I agree. She told him she didn't regret it but was worried he'd judge her, and now that he's found out and is upset, she's mad that he's “judging” her.
Some people are okay with it. Some people are not. She doesn't get to decide OP's morals then or now. It's also troubling she was worried about it before but now won't talk about it. It's almost like she feels like he's trapped or “locked in” now that they're married. Then there's the lying on top of that.
I'd be very upset if I found out about my husband doing porn before and not having told me. It'd be a marriage ender for me as a woman. I don't think this is a gendered issue, and I have no idea why anyone is sticking up for this lying spouse.
They met when they were 20. Do you really think she went after a 20-year-old kid for his money? She's clearly staying because they've been together almost their entire adult lives and sunk-cost fallacy is a powerful motivator.
This assumption is pure sexism, and not even subtle sexism.
I agree. She told him she didn't regret it but was worried he'd judge her, and now that he's found out and is upset, she's mad that he's “judging” her.
Some people are okay with it. Some people are not. She doesn't get to decide OP's morals then or now. It's also troubling she was worried about it before but now won't talk about it. It's almost like she feels like he's trapped or “locked in” now that they're married. Then there's the lying on top of that.
I'd be very upset if I found out about my husband doing porn before and not having told me. It'd be a marriage ender for me as a woman. I don't think this is a gendered issue, and I have no idea why anyone is sticking up for this lying spouse.
They met when they were 20. Do you really think she went after a 20-year-old kid for his money? She's clearly staying because they've been together almost their entire adult lives and sunk-cost fallacy is a powerful motivator.
This assumption is pure sexism, and not even subtle sexism.