you emotionally, the age difference meant nothing when you started dating but when you have an opinion it suddenly matters?!?!
This is completely a You problem, and you are the only one who can address it.
The thing is, how you view this guy/situation is a symptom of your disease. There are always going to be flirty people. There are always going to be people your girlfriend (or any girlfriend) is going to find attractive. That's just human. I'm not saying your girlfriends will cheat etc., I'm just saying that just because people are in relationships they are not suddenly struck blind. There are attractive people on the planet, some will flirt with your SO. Some might even hit on her. There is ZERO you can do about that – but you can do something about how you react to it.
If you don't get a handle on your insecurities and anxieties, this will undermine not only this relationship but every one you have after.
The only thing I can suggest is, recognize that even if the absolutely worse thing that could happen does happen (whatever that may be to you) you will recover. It will suck and then you will eventually be fine. The world will not end. You will handle it. If you can believe in your own resilience, then these fears won't have as much control over you.
If this is truly tearing you up, I suggest you find a therapist to talk about your esteem issues.
Good luck OP.
Do you ever say that to him? Also your edit screams immaturity. Don't post on the internet if you can't take the fact that people aren't always going to pick your side.
That’s because Narcissistic people who were groomed into it by a Narcissistic parents, do not do well when others are getting their supply from their main source… which is Op.
Trust me, I have an Ex with NPD & his mother is a full blown Narc Parent.
She was verbally abusive to her husband and made him beat the kids as punishment if they got anything below a B. She drained all his money in the divorce and he even had to cash out a pension bond to cover the cost of money he had to give her. This left his two children, my ex and his sister, with NOTHING!
Narcs also make family trama and tragic situations about them, ESPECIALLY if it has nothing directly to do with them! They have severe victim mentality and will gaslight you if you question anything to fact check them on their own upbringing that doesn’t add up to the present situation.
Narcs parents have a golden child, the favorite they spoil rotten. Hence why Op’s wife has been turned into a Narc.
She’s no empath, she’s a covert narcissistic human whose mask just finally fell off in front of Op and he’s FINALLY seeing who she truly is.
It’s only falling off cause she’s locked Op in and he won’t leave. If he tries, she will say things to manipulate him to stay because he’s the main supply. A Narc hates to be discarded but if you discard them? They will do some crazy sh-t like smear campaign’s for starters.
Op doesn’t realize if he doesn’t get out now, he’s about to experience Narc rage if he keeps questioning her behavior or keeps telling her to cut her dad off.
Narcs do not like getting told to do logical emotional intelligent sh-t because they do not have empathy for others. They have mimicked it, but don’t actually feel it. Hence why sociopaths are the only people on the planet to break a Narc and get them to fall in line, to stop their BS. No one else can.
You didn’t give enough information about the purchase of the property.
Are you investing in the property? Investing means 1) down payment, 2) your credit is used for the purchase, which would make you both liable for 3) taxes, 4) insurance and 5) maintenance and upkeep.
If you don’t invest in the property then he’s right not to put you on the title. In that case, he would be legally responsible for everything but you would be legally responsible for nothing but your would have equity in the home. In other words, you would have all the benefit and none of the legal responsibility.
With respect to him wanting you to pay, there is nothing wrong with that. You will have to pay rent somewhere. You just don’t get to on-line for free because he’s your boyfriend.
There is more to homeownership than the mortgage. What you should NOT contribute to is the taxes, insurance, renovations, or maintenance and upkeep. He’ll have equity so he should be solely responsible for that.
The internet. Inconsistencies in conversation. It's stupid shit but it adds up.
You are 100% correct true. THAT part I can't solve. Shallow people are shallow. But, if that's the person you WANT to stay married to, there's the price. Your mileage may vary.
It is NOT “helping you” it's doing his fair share of the work. You need to see a marriage counselor because right now you're being treated like a glorified bang-maid and this IS disrespectful, using, relationship-ending behavior. For now? Quit with the work. Make sure you have enough saved up to buy food for yourself, one meal at a time, when the groceries run out, and just STOP. Wash your clothes but if you run out of detergent? Get pods, leave them in the car, and only take out what you need for a single load. Are the bills in both names or just his? Any bill in his name, don't worry about making sure it's paid. Just…stop. It'll drive you nuts to be in a filthy house for awhile, but once he finally starts doing his share, make sure you do NOT get caught in the “doing it all” trap again. Don't assume you should make supper, don't do his laundry, don't pick up the living room, and if the kitchen gets messy, get yourself a single plate/bowl/spoon/cup and wash and use as needed. Put 99% of the work on him for a few months and let him see how much work that absolutely is. Give couples counseling a try, then see if he's happy wallowing in filth…and this is relationship-ending if he doesn't improve 🙁
This is about none of you taking responsibility for the risk of getting pregnant. And this also weighs more on your gf, who will carry the child and push it out. You aren't financially stable to have a child. And your gf still wants to on-line out before getting kids. You knew from the start and now will resent her if she gets an abortion? With this mindset, OP, you should leave. Don't look back and be with someone that might match you better. You actually managed to annoy me a little.
You don’t tell him until you are safely out of the house
Well don’t pay for him. He sounds unhinged and quite like a jerk. If you can’t evict him immediately, Don’t nicely provide anything to him. You Asking a question and him being a child regarding and blaming you for HIS Mood is just beyond illogical.
He was not only endangering your life he was endangering other people who could have been on the road. You don’t deserve this treatment. And the man child’s response is his own.
This guy is not a match for you. He knew that and chose to hide it from you.
That's why you shouldn't feel bad ending this. He's done this to himself by not being up front.
I think he would enjoy a bj
She did? Where did she say that at?
It. Doesn’t. Matter. In fact I think if it was because of racism having the dog there again is just giving said racist even more reason to evict him. But at the end of the day whether race is a factor or not is irrelevant. You want your boyfriend to risk eviction for absolutely no good reason
You traded one addiction for another in a way. This relationship clearly is not working, and has turned from fun into harmful, but you still want to go back and give yet another try. Why? Good relationships take work but are not a chore. This one is a chore.
You know the answer and you have received several good suggestions as to find out. Question is do you already have enough proof?
The fact that you need aftercare after the sex you both have is the first red flag. If you don't feel amazing after sex, something is wrong.
The fact that you guys have sex but no intimacy, is another red flag. Is it worth to be in a relationship where the sex that's equally rewarding as a one-night stand?
The fact that he doesn't care about you, regardless of whether you need aftercare or not and just goes on about his day reminds me more of when someone masturbates and goes on about their day instead of a couple that just had pleasure together.
My boyfriend needs affection on his own all the time. Why doesn't yours?