Of course she will freak out. His Dad has given permission and the money is spent. He doesnt have to engage with her any more over this. He tells her that the trip is booked, that he's going and he packs his bag.
She starts up again, he can thank her for being concerned about him, he can then excuse himself, tell her that he has to be somewhere and he can leave the room. He doesnt have to sit there listening to her.
Thank you! I hope everything works out for you!
He is absolutely not worth any of the messes that he’s asking you to create for yourself. Swear to god.
How much has OP saved for the down-payment?
Of course she will freak out. His Dad has given permission and the money is spent. He doesnt have to engage with her any more over this. He tells her that the trip is booked, that he's going and he packs his bag.
She starts up again, he can thank her for being concerned about him, he can then excuse himself, tell her that he has to be somewhere and he can leave the room. He doesnt have to sit there listening to her.