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Or we also know women who pay they ex hubs alimony. So it's not just women who benefit, but you'd have to experience that to know it occurs.
ngl id feel disrespected too, you should just reiterate to her that you arent comfortable with them having contact and if she tries to step over your boundaries again you know where her feelings on this lies
But this is my whole point. I don't see these things as different at all, and it strikes me as hypocrisy that you do. You have a bunch of reasons you feel like it's different, just like OP had a bunch of reasons why he felt like what he did wasn't a big deal, because it's not a big deal to
him
Yesss. Personally I really cannot fathom why somebody could feel so hurt by their boyfriend liking 5 IG pictures of models in lingerie over the course of 2 yrs. I relly can't but I'm not OP's girlfriend and I haven't had her experiences, so it's not my place to judge. But it feels very hypocritical to say it's wrong for OP to do this but it would be totally different for a woman (or anyone) to constantly thirst over hot celebrities in front of their partner at the expense of their self confidence.
Honestly I think the bigger issue here is not just the weight its the feeling I give so much (financial, effort around the house, appearance) and I hardly ask for anything in return, but the few things I do ask for, like to stick to a commitment she made when we met, it's ignored, kind of like I have no right to ask for it.
I make a bit more than twice what my wife makes and mine is a quite physical job. We split our bills based on what we can each afford and the housework is fairly split. That is how a good relationship should be. Not necessarily 50/50 all the time but a fair split based on what you each are comfortable doing. I do not like doing laundry and she does not really like to cook so guess who does each of those things – lol. The split is not based at all on money.
Yes. You’re being groomed.
She was his last choice according to op so he did not have every option under the sun
How long have you been dating? How often do you see this child? What are your future plans with their parent? Do you live! together?
Well that's really fucking sad.
Chinese ? Superior? Then why is she here? Tell her to go back to China ?
People having it worse than you doesn't mean you should stay. There's isn't a threshold of suffering that's acceptable. I guess that's the therapist's frustration, you seem aware that you deserve better but aren't taking the steps to get there. It's never going to be easy or feel right, but no one can do it for you. And maybe your therapist just feels like they've done all they can, you want to keep them you will have to start taking some steps yourself.
It’s not sexual or anything relationship wise. It’s just a face. Typically its more like it is what it is. Nothing to read into
Gaslighting might be in reference to a stage play and movie, but the term was used in psychology in the 1960s. It wasn't until the 1990s that it gained popularity outside of psychology.
Rip the bandaid.
I love being around him, just not when it gets sexual. How did I humiliate him? By clearly communicating why I was uncomfortable?
Hey there. I’m sorry you’re habit I go through this, it really sucks when the person you want to be with just doesn’t make it easy or care. I think you should consider that this tiny little argument you had wasn’t really all that surprising to how she treats you. She isn’t kind to you, she kept leaving you for someone else. You should want someone kinder for you, someone that cares about how you feel. I hate saying this as well, but you should want someone that loves you. This woman is texting her ex behind your back… people that love someone don’t do that.
You have forgiven her multiple times over. I know I’m my personal experience I always have to hate the person for a little while to get over them because I just care so much lol
A healthier way to handle it is to go no contact and to reach out to people who support you and truly love you. Even if you’ve left them in the past, people can be good and supportive. Surrounding yourself with good people is so important for growth in yourself, you learn a lot about how to respect yourself. Focusing on yourself helps too. When’s the last time you did something for yourself because you wanted to be nice to yourself? Hobbies can also really help.
Eventually when the caring stops, you’ll realize this person isn’t for you. I hope that helps in some small way.
I dunoooo lmao. Your attacted to money and while thats okay for you, it isn't for some people. Doubt he'd like to know that too.
Start learning the language.
Dudes really aren't that shallow. I mean… Maybe you are… But most dudes aren't.
Beware, when you raise the issues you have with her laziness, she's going to bring up having a baby.
Don't fall for it.
Lawyer don’t take any advice from Reddit.
I don't even have to read the story to know. DON'T DO IT. SHE IS 18.
Are you willing to sacrifice your friendship to be FWB with her little sister? Because that’s most likely where this is headed.
Wait. If you think you are going to be serious with him, then you should tell him. But not while it’s not very serious and def not if you work together.
I’m 35. Your friend is right.
The grooming of young men is a very real concern — many people when they think of “grooming” only think of girls and women, but this issue still affects young men, especially in queer spaces.
There’s no good reason for a 19 year old to be dating anyone anywhere near the age of 40.
