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Date: October 16, 2022
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Think about the future you want. If you want kids do you want your parents in their life and what religion do you want them to be? Would your bf be okay with you raising them your religion and vice versa, would you be okay doing both? What happens if you get disowned and then break up?
I can’t tell you what to do but hopefully answering these questions help you decide.
Thanks, I think I can do this. Will update on how it goes
My dad is this kind of person I can 100% guarantee this behavior gets worse . It doesn’t get better (I’ve tried)is just gets more degrading and personal as his ego grows and time goes one.imo save your mental health and leave.Side question- does he watch YouTubers like Kevin Samuels or freshnfit
In all of the relationships I have been in, I am the one with a low sex drive. It has never worked out for me being with someone who has a high one.
There are other factors of course, but that is an important value to someone who loves sex. F30
Because who would introduce a hookup to their family and friends?
You were a rebound, not a hookup. Rebounds can meet the friends or family. He rebounded with you to try to get over his ex. He was lying to himself and to you about his feelings towards his ex.
I just really want closure because it's hurting me so badly, and we haven't talked since he returned my stuff. Help?
Closure comes from within. You could try talking to him, but what happens if you dont get the closure you want from that conversation?
Dont take someone back who only found you as a source to get over someone else.
It didn’t work out cos he had a small dick?
She sounds like a keeper!
Sell the far-away house, use it to buy a house nearer where you are now.
Not sure why you think he is cheating but I will tell you that you do not need proof of his cheating. You can end this relationship without any conformation that he is cheating! There are no rules of evidence in a relationship and you get to decide for yourself if this is the relationship you want to continue!
Just say “thank you”
OP: Sup?
Object of obsession: Nuchies. Sup chew?
OP to himself: I'm in lurvs. I've never had a more meaningful conversation in my life.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do and i hooe it gets better for you both.
This is just me, and I have no idea, if we are a dozen like this. But the more comfortable I am with you, and the more activity we have together, the less I feel the need for instant reply, due to us losing steam or momentum in a conversation.
It’s up to you whether you want to be in a relationship with someone who isn’t attracted to you sexually or romantically. It matters to some people, it doesn’t to others. It’s fully possible to be in a relationship with an aroace person, it just might not look like a traditional relationship. It’s just important to be sure that both of you are comfortable and both of you are getting your needs met.
Your job is to keep your pets safe.
When I have been telling him when he ask for sex that I’m sorry I’ve been very sick and having a lot of pain and completely deprived of any energy as im high risk with pcos and endometriosis but we still would have sexy 3-4 times a week since I’ve been sick making sure I’m not completely denying him of sex even when I don’t feel good just so I can please him
The kid isn't hers. She will fund her kids, not yours.
It could be his ?
No but I have been in a relationship with someone on the asexual spectrum. Sex was always a delicate topic, but even if she agreed to it at first and then changed her mind during it or didn't actively participate, there was never any discussion about to keep going or so. Stop means stop. End of story.
coercion.
My boyfriend works a physically demanding job, I’m a SAHM. I’m mentally exhausted by the time he gets home and if I stop moving long enough I’m like that anti-weed ad where the lady is deflated on the couch. I’d say on average we have sex 1-2 times a week, sometimes not at all. We’re in the same boat, we’d love to do it more but it doesn’t cause friction! We’re both pretty satisfied (I speak for myself but I think he’d say the same) and the areas taking up the time that could be spent on that are great, so it’s overall satisfying. We have 2 children (2 YO and 8 mos) and his job takes up a lot of his time, so we’re happy to spend time together as a family whenever we can. Yesterday we stepped away for 5 minutes and that’ll probably be it until Thursday, or so. Who knows! I think the takeaway is that if it works for you BOTH, it works. The people keeping tally on a board and have a frowny face when they don’t hit a quota are kinda weird to me.
Second cousins only share like 3% of their familial DNA and that's hardly enough to qualify as incest, even by most normal, legal, non-royal lineage standards.
You didn't do anything wrong. I just really feel bad for Sage. He needs counselling and he needs to hear from you, no matter what, you will always be his mother.
