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This is going to sound harsh but get over yourself. He doesn't feel comfortable yet and needs time to feel ok don't push it.
If you two are both happy, tell everyone else to fuck off.
Kick her out and bite the bullet on child support since it seems you're now her meal ticket unless you're ok with that.
Wasn’t that way with my husband. He had to watch every sports event possible. So, felt neglected. Has to plan and even postpone celebrating birthdays, anniversaries, etc. due to something running into overtime.
Boundaries are for our own actions, not others’
End it its over
It is your brother and his girlfriend causing the tension not your girlfriend.
But if you are willing to break up with her because of it you probably should as she deserves to be with somebody that cares more about her.
All you have to do is say something like “I like it because we only do it in the bedroom, you doing it all the time is starting to make it lose its luster, instead of getting physical with me to show me how you feel, try whispering about me being a bad girl or something verbal that allows my imagination to get me riled up by bed time”
I’m a man and this literal same thing happened with me and my wife, I was just trying to be more of what she likes but it was too much. Easy mistake and harmless once talked about and steps took to make it better.
Romance novels are the best sellers because women like to use their imagination, us men can’t take that from them or things aren’t as fun anymore.
Hope that helps
After reading some of your replies to others, you need to decide what you want more, your current bf, or to be able to get some peace and quiet and respect in your life.
I mean, I don't exactly agree. But men have been outsmarting women since the beginning of time so, it's not exactly a baseless claim.
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I heard this is illegal 'husband stitch'?
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So people like to emotionally perform at funerals. My SIL did this. It was not sincere at all… just staged drama for attention.
I hope this doesn't describe your case, but maybe that's what your boyfriend thought of you.
Perhaps he wanted you to be dignified and composed in your grief.
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Thank you for this, it's very rational which I feel is rare. You're right, they are separate issues so I shouldn't lump them together. The more I think about it, I feel bothered about this whole in depth life talk that she had with her coworker because I feel as the one she'd be having the kid with, that conversation should happen with me. There were some things that she said they talked about, some of her fears/concerns she was having, and she hasn't shared those with me. So that struck a nerve. But I just have to accept that this is something I don't have experience with, so I shouldn't take issue with her getting reassurance from someone else.
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Ask yourself, because you are the one who typed that.
Did he tell you not to talk to him anymore out of frustration for being woken up? I don’t think asking people not to call late at night is controlling, it is a courtesy. Why was your friend calling at 130am? How long was your phone call? Was it an emergency? Did it wake your BF up?
He said in another comment that it’s something she bought at Whole Foods, chances are it’s not dangerous or very effective.
Hey, you are a smart and caring person and we believe in you. You deserve good treatment, and what you're describing is not good treatment. I can 100% promise you that you will be happier with your lovely dog, and not him.
Sound the war horn!
Maybe I should
I can agree about the manipulation to a point. But he’s also like this with all of his friends. I don’t think anybodys feelings should be invalidated when they’re hurt, but I’m also not just a friend, I’m his girlfriend so I would think my feelings would matter to him a lot. I also don’t think he knows how to have a long time girlfriend in general I guess. I’m the longest relationship he’s had since he was young and the only one to on-line with him, but it seems sometimes like he wants to keep our relationship surface level and I don’t know how to handle that.
and I know he has changed because before he had a word to say on everything – what i am wearing, who i am spending time with, what i do on my free time etc. Nothing was good for him. Now, he doesn’t have an opinion on LITERALLY EVERYTHING.
Wait. Your Mom is STILL THERE??? Get a nanny and send her home, FFS. Your wife went through a HORRIFIC pregnancy/birth and came home to a husband who started talking about wanting more kids and the MIL from hell. And you're on reddit complaining about her attitude. Yeesh.
I've had a similar thing happen; please don't get back together with him. If you do, you will NEVER be able to trust him again, and that will eat away at you. You deserve someone who doesn't dump you every time they want to get their dick wet.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Here's the thing; work isn't something you normally do for fun. It is a means of sustenance and is a life necessity. You don't work, you don't eat. Your working environment should be as comfortable and stress free as possible. If you have a coworker that is toxic, controlling, manipulative, and generally creepy that is disrupting that homeostasis, then that shit needs to be reported. In a situation like this, you always need to be looking out for yourself. Seriously, don't be afraid to report people like this in the future. Especially if you're concerned about their mental health.