Block. Do not read his texts. Do not engage. Tell any friends that you might share with him that you have gone no contact with him and do not want any info about him. Do not feel any guilt!
He’s realised that he’s missing out on his ho phase and wants to catch up with others of his age. He’s probably listening to his mates regaling each other with tales of multiple sex partners and has got a dose of FOMO.
Do not open up your relationship just to “keep” him. It won’t work. In fact it will have the opposite effect. If he’s already lost his attraction to you, all that will happen is that he will fall for someone else and dump you down the line.
The only thing you can do is let him go and find yourself someone who wants to have sex with you.
You’re too young to be actively giving yourself heartbreak by staying in the hope he will get it out of his system and stay with you. He won’t. You’ve already lost him.
I realized this halfway through telling him. That what I was doing was more selfish then the act itself. To absolve myself. You’re 100% right.
It might be worth looking into TESE to see if there is any sperm that could be frozen for ICSI. (here a bipsy of the testicle is taken and the andrologist will look for sperm in the thr tubes). Get in touch with your clinic to see if they recommend a repeat in three months.
Have you been sick and had a severe fever in the last few months? Any antibiotics? Do you cycle or take hard baths or use saunas regularly? Have you ever used steroids or do you use any protein shake live! that may have steroids in it? (not saying there are steroids is not the same as there not being steroids). Did you have mumps or any other fever causing illness as a kid or teenager? Do you have both testicles, are they a normal size and are they both descended? Have you ever had a torsion?
Not all clinics are made equal so think about th de and tell your clinic in case they didn't ask.
Tell your partner straight away and comfort eachother, you're both young and have options but you need to work together and comfort eachother.
Dm if you have any andrology questions
sounds to me like the only reason you stayed friends with her is because you thought maybe you still had a shot at getting back together.
sounds like this is all on you and your lack of communicating any type of boundary with her and expecting her to read your mind.
i tell my friends I love them all the time and it doesn't mean I want them romantically.
you need to really think long and naked about your platonic relationship and the real reason you are friends with her because if you know for a fact she will never have romantic feelings for you would you still be hanging around?
and the thing you have to do is start communicating and stop expecting people to read your mind. if you don't want to have any communication or relationship with her then tell her that and block her. tell her that when you see each other you don't want any interaction with her.
This isn't a white lie. This is actual cheating. Stop lying to yourself. He is dating you and her.
Learn that every thought that pops into your head shouldn't pop out of your mouth.
you don't need counselling you need to dump your shitty boyfriend.
Then you can get counselling alone, if you want, to figure out why you think you should have a relationship like this.
Considering if the relationship has run its course is, all things considered, a sign that – considering all aspects of the relationship – the relationship has run its course.
If you had religious parents who were against same sex relationships would you subject your partner to that environment… blindly?
Or would you come out to your parents first and measure reaction.
Subjecting her girlfriend to this was a major error in judgement. I'm not saying it justifies the parents actions by any means (and honestly, who is to say what the hell happened exactly besides a rant).
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Thats normal. And please i have pelvic floor dysfunction with pain with sex. You just need tylenol, vaginal valium and baclofen
If you want to try counseling, that's completely up to you. But it currently doesn't sound like a safe situation for you so you and the kids should not be in the same place as her until she gets help.
Why not just chat with him & give him some pointers yourself? A bit of friendly guidance from someone who definitely isn't 'on the market' should be appreciated (and not be open to misinterpretation).
To be completely honest, and no offense to anyone, but men are notoriously awful at reading social queues and might actually have made a really dumb joke and is beyond embarrassed. I would be cautious but still try to talk to him about it to find out what was said.
It has to be.
There are almost 900 comments her at this point, so I'm just going to toss in this:
If you were watching two women, you were looking at gay porn.
All the very best to you for a future without this dead weight tying you down. Enjoy freedom.
Thanks for the advice. I heard he was creepy around my friends' girlfriends' as well at the party last night.
Honestly…why would he send them to another woman who is in a committed relationship? No other human being can help him rate a song? I say 95% sure these are for you.
Here's a pro tip- don't discuss the ups and downs of your love life or partner with a friend of a gender you date. With any friend, you have to walk the line between needing help and advice, and trashing your partner or disclosing private information with them, but especially with a friend who is someone whose gender you would date and vice versa. That's how almost every emotional affair starts. The one person tells the other about their problems and complaints about their partner, and then they get all warm and happy from having someone validate their complaints, and it becomes a direct comparison between your partner's actions, and how the new person tells you they would act. And the person doing all the bashing here can pretend it's not the start of anything because their argument is “I can't be doing anything wrong if I am telling them I have a partner.”