Oh, people would notice, I always feel uncomfortable when men have done this to me, especially with their girlfriend next to them giving me dirty looks. Why do you keep suggesting it’s just her imagining it or being insecure, the constant head snap when they are out explains that this isn’t the same as your situation.
the title instantly makes me say break up with him
He sounds immature and it isn't your job or obligation to help him grow up, especially if he's resistant to making necessary changes like finding even temporary work. You two are in totally different places in life right now and it isn't fair for you to have to wait for him to catch up. You made the right call in breaking up – he's unwilling to change, and you can't be dragged down with him. Regardless, no one can tell you that your reason for breaking up “isn't good enough” lol. Yikes ???
At what point does a relationship become controlling then? Is there just no such thing as a controlling relationship because someone could always leave? No matter how big or little a deal the “ultimatum” is?
It may or may not be controlling, but it’s certainly not healthy in a long term relationship to be issuing ultimatums on a one strike you’re out basis. “Don’t go to the club or I’ll break up with you.” “Don’t go on a girls trip or I’ll break up with you.” That’s not love. In a healthy long term relationship there needs to be some room to grow and change. Not infinite room, but some. He’s not giving her any room at all to discover what she wants and does not.
That's his boundary. People need to learn our past matters. Things we do now impact the future.
How’s that?
Uh what is wrong with everyone here? You shouldn't keep secrets from your partner esepcially if you say that your sister was talking crap about him and they were best friends and at the same time why is your sister saying smth bad about your partner? Why did you not shut that down when she started speaking or did you? What did she say? Was it true or was she talking crap just because?
I'd agree with you, but she doesn't come over much as it is. And she is living 15 minutes away. I guess that's why I thought she'd want to do something, but I understand that makes me sound bad lol
Well you can see how that's confusing.
Have you talked to her about your concerns?
Whose idea was it for a third? Do you get something out of it? Finally if you think you will lose her you should talk to her about your concerns
5 months in and he feels entitled to make her change her career for him.
If I were you, I would take it as a break up. He’s probably saying to make you feel better or to keep you as an option. It’s unfair to you. Plus, he needs time away from you to figure it out? You’ve been together for 4 years…
He’s 31. Was he a virgin? No. It’s super weird for you to even be talking about marriage at 4 mos but to say marriage one day and the very next questioning an abortion from way before he entered the picture. This guy is a nut case. RUN!!
I’m getting weird vibes from this. You haven’t even been on a date and you are gushing over her in a way that comes across as obsessive.
Also, you cancelled the first two dates and she was busy other times. I’d assume you weren’t interested.
I know it’s weird to say but I don’t know my father. I always told myself that if I had kids I’d do whatever I could to be apart of their life and take care of them they way mine didn’t.
It’s a fact. It’s a personality disorder that causes people to have no empathy. I dunno maybe you’re all part of that delusional group that thinks otherwise and doesn’t go by science
Is “drunk” what happened, or is “drunk” the excuse?
It sounds like your partner is anxious about your son going to school for the first time. That’s understandable.
I would suggest giving it a month or two after your son starts school, just so you and your partner can both see that he’s settling in nicely. Then maybe you could begin actively searching for work around that time.
That way you’re still actually at home if your son should need you, and that should reassure your partner too. And you would also be meeting your own need to adapt to the new circumstances.
Yes it is. He liked you at 13. He was a position of authority over you. I'm sure he told you how “mature” you were and how you “weren't like other girls”. He was a grown ass man getting with a 16 year old. He's a pedophile.
You're a textbook picture of a victim of grooming by a pedophile.
Don't dwell on that feeling. Being victimized isn't a free pass to become a menace.
See your OBGYN, see a therapist, and get couples' counseling.
I think a modification to what to you have been saying. “We had a falling out and I’m sad to hear she is talking so badly about me and her god child. I guess this speaks to her true character”
Let them contemplate that and make their own decisions.
Reaching out to her will only give her more ammunition to create a story about you. You want to approach this like a rational person, but you can’t do that with someone who isn’t rational.
Because we have DNA testing and mandated child support.
Here's the deal: If you have heterosexual sex, you are risking becoming a parent. Full fucking stop. No birth control method is 100%. NO BIRTH CONTROL METHOD IS 100%.
And yes, both parents must contribute money to raise the child. By law.
