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Do your friends hate you? I think that is the relationship you should be questioning and reevaluating. Your social circle would rather a guy who wants to date you be swiping after said dates? Is this a real post?
I get wanting to have more, to me it matters more to me that my partner wants to be sexual with me as well regardless if we do or don’t I’d only get nervous if they were completely removed from their desire for me
One thing that stands out to me that few people have mentioned is her actions regarding you confronting her about stuff. Yes the lack of sex is clearly an issue here but it seems like every time you have a conversation with her she doesn't take it well.
Her blowing up on you and kicking you out for being honest about her hygiene and her blowing up on you for telling her that it feels like she's not attracted to you, etc. is an unhealthy and toxic pattern where you attempt to communicate your feelings to her and she explodes and turns around to somehow make herself the victim. It's eerily similar to DARVO (look it up if you're unfamiliar with it).
Regardless of the situation this is a big red flag. Communication is key in any relationship and your relationship won't last if for every issue she's going to blow up on you for attempting to talk to her. Has this always been the case and you just haven't noticed it or has she only started doing it now?
Otherwise this situation won't improve unless you're both able to communicate like adults and tackle the problem and compromise. I also think her “I've had enough sex in the past so I'm good now” is not only disrespectful to you but also it just sounds like bullshit to me. I agree with some others who say she might just not be that attracted to you like you suspect.
Have another conversation with her where you point out what she's doing and put your foot down that the lack of intimacy is genuinely threatening your relationship and that something needs to change. If she dismisses your concerns or blows up again then you need to reconsider if this relationship is right for you.
You need to pack up and move back to your family, and to be near your support network. Can you go and stay with them for a while?
Your fiancé's family don't seem to be very welcoming to you or understanding of your medical needs, and this doesn't bode well for the future.
Your fiancé's brother and his partner seem to be trying to get him away from you (are you invited to this cruise?) and I think you should consider what that means.
I don't know about my masculinity, per se, but I'd like to think I'm more fleshed out? I have hobbies and passions, and I don't even look that much like the character.
You're making excuses for him like with his depression. At this point it's not about what's right or who's wrong, it's already reached toxic and time to go
Move on now. Dump him, move out and as your next partner, please find someone who respects you. The first outburst may have been forgivable, the second wasn’t, and the third one just confirmed that.
The problem is much of this suggestion makes her 100% the problem, but you BF is the problem here. He lacks boundaries and seems to very much enjoy their deeply codependent relationship. You should not have to set boundaries for him with her or play games to get her to stop. Lay out your needs and boundaries with him, and see what he does with that. Again HE is the problem between the two of you, as his reactions to her are not appropriate. She could act however she wants, if he had a balanced relationship with her, it would be a non issue.
You need to talk to him and lay it all out. Don’t play interference or try to out smart her. There’s no point to that and that You will just look like you are fighting over property. Can he limit his white knight moments once she comes calling after your talk? That’s your sign. If he adjusts HIS behavior. She may be manipulative, but currently she certainly isn’t twisting his arm.
Your husband is asshole. You are the mother of his children, he should recognize that. But besides that, the way he speaks to you is abusive. He’s a dick. You deserve better.
It doesn't matter who his target is, he's acting unprofessionally
As long as OP hasn't goaded him or been unprofessional himself (hint for you, disagreeing politically is not the same thing as being unprofessional in a workplace)
OP responded to you too, so you have your answer, which is really fucking obvious that OP's “politics” or lack thereof have no bearing on the situation.
So yea, that just sounds selfish. Rather than give your child a better chance with two parents involved, let's just have a kid because she's worried about her own needs. Got it.
You've been giving them hell for years and they're still letting you online with them while you try (again) to get and stay clean. Honestly, I think they're letting you off lightly.
Which part of her entire post leads you to believe that being able to safely express her feelings is reasonable? You’re not looking at the whole picture here, just focusing on one aspect and ignoring the context. The issue is that she didn’t talk about it first it’s that she – obviously with good reason – felt too afraid to do so.
Its time to draw that line. Ask her to explain the humor. If she can not take you seriously than offer her the option to see if she can afford it. Once she gets mad just tell her its a joke
If you were close with the stepdad and immediate family then you have a right to pay your respects. If this is “to support her” or something and you have no real connection with the decedent, just send flowers and a card (not to her) and stay away.
Do your friends hate you? I think that is the relationship you should be questioning and reevaluating. Your social circle would rather a guy who wants to date you be swiping after said dates? Is this a real post?
Hey you done your job, you warned her, now up to her to make her diligences.
I get wanting to have more, to me it matters more to me that my partner wants to be sexual with me as well regardless if we do or don’t I’d only get nervous if they were completely removed from their desire for me
That’s just me tho
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One thing that stands out to me that few people have mentioned is her actions regarding you confronting her about stuff. Yes the lack of sex is clearly an issue here but it seems like every time you have a conversation with her she doesn't take it well.