It’s “libido” and yeah, being on BC will lower it in many cases but they could add a med like Wellbutrin to offset the sexual side effects.
I personally (f) don't ask about it and when I'm dating someone I don't tell my partner much about what I have watched on my own time. I just feel like people deserve their privacy even in a relationship.
Most relationships at your age are temporary. Go do what you want to do.
Take a deep breath, OP. I'm about to suggest something that I myself probably wouldn't be able to do if I were in your place, feeling your perfectly-reasonable feelings. It's only as a distant observer that I can even conceive the response that I have in mind for you.
First, what is Constructive at such a moment??? Your grievances are legit, but they have no currency with your Ex, and HER takeaway, whatever it is, has no value to you either.
To me, “Constructive” would be YOUR takeaway. What did you learn about life, about love, and about yourself, that might be useful to you? Please understand, you asked for Constructive, and I see no other way to profit from this. Ready?
I suggest that you ask her, as the one who lost her to a rival, if she can suggest something about yourself, or your approach to dating, that you might improve upon. Tell her, this was a tough defeat for you, that you don't want to have to repeat this experience, and if she can help with that, it would be great.
There's a good chance you won't get much from her. What little you say about her breakup text suggests that you'll get one of those “It's not you, it's me” lines. Something like how she just couldn't get her Ex out of her head. So I suggest you be, not pushy, but a bit persistent. Accept her line, but again ask her for ANY ideas, suggestions, thoughts. Say again that she chose her Ex over you, and ask what thoughts crossed her mind while she was making that decision. With any luck, she will unload. Steel yourself for it, cuz, while I doubt that she'll be unkind, it may still be tough to read.
I totally agree that you were deceived, betrayed and misused. I'm very sorry for your loss, but this is the sort of person you're lucky you didn't wind up with.
Lol my partner found condoms in the car. She was rightfully on edge, but they had been placed there before I even met her.
Wishful thinking me thinking I’d need to plant condoms in several spots in case anything ever got freaky once upon a time.
They expire early next year. Condoms tend to last a few years.
Ignore the people saying leave her, before even considering that, just talk to her. Ask her what's going on, why she's not talking as much as usual, and why she's constantly talking to the AI instead
So you posted in relationship advice, to talk about what was basically a fling with a woman you met while traveling from country to country, knowing you aren't even pursuing a relationship, because you just wanted to say it left a sour taste in your mouth? Try mouthwash.
You and him are the lowest pieces of shit ever. Honestly, your post is awful. I was ok being the other woman? Seriously. You do realise he’s going to cheat on you too ???? if it’s not happening already. He’s probably still having sex with Jenna whenever he can. Once a cheater and all that jazz. Karma will give you a good serving, and i really hope Jenna is standing there laughing her ass off.
I feel like this is my only option. I really wanted us to be on civil terms, at least. Mark's entire family is very fond of Jenna, they grew up together so they anyway don't like me much and I know if I do this I will lose whatever relationship I currently have with my future in-laws.
I feel like this is my only option. I really wanted us to be on civil terms, at least. Mark's entire family is very fond of Jenna, they grew up together so they anyway don't like me much and I know if I do this I will lose whatever relationship I currently have with my future in-laws.
“Especially since I've gotten to know him.” Call me crazy but that doesn't imply a one-time run-in. Getting to know someone means that person is around. That they interact with each other. She shouldn't be letting that happen. I would NEVER take my wife somewhere that I know former sexual partners were hanging around. It's just wrong to put someone you care about in that position.
“Especially since I've gotten to know him.” Call me crazy but that doesn't imply a one-time run-in. Getting to know someone means that person is around. That they interact with each other. She shouldn't be letting that happen. I would NEVER take my wife somewhere that I know former sexual partners were hanging around. It's just wrong to put someone you care about in that position.
How am I and my fiancé creeps?
perhaps I have. I'll shut up, now.
Split up with him and don't ever have a threesome with someone who's also your boyfriend. It's never going to end well. And pretty much all guys watch porn… and many women too. It's wrong to watch it to excess as that's an addiction, but just watching a bit here and there is pretty normal. Definitely move on. Learn from this experience, get yourself some help and support to work through past traumas, and set boundaries early on in your next relationship. Good luck.