From the first post, you guys had it under wraps. She disclosed to you about the crush and transferred departments. You guys started marriage counseling and individual counseling. It’s normal to have crushes on other people, it’s human nature but it seems like she choose you and your relationship in the end. Why the separation? Just because you’re a little mad she had a school girl crush on another person? Why the allowing of sleeping with other people when you can’t even get over the fact that she had a crush????
HE moved out of their shared home and out of state. He left.
Ooohh, hope they'll notice enough to report your both asses…
Part of me thinks OPs fiance had cold feet and this is him and his brother doing his thing
If he has to sniff your armpits to look for smells, then you’re not the problem. Maybe he should work on his armpit-sniffing compulsion instead of making his weirdness your problem.
Yes, I didn’t think to post it here until after and you can only post here with a username that contains ThrowRA. I’m just an idiot, nothing to see here lol
shes 21. would you rather she marry a 40 year old?
none of this is excusable and he will hit you again if you stay. Make plans to leave as soon as possible. Talk to friends, family, anyone you have to talk to, but you should take action to leave him as soon as you can.
Enjoy being single.
34M and I don't want kids.
Best comment ive read all week
Thank you for this. I don’t abide cheaters. I also don’t abide men that choose and accept their female partner bearing children and staying home to work the unpaid labour of child rearing and home care (that greatly benefit them as an individual and the couple as a unit) to turn around and be astounded that they have to show financial value in the unpaid labour she’s been contributing to their partnership.
Her being emotionally/sexually unfaithful is intolerable to me-absolutely a relationship ended the second time around- but it doesn’t wipe the labour and effort she’s committed to their partnership up to that point.
She's lesbian, I'm actually pansexual, but I think there's some insecurity in bed. We don't have sex very often despite both having fairly high libidos, she'll often go maturbate on her own even when we do spend time together. She says it's partially a routine for her but also it's faster/quieter/easier. That's part of the problem but I don't want to go off and have sex with other people just because of that. She says it's not an attraction issue either and I think I believe that since the porn she watches isn't anything unusual
Don't confront him. Leave. He's been cheating on you from the very beginning. This man doesn't respect you, and he won't stop. Hell behaves until things blow over and be back at it again. You aren't his girlfriend. You are his property. You are the one he chose to be possessive over. that's not love.
Get your life back together. Separate finances if they are merged and make an escape plan if y'all on-line together. 2 years is a lot less time to waste than 5. 10. The sooner that you get out, the sooner you can start building your life back up.
You're being used and you need to leave. This will go worse than you're already thinking it will
Bwahahahaha. You go right ahead but don't come crying back to Reddit when the relationship fails and it gets so awkward that you have to leave. You asked but are now unwilling to listen to seasoned, experience-based advice. You sound 14.
Is she going through menopause? If so tread carefully… VERY CAREFULLY. My mum absolutely lost her mind when she went through menopause (started at 46)
No that's not what I said. If you're partner asked you not to, then you shouldn't. Your sexuality or relationship status doesn't really matter. If your partner asked you not to do something you should respect that.
Yeah she would come to my house usually on the weekends, but she had some neck injury where she couldn't drive for long (we lived 35km apart from each other). But I offered to pick her up and drop her off. I suggested we could go get food, go on walks, see movies, hang out in library, go shopping.
Yes but not to this extent
You can’t help stoopid.
He should break up, she cheated, he has pictures of her and will use it probably to manipulate her further or even blackmail her. Dude run out of this situation, cut your losses. This is not salvageable at all. THIS IS THE END.
Red flag 101. Sounds like he’s trying to take advantage of you both: he knows his friend likes him and he’s keeping her on the hook to get her attention and he has you on the side for the sexual/physical relationship.
I don’t like ultimatums but he needs to come clean or this relationship isn’t going to last long.
Yes. I had success with gifts at one point by taking her exactly what I wanted. I think that’s the only thing that’s going to work.
I don’t know how long you’ve been working at your job but I wouldn’t recommend telling unless you feel comfortable with people who work u with you knowing. I know this is easier said than done but don’t shit where you eat.
Y'all are in your early twenties. People grow apart. It's better to accept and move on and stop wasting each other's time.
Is compassion part of his religious belief system?
Or caring about things that don’t directly affect him?
