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Damn. You must be really young. Let me explain, OP is a young man, trying to navigate his feelings. Feeling jealous about his gf posting her butt doesn't mean he'll stop her from doing what she wants to. And if OP doesn't like it at all, he has the right to dump her and get himself a lady for isn't into posting butt pics just like OP's gf has the right to find a man who is happy and supports posting butt pics. Neither is wrong, it's preference and OP's feelings are valid.
As you grow, you'll understand that life isn't black and white.
I mean he knows she’s a cheater so idk what the comment on friend and family knowing has to do with? He’s either telling people or not but she knows he knows she cheated. She just doesn’t know he knows she’s STILL cheating.
It’s a tough spot to be in. Of course it’s her choice ultimately (but you know this, clearly) and you want to be supportive but you’re right, this isn’t something to decide on a whim and (in my personally opinion) it rarely ends well. Nose jobs are finicky. It rarely looks natural and it’s often a gateway to “more work”. Lots of people see plastic surgery as a quick fix and that’s just simply not the case. It’s complicated, painful and rarely delivers the results we want. Just tell her that you love her, and while you support her in whatever choice she makes, make it clear that you LOVE her face as is. I’m sure with the more research she does and the more support from you that she gets, she’ll decide it’s not what she actually wants.
Tell your sister in law that you are telling your husband and she and his best friend should be prepared. Be very clear that you are not keeping this from him and you are furious that she put you in the middle. As everyone else says, they are adults and your husband has no say in what they do. If he gets upset, he can take it up with them and you have to back him up. If he decides to go no contact with them, that’s up to him and you go no contact too. But this is a lot of drama for nothing.
A hooker in Costa Rica almost 100% has an std. she probably sent him home with an extra Christmas gift for you. Merry Christmas, happy birthday jesus, you have syphilis
I'm a lawyer and, respectfully, you don't know what you're talking about. I assume that it's the stress of learning that your wife cheated on you that is causing you to jump to the worst possible outcome before you've even looked into your options. None of this is Legal Advicetm because there are rules about doing that anonymously over the internet (i.e. don't) but here are a few general pieces of information:
Fathers can and absolutely do get primary or even sole custody. Especially when infidelity is involved. Especially especially when the cheater has no income. If you get primary or sole custody you won't be paying child support. Even if you do end up paying child support they're not going to take a flat 50% of your income just to fuck your life. How in the hell would financially ruining you – the only one with a job – serve the interests of the children?
Take some time to cool off and stop spiraling. Call a lawyer and figure out what your options are. If you don't like what they have to say then call a different lawyer. Repeat as necessary. It seems like you really care about your kids, so show them that you're not going to take this lying down and you're willing to fight as very hot as you can to stay in their lives.
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Even without the cheating and ex situation, you guys fight non stop. You even took a break for months just because of that. Do you want a marriage where you fight every day? And where your husband goes to fuck his ex whenever he feels “down” and sorry for himself?
First of all, just because somebody is beautiful on the outside doesn’t mean that words don’t hurt, or they might have days where they don’t feel attractive. That is how they feel, and doesn’t correlate to how you feel. Secondly, his comment was also misogynistic, but carry-on, since it’s all so fucking funny.
My head would be spinning too. A quick google search shows condoms last/expire in about 5 years. Date wise, they could be from when you got together. Now , just two is the weird part. Unless he got them from a friend or something.
They’re not, personality is, and his is shit. So you could stay with him and put up with this shit, or you could dump him and let him continue being an idiot, or you could start undermining this ridiculous narcissistic behaviour and bring him back down to earth.
Question if he’s really going to wear that out then refuse to elaborate, laugh quietly to yourself when he says he’s so beautiful. Sarcastically agree when he calls other guys ugly and himself pretty. Start checking out other guys and when he says he’s prettier than them be patronising in your reassurance that he is. When he’s banging on about his looks, start scrolling your phone and just reply “uh huh” while he’s talking. When he’s telling you he can have any woman he wants, tell him “ok!”. Stop faking it in bed, ask him if he’s done already and use a vibrator to finish. Comment occasionally that you think is hair is starting to look like it’s thinning out. Keep telling him he has something in his teeth when you’re out for a meal. Leave a little food oil stain on his shirt quietly when you’re out for a meal and don’t mention it. Start following male model accounts on instagram and sharing them to your story lamenting how you wish you could meet a guy this very hot. Get your girl friends to all help, get them doing all the same stuff.
You need to undermine him, he needs his ego popped, not just deflated. Have fun with it, gaslight him, psychologically destroy him, THEN dump him ?
That's ridiculous. Either she's over thinking and worried for no reason or i'd be more concerned she's ashamed of you and has people in her life that are important to her that would make such assumptions. Either way it probably doesn't bode well for your relationship.
Also get a rose bush look up your daughters birthdate Select the rose bush of that month Plant it in a big pot
Name it your daughter name.
It really helps give you something to touch..talk to and go through the grieving process.
A dear man at hospice shared this with us because we all wanted dads ashes..
It help each of us kids have a part of dad. His rose was yellow.
Hugs Remember be gentle to yourself…it takes time to go through all the stages of grief. Some longer then others… Mine was loss of advice so I was angry longer.
I’ve tried to talk with her about what I would feel satisfied with/how often I would like to have it if my partner was on the same wavelength as me. She doesn’t take any medication and has felt with some depression/anxiety but the weird thing Is it was so much worse last year then it is now. Yet we’re having less sex now. I hear her out and don’t want to do anything with her if she doesn’t want to do anything it’s just odd how big of a difference it is now and how instant it changed.
It sounds like you need to get this out of your system. I think you should talk to her about it so that you can understand what each other’s feelings are.
Yep this is something she needs to take up with a therapist. At the end of the day she was born a man and will never stop carrying the XY sex chromosomes. She'll never experience certain things only those who were born with XX chromosomes and have had to go through life as biological women and fully functioning parts. There's no period, no eventual menopause, no