It sounds like your boyfriend is still stuck in some sort of hookup culture/mindset. From how you describe his interactions with his buddies, it’s pretty clear that he sees interactions with women as things to be collected, coveted, and then cast aside.
Make no mistake, if you are conventionally attractive, this man sees you as a collectible. He views having sex with you as some sort of social win. He doesn’t care about you as a person, he just wants to fuck huh, show you off, and brag to his buddies.
Don’t give these men the time of day. Find a man who likes you for who you are, not what you look like.
It sounds like your boyfriend is still stuck in some sort of hookup culture/mindset. From how you describe his interactions with his buddies, it’s pretty clear that he sees interactions with women as things to be collected, coveted, and then cast aside.
Make no mistake, if you are conventionally attractive, this man sees you as a collectible. He views having sex with you as some sort of social win. He doesn’t care about you as a person, he just wants to fuck huh, show you off, and brag to his buddies.
Don’t give these men the time of day. Find a man who likes you for who you are, not what you look like.