This. I had it at the start of having sex. Because it was painful to lose my V-card, I associated the pain with it and would tense up. It took a lot of mental gymnastics and some time for me to begin to relax and associate the good feelings with PIV, and it’s extremely rare for me to get it now. Don’t discount what your brain can make your body do.
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Get on BC refers to the pill usually. Like when a woman says “i started bc” it usually means the pill.
This. I had it at the start of having sex. Because it was painful to lose my V-card, I associated the pain with it and would tense up. It took a lot of mental gymnastics and some time for me to begin to relax and associate the good feelings with PIV, and it’s extremely rare for me to get it now. Don’t discount what your brain can make your body do.