Are you communicating with him and showing him the things that feel good? Can he pay attention to what you’re doing? Be a part of the process?
Even if he had dozens of partners before, it wouldn’t necessarily make him good at sex with you because you’re a unique person. And if you’re anything like me, what feels really great one day might be “meh” or even uncomfortable the next.
You have to teach each other what you like. Be explicit, and be open to direction. Many women need a good, long work-up to piv sex. You should never feel ashamed of asking for what makes you feel good, or be made to feel selfish for wanting your own pleasure in sex. But it’s about giving as much as receiving. 😉
Just take the underwear. Hide them. Don’t do anything with them at all. And see what she does over the course of the next week. I’m certain you’ll be aware she’s cheating by her actions (if you aren’t already)
Very insightful I know that she would not be happy if I did this
Are you communicating with him and showing him the things that feel good? Can he pay attention to what you’re doing? Be a part of the process?
Even if he had dozens of partners before, it wouldn’t necessarily make him good at sex with you because you’re a unique person. And if you’re anything like me, what feels really great one day might be “meh” or even uncomfortable the next.
You have to teach each other what you like. Be explicit, and be open to direction. Many women need a good, long work-up to piv sex. You should never feel ashamed of asking for what makes you feel good, or be made to feel selfish for wanting your own pleasure in sex. But it’s about giving as much as receiving. 😉
Just take the underwear. Hide them. Don’t do anything with them at all. And see what she does over the course of the next week. I’m certain you’ll be aware she’s cheating by her actions (if you aren’t already)