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Date: November 3, 2022
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He doesn't respect you and likes to feel like the know it all in your relationship. I get that he might feel like the teasing is fun but you don't like it, you've expressed that you don't like it, and he still won't stop.
Don't invest more time in someone who can't offer you basic respect.
Good. I read this post to my boyfriend and he said the same thing: drugs or he's got a relationship with the friend, or both. Either way, you made the right decision.
I wish I could be like that honestly. Has your partner been with other women before you?
“Sex is meaningless” ? it’s giving ??♀️?if I were you I personally wouldnt take that and the rape jokes? You two are entitled to your own wants and needs he never should have got with you in the first place if you didn’t share the same needs. Break up with this loser and find someone who will wait and respect you.
What about educational level and career?
My dog was hyperventilating that evening and I only said it would be easier to chat in person. Not a reason to break up with someone you are calling “your person” I even told her me and any man would do worst things
He 3- you 22 lol you don’t wanna hear it but c’mon now
Is he mad because you hid it? Is he mad you use them? Kinda confused why you would even need to tell him.
Your relationship will be fine. Just tell him your mad that he prob took an aspirin a few years ago without telling you.
I literally live with a pouch in my mouth.
Tell her husband
Why do you have to wait for the party to talk to Joe? Could you just talk to him beforehand? Maybe attend the party together?
Hi! I think it depends on how sick you are. I’m sick this NYE. Typically that means my fiancé and I stay in different rooms all day and night. That’s the case tonight. I was pushing him to go out because I feel guilty that he will just be sitting in the living room alone for NYE when he could be around people he loves having fun. I’m capable of taking care of myself for a few hours, but I’m not that incapacitated by any means. I’d just put on a movie and try to sleep if you can.
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You can’t possibly give him what he needs if what he needs is other people. I understand wanting to start college and explore as an unattached person, but in that case he needs to just end it. He isn’t giving you what you need either. Decide what your standards are and don’t let anyone convince you to lower them.
I believe so, to be very honest. He is all I have in this country, so its very naked for me to see myself alone for 10 days. It sucks.
Yes, you should break up with him. He’s cheated and obviously has very different ideas about having a relationship. To say you’re incompatible would be a huge understatement. For your own sake you should go no contact for a while as seeing him would probably bring up difficult emotions for you.
You’ve been on an emotional rollercoaster. You really should try to talk to a therapist as they could help you process everything that’s happened.
Bro, you’re in your mid 20s and still wanting to take someone’s virginity and having a weird Thing about it?? Grow up, what are you, 16? Most women in their early/mid 20s will have had sexual experience. Hell, you do! You have a standard for women that you don’t even have for yourself.
Work on your perspective dude, seriously. Having this view as someone 25 years old is just so… odd
I don't think experimenting in the bedroom extends to free passes to cheat. Talking about threesomes isn't the same as going away and having fun without each other. He didn't give you an enthusiastic yes. Obviously he wasn't on board and no longer trusted you not to cheat on this trip regardless if he agreed or not. He decided this was no longer the relationship for him and ended it.
Love yourself more.
You don’t have to confide every detail but someone you trust should know you have concerns.
You need some help grounding you in rational thinking. Determining what is rational behaviour.
Her talk about blood, cutting and physical violence doesn’t sound like something in a healthy relationship.
Did she actually say she would kill you if you thought of leaving her?
This is the extreme stuff but the clinging and obsessive communication needs are probably wearing you down.
How are you hanging on to reason? Reasonableness?
What you feel is normal has probably been obscured by her behavior
Certain medications like the Contraceptive Pill can greatly reduce the symptoms of PMS, encourage her to speak to her GP for more options on how to cope with this time of the month better. In the meantime, placate the monster within with chocolate, naked water bottles, herbal tea and wine.
I guess people don't like this. Much better to tell OP to dump her then? Is no one concerned why OPS girlfriends weight changed so much, so fast? I hope OP cares. There can be so many serious reasons, all of which require OP'S support and attention from a doctor.
You're considering breaking off an engagement for a girl you've never dated?
Please end the engagement. You're wasting her time.
If it really was the first time she did this. I would require her to stop drinking it does seem to put her in a dangerous place. Let her continue on her trip. Having her cancel the trip sounds controlling and that is not good for a relationship either.
Talk to your local police and let them know you feel in danger because of this man. Tell them that he’s tracked you down before and you’re afraid that he’ll do it again.
Use a computer that isn’t yours to find local women’s shelters so you can find a safer place to stay. If you’re in the US, /u/Ebbie45 has some resources you can look into
It sounds like he's at a suicide risk. Have someone check on him asap. The police can do this as well.