Her blowing up on you and kicking you out for being honest about her hygiene and her blowing up on you for telling her that it feels like she's not attracted to you, etc. is an unhealthy and toxic pattern where you attempt to communicate your feelings to her and she explodes and turns around to somehow make herself the victim. It's eerily similar to DARVO (look it up if you're unfamiliar with it).
Regardless of the situation this is a big red flag. Communication is key in any relationship and your relationship won't last if for every issue she's going to blow up on you for attempting to talk to her. Has this always been the case and you just haven't noticed it or has she only started doing it now?
Otherwise this situation won't improve unless you're both able to communicate like adults and tackle the problem and compromise. I also think her “I've had enough sex in the past so I'm good now” is not only disrespectful to you but also it just sounds like bullshit to me. I agree with some others who say she might just not be that attracted to you like you suspect.
Have another conversation with her where you point out what she's doing and put your foot down that the lack of intimacy is genuinely threatening your relationship and that something needs to change. If she dismisses your concerns or blows up again then you need to reconsider if this relationship is right for you.
Best of luck man.
You need to pack up and move back to your family, and to be near your support network. Can you go and stay with them for a while?
Your fiancé's family don't seem to be very welcoming to you or understanding of your medical needs, and this doesn't bode well for the future.
Your fiancé's brother and his partner seem to be trying to get him away from you (are you invited to this cruise?) and I think you should consider what that means.
I don't know about my masculinity, per se, but I'd like to think I'm more fleshed out? I have hobbies and passions, and I don't even look that much like the character.
Oh he is 100% being abusive intentionally, this is domestic abuse 101 stuff darling. Please listen to us. This man doesn't love you.
No compromise…just do it… you don't want to look back at your life at 50 or 60 regretting it
Thank you so much ? I really appreciate your advice, and it’s definitely given me a lot to think about.
That's true. Can I rephrase what I said and say he's a good man 90% of the time
Damn, you are in dire need of therapy.
Yes. I posted to another subreddit and the post was deleted so I posted now here.
I’ve told him numerous times
Once should be enough. He doesn't have any respect for you.
stumbled upon a page in his journal
Don't believe you about the sweet note idea. Don't go into someone's personal journal. You don't trust him.
So no respect and no trust means no future.
You're making excuses for him like with his depression. At this point it's not about what's right or who's wrong, it's already reached toxic and time to go
Move on now. Dump him, move out and as your next partner, please find someone who respects you. The first outburst may have been forgivable, the second wasn’t, and the third one just confirmed that.
Condoms aren’t foolproof either.
The problem is much of this suggestion makes her 100% the problem, but you BF is the problem here. He lacks boundaries and seems to very much enjoy their deeply codependent relationship. You should not have to set boundaries for him with her or play games to get her to stop. Lay out your needs and boundaries with him, and see what he does with that. Again HE is the problem between the two of you, as his reactions to her are not appropriate. She could act however she wants, if he had a balanced relationship with her, it would be a non issue.
You need to talk to him and lay it all out. Don’t play interference or try to out smart her. There’s no point to that and that You will just look like you are fighting over property. Can he limit his white knight moments once she comes calling after your talk? That’s your sign. If he adjusts HIS behavior. She may be manipulative, but currently she certainly isn’t twisting his arm.
Your husband is asshole. You are the mother of his children, he should recognize that. But besides that, the way he speaks to you is abusive. He’s a dick. You deserve better.
I think your reading comprehension sucks
It doesn't matter who his target is, he's acting unprofessionally
As long as OP hasn't goaded him or been unprofessional himself (hint for you, disagreeing politically is not the same thing as being unprofessional in a workplace)
OP responded to you too, so you have your answer, which is really fucking obvious that OP's “politics” or lack thereof have no bearing on the situation.
By 'take a blind eye', you mean 'ignore it'. I can't believe you would treat your future wife like this.
I second this.
So yea, that just sounds selfish. Rather than give your child a better chance with two parents involved, let's just have a kid because she's worried about her own needs. Got it.
You've been giving them hell for years and they're still letting you online with them while you try (again) to get and stay clean. Honestly, I think they're letting you off lightly.
So you're posting this because you realize how shitty this is of you and you want to stop, right?
Just asking because I want to know what advice to give.
Which part of her entire post leads you to believe that being able to safely express her feelings is reasonable? You’re not looking at the whole picture here, just focusing on one aspect and ignoring the context. The issue is that she didn’t talk about it first it’s that she – obviously with good reason – felt too afraid to do so.
Its time to draw that line. Ask her to explain the humor. If she can not take you seriously than offer her the option to see if she can afford it. Once she gets mad just tell her its a joke
Lol are you the abusive husband?
This.
If you were close with the stepdad and immediate family then you have a right to pay your respects. If this is “to support her” or something and you have no real connection with the decedent, just send flowers and a card (not to her) and stay away.