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Ruby, 19 y.o.
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Date: March 29, 2023
Ruby, 19 y.o.
Location: texas
Room subject: bra off [3376 tokens left]
To Start on-line video press there
I may not be the best person to respond because admittedly, catching my partner masturbating is my biggest turn-on, but even putting that aside, I have never understood why people get so pressed about this.
You need to have an actual talk with her – none of this “I need to process this” BS anymore. Yes, body autonomy is real – you can do what you want in terms of self-pleasure. I think you need to determine what her actual issue is – is it the masturbation or the porn? I don't believe either should be an issue if it isn't affecting your intimate life with your partner, however when I was younger (like in my 20s), I wasn't as liberal when it came to watching porn.
I never had an issue with my partner's masturbating. I did have a problem with one ex's habitual porn watching. It wasn't affecting our sex life at all, but at the time I simply wasn't as secure with myself as I am now. I gave him a TON of shit about it, even though he wasn't doing anything 'wrong', plus I watch porn and watched it back then as well. It had NOTHING to do with him and everything to do with my internal self-talk.
It could be the same for your gf. You didn't mention your ages, but many women have these unspoken insecurities when we are younger (under 30). She may be worried that you prefer watching porn to her, she may feel insecurities about you comparing her to the women in the video, she may just be anti-porn, but until you sit down and have the talk, you really won't know.
No matter the reason, you are entitled to masturbate without guilt, shame, or fear of hurting or angering your girlfriend. Good luck to you