To answer your main prompt, if you've already quit, then it's kinda too late to be concerned on whether or not you left on good terms because, well, you already left.
I am ready to admit that our start was not only unconventional, but also unhealthy, and that we should have taken that trauma more seriously from the start. Cutting contact is not an option for the time being due to reasons that evade our control. I don't want to just be strangers, I'd like to ask her how she's doing, how's she's feeling. I want to know if it's normal to have contact with her right now, albeit our situation has changed and I am fully aware of that.
Well she has already graduated at least once, this is at least her second time to graduate. This appears to be the brothers first wedding.
Well she has already graduated at least once, this is at least her second time to graduate. This appears to be the brothers first wedding.
As someone who has worked in HR and also seen a stress related breakdown on the job: STFU, you don't seem to know anything about the topic.
Unless you are a professional who is examining the husband, you can't tell anyone something is fraudulent.
Cut the internet off. He isn't prioritizing the needs to the house or you.
Yeah any relationship that starts off with an 18 year old dating a 15 year is cursed af.
Just going to counselling is not enough. Also, your dad’s advice sucks. Yes, hold off on the marriage, but break up? Really? During a pregnancy? This should really be a time for her to be enjoying the process, gearing up for the baby, and instead you are dropping the emotional support you should be giving her and upsetting her.
Think really very hot about why you are doing this. You loved her enough to make a baby. This sounds more like commitment issues.
And if you do break up, for heaven’s sake don’t start dating immediately. Just focus on yourself and being a good father to the child.
To be honest, I usually never cum when he gives me oral. He doesn’t know… but it’s different for us! The penetration from sex is enough for me as long as my man is satisfied. I will definitely be sweeter about it next time and just try again. I didn’t realize the more I got demotivated, the more it pressures him and stresses him out too.
What you didn’t mention, and is very hot to even type, is she liked the sex and the feelings better than with op. Because, quite simply, if the sex and the feelings was bad she would have felt more guilty and ended it immediately. This is the knife in the heart.
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Pull away from your sister and speak up for yourself. Your baby is number one to YOU and that’s all that matters. If you want to spend time with mom invite her to your place or private lunches. Make it clear it’s just time for the two of you. If your sister shows up, leave. Let your mom know you aren’t Siamese twins, and not everything you do with her needs to include your sister. Focus on celebrating things with your in-laws and friends. Plan celebrations and get togethers without your family. Enroll in classes for new/first time moms where you can meet people and make friends who you can share your experience with. If your sis mentions getting better ‘things’ for her baby, say you put the money you saved into a college savings. Be happy for her and refuse to compete or talk about your pregnancy when she is around. If you need to pull away from them for your own mental health and we’ll being, do so without any needed explanation. You can simply be ‘busy’.
I’m so happy I’m single
So you terrified and harmed your girlfriend to prove a point? I hope she breaks up with you, better yet you break up with her. That poor woman.
everyone is talking about child support, but go get your fucking alimony!!! you put your life on hold for this man, carried his child, moved across the country with him, and are about to be unable to work for a bit BECAUSE you carried his baby. he can choose not to support you emotionally, but he is morally and legally obligated to give you financial support
i just think its weird for my girl to rather spend time at a club with her friends instead of spending it with me
No, that's perfectly healtgy, in fact even to be encouraged. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you are joined at the hip. It's important in any successcufl relationship for r you both to have your own hobbies and interests independently of each other. Sure, you can do some stuff together, but you don't have to do everything together.
Please stop counting your SA in your body count. It was not your choice. It does not count.
That said, I'm not sure there's anything you can do here. He said he didn't want to know. You should have trusted him to know his own mind better than you. The only suggestion I have is that perhaps counseling could help him get to the root of why it bothers him and he could move past it.
Good luck.
It sounds like he isn't mature enough to handle your job and accept he is your second priority. I would leave him. This is adding WAY too much stress on top of what you already have going on.
His insecurity is his problem to solve, not hers. Maybe she shouldn’t date men who say drastic things.
The bad thing is I don’t really think she feels the same and probably will not
You're going to be stuck wondering unless you let her know your intention and feelings.
She may feel the same which would be great but also do know she may not and that could be a fork in road of the friendship; could you be friends with someone you want to be with but it isn't reciprocated? Be happy for her instead of envious or jealous if she gets a boyfriend?