Thanks again. We've had high level conversations about finances and general paths forward together. She's never indicated anything more than a modest lifestyle and it's kind of naked talking about anything more extravagant when, as far as she knows, our two salaries alone wouldn't make it worth discussing. Kids kind of fall into the same boat, we both would like them sooner than later but she's worrying about paying for childcare or being a stay at home mom when I know none of that matters. It's kind of a chicken or the egg thing — plan our life as it stands today, or plan for what it will really be. I've said things like if you want to be a stay at home mom, I'll make that work, etc, but she's trying to calculate everything to the cent.
When I talk about resentment there are two examples that I'm worried about. There are more but these are kind of easy. First, last summer her uncle fell very ill very quickly and was a flight away–not a drive. She practically gave herself hives trying to decide between paying a lot more for a ticket the next day or less for something later. I offered to put it on my card (and hope she'd forget about it) but she insisted it was her problem. She ended up only seeing him briefly before he passed away.
Not much later she had a sizeable medical bill come due and was in a panic about paying that as well. I was tempted to steal the bill and pay it behind her back, seriously. For me it was nothing. she cut back on a lot of her own comforts to pay for it. I tried to keep taking her out to dinner just to keep her well fed!
I can see how someone, even someone with a good heart, could have gone through those and later felt resentment that their boyfriend didn't explain the money situation and just take care of it. She bases everything I do or have on my job which right now is very modest paying. She knows I had a little bit of money from previous work obviously but she's thinking it's a few thousand saved up at best and that my current job wouldn't allow me to do much more.
she's moving in with me in the next week or two, and I want to get engaged before the summer, I'm just thinking do I lay those cards on the table before or after so things can be planned accordingly.
Sorry if this is a mess I hate talking about it.
I understand your reaction- I was personally hella triggered by this post (and I do mean actually triggered, not “triggered”), more than I expected to be. I'm usually ok with talking about my very first boyfriend's “accidental” anal (I even have in the past couple days) but this post hit me particularly naked for some reason.
Right? I'm physically sick hearing that she's “figuring stuff out for the bf”, BUT WHAT ABOUT THE LIVING, BREATHING FEELING ANIMAL HE'S ABUSING?!?!
If you won't get yourself out (as you well should) GET POOR COPPER SOMEWHERE SAFE!
OP, What is wrong with you that you'd witness this and not A) break up with him IMMEDIATELY or B) Rehome Copper.
There's something off with both of you. How fucking sick to just watch him repeatedly abuse a dog
What?!
Ok this gives me pause.
If he thinks it’s Not sexual……give him a hand job or oral and NO ORGASM, just to make SURE it’s not sexual.
Of course it’s sexual. And don’t forget to get “yours”.
I know you want to hear that the next time will be different. You did see his lack of seriousness and moral accountability after he begged you to stay in December right? You need to ask yourself when will you love yourself enough to let someone abuse you and live an entire on the hope that one day he might change? He's given you no indication that he'll be changing for the better. You're focusing on his words. Focus on his actions. Not to mention, a man whose this abusive and angry and lacks complete concern for you when having angry outbursts will not keep the abuse verbal forever. He can very well get physical. I've seen physically abusive men tell their wives the same stuff you partner is telling you. Also you need to stop giving this man the power to reach you. Break up and get out if you share a home. Online with your parents for a while and block him as soon as you break up. You're not a therapist. You're not his guardian and you're not his doctor. It's not your responsibility to save this man from what he says he'll do to himself specially when he's taking you down with him.
Everyone was a fucking a child
Might want to delete that second “ a “.
I understand that it still won’t stop her from getting pregnant. How much do you know about sex?
The GF has a point.
If OP doesn't check his exes behavior now, he will be setting the stage for the ex to intrude more and more upon what OP can do in his own home going forward. That's not going to work.
I know this, because I lived it, from the POV of one of the kids affected.
The ex-spouse of one of my stepparents was rabid when it came to getting thier own way. My parent & stepparent would just just keep rolling over and letting the ex-spouse of stepparent do and say whatever, no matter what, 'for the good of stepparents other kids'. gag
One day, the ex-spouse went way too far. It..did not end well. At all.
I'm sure that, by now, we have all heard of the concept of 'blended' families.
Some families blend better than others.
Our families however, did not blend. They curdled.
and that whole brouhaha could have been prevented if even one of my saner family members would have had the balls to stand up and simply say 'no. this isn't happening this way'.
Insecurity..
oh for some reason i cannot message u
Drop the wife, add the friend. Your wife has bullied you in the past and has ruined your confidence. She sounds like a control freak. I don't blame you for being skittish.
It sounds like she is into you to be honest. first you need to decide how you would feel if she is in fact interested in you. If you are interested I would message her about wanting to grab dinner together and see how she responds. Kinda feel out her response and go from there. If she says yes then I would address it at dinner like this, “I want to start by saying I really value our friendship, so whatever comes of this I don’t want to lose that. Ive been kinda of getting the feeling you might be interested in me, which I won’t lie, makes me happy. I’m really out of practice with all of this so if I’m reading too much into anything stop me, but I just wanted to make sure you know how I feel. If you don’t feel the same way no pressure.”
If she says she was just joking tell her that honestly you never had thought of her that way until she made the sex comment. Then tell make light of the situation and laugh it off. If she says you weren’t misunderstanding then wonderful. Hopefully it works out for you.
Also I wouldn’t say it’s too late, but I’d get to it soon. The hall is 100% in your court at this point.
Hey ! Thank you for responding. Thank you for agreeing with me! That's exactly how i see it, including the fact that i also mentioned to her that i dont understand how can she be okay having fun while she knows im uncomfortable. I'm not asking for the moon and she doesn't go clubbing often either.
Bro lied to your face she doesn't respect you
Its time to move on
Totally agree — late is late. I wasn't expecting to be 10 mins late but the moment I realized it, I called and got the response that I received. She beat me out of the house by five minutes by the time I go there but I was originally about 10 minutes from the location and she was 20 for what it's worth. Not the best plan, but it was a reasonable solution.
Couple's counseling seems to be the way forward the more I think about it.
You don't need to make a decision right now. Take that pressure off yourself. If she's open to individual and marital counseling, just start with that. Take it slowly. If she presses you for answers, tell her you can't give that right now.
And as always, with any infidelity, giving you full access to her phone and location should be a requirement for staying in the marriage. Personally, I think all couples should do this, but certainly couples where trust has been deservedly lost.
This is fake as shit.
Delete your post history or make a throw away if you want us to believe you.
You’re not ready to be in a serious relationship. Full stop.
You can rage at him but he won’t care. He’s a full on narcissist, who doesn’t see how pathetic an old guy drooling over barely legal women is.
What you should do is tell Prada to enjoy the next 2-3 years because that’s when she’ll “age out” as in “DiCaprio style”. Tell her she isn’t the first & won’t be the last, that he dumped for getting to the ripe old age of 25.
drinking is a physical solution to an emotional/mental problem. if you quit drinking then you would simply manifest the addictive behaviour elsewhere e.g. smoking cigarettes, sugary drinks, sex.
the only solution is to accept that you have a substance abuse disorder, and seek treatment. for myself, I did 12-step recovery for the first three years then personal therapy thereafter.
if you are truly an alcoholic, then there is no solution other than to address the core issues that cause you to drink. any other response means eventual death.
Yeah I would give a pass to someone that makes me uncomfortable the first time but I would not put up with someone hostile and borderline aggressive
There were times I did that too but none of that ever led to a good relationship. Looking back it’s pitiful and funny that I thought that desperately screwing would lead to one, and I want to grab these people on Reddit and yell at them that the best way to a monogamous relationship is to be monogamous from the get go.
Post on r/askadoctor and show him the thread.
So the problem is that you stared at her? When you were texting, what happened? What did you talk about? Did she say that your creeped her out and to leave her alone? There is so much info missing here. And please for the love of god, don’t use so many “…” it makes it naked to read and makes the whole tone of your post sound odd.
The fact that you said you liked her clueless nature is feels off to me and I’m wondering what you mean by that. It sounds like you’re developing a fixation on this girl and your best bet is to probably leave her alone before it gets unhealthy (if it hasn’t already).
50 people? Who gon shit where? Who gon cook? Who gon arrange camping equipment, who gon click utilities?
The wedding is still going to be wonderful I’m sure. I was talking to the person who undermined his feelings by saying the wow moment is when they kiss the bride. That’s my comment. Their dismissing his feelings because what his wow moment is. Maybe to him that part was important
Yes I think you’re right — LD is amplifying the problem. The plan long term is that I’ll relocate to where he is as I have a remote job. That said, it will probably not be until fall when his lease runs out and we can move to a larger place. Until then, we try to visit each other at least once every 2 months or so. It’s easier for me to go to him because of my remote job
I appreciate the feedback – no I don’t want him having any sort of dealer or want us having a future of ‘what if’ with any sort of drug related conversation. I just want a healthy relationship. He’s getting help with an outpatient clinic but is it enough? I only ask the question because I’m so naive about this. Yeah you’re right – I’ll have to start to attend one of these groups to better understand this
I was thinking Dirty John
What happens in marriage, or forever? You keep paying for everything. Does she have a job? Do you make a ton more than she does? Then stop paying for everything and express you want equity in a relationship. So what if you looo cheap to her, if her expectation is you pay for everything always then that’s what you can expect to keep doing.
How is it fearful and controlling?