Hiya. I see what you mean..the thing is – should my brother's wife really be saying that to me though? She is Polish which makes her unbelievably direct…but I feel she should keep this type of judgement / speculation to herself, no?
Oh no, I've told her everything, and how I cannot cope. She said why don't you sit down and split the responsibilities on the piece of paper. I did. He was not happy. I've told him multiple times over and over what I need, directly, and they are very basic things. But he doesn't care. And when I tell him he doesn't care, he blames me for not being grateful for taking out the trash after I've asked to do it multiple times.
and @ /u/ThrowRaSnail2 incase everything /u/LearnsFromExperience isn't obvious, lets play devils advocate.
if you after your ex cheated on you with your sister and everyone was ok with that…then said he was abusive, would they have listened or cared?
or would you have just looked bitter? or they just dismissed all this for another reason.
You don’t have to be accepting of everything, you’re allowed to be turned off by it.
Tell her to get it from her AP, since he was her 'go to'.
BUT don't under any circumstances give it to her. Actions have consequences. Every time she remembers that dish, she also remember fucking up.
Honestly – I didn't read past “F22 dating 47M” and I can say with 99% certainly that yes you did the right thing.
I read your valentine's post from a month ago. Be mature. Move on (if you feel it's right). Don't make it a big deal. You'll be just fine bud.
Bunny, he pays 5k for a 750 sq foot apartment. Do you know how many apartments there are in NYC for MUCH cheaper and WAY bigger???
OP, he's not over her. And he's being borderline abusive to you. Do yourself a favor and move on.
Awww glad to bring back some fond memories! ?
OP, you need to slowly start separating your finances. Talk to an attorney to get some advice. I wouldn't wait for her to cheat, she is already cheating emotionally. If you can see what she is texting and things just copy everything so you have that information incase she tries to tell you your wrong.
Once you know you plan and start doing it then confront her and tell her its over. Unless you can forgive the past, then good luck on that one.
It's not immature or dumb. It will give you some closure. And in the meanwhile, keep moving forward.
Well that is a bit of a half truth. The mind is the seat of eroticism.
OP, have you sought help from a sex therapist? What are his kinks? What kind of porn does he watch? I would not be surprised if he is harboring fantasies he feels shame about disclosing because it might alienate you or hurt your feelings. This is a tough situation but very common and I hope the two of you do not feel like failures. Many couples can work through it an come out stronger.
May be in you were not part of it because you are together. But reacting that show you are not mature enough.
Nah, your partner is projecting af, she's over 30 dating a woman 10 years younger than her, who's the predator here? How long did you two date?
There is no point in getting emotionally involved in it. Just tell her it's working out for you and move on. Sorry mate
My spouse doesn’t use social media either. It’s just a choice some people make. Between Twitter falling apart (& being awful beforehand anyway) reddit being full of fake posts & toxic BS, Facebook really only existing for memes/cat pictures/sharing misinformation, insta being overrun with toxic positivity/influencer wannabes, Snapchat being mostly used to cheat on people… yeah I can see why more people are choosing to opt out lol
Abusers work in cycles. It might be good now, but the bomb is always gonna drop and you’re always gonna feel uneasy about the relationship.
You do all this for him and yet what does he do for you? Dump him and save your money and energy
Oh wauw i never knew this could indicate a heart problem. Thx for the knowledge!
You’re married to someone who been married four times , I guess this is one of the big red flags … not even marriage counseling will help … leave that man and focus on yourself more .
If you truly connect, I don't see a problem. But bare in mind that males develop until the age of 25, mental development included. So don't expect incredible maturity from your boyfriend and try to be patient.
He's still in love with his ex.
Trust your gut. This is not over thinking, it's being practical. You don't want the life he's going to have.
You cannot change another person’s behavior.
You can change the information you give her, and the way you react to her offenses, but she will always do what she does.
I would either cut her off, or keep her at arms length. Only present her with information you don’t mind being public. This means both the things that you tell her and the things that she sees. You may end up not able to invite her over anymore if it’s too difficult to keep her out of your stuff. You’ll have to go out for lunch or coffee or whatever to maintain the relationship.
If it was just some friend, I would go straight to cutting her out. But sometimes family ties are more precious. You have to make the call here whether staying in contact is worth the extra effort to you.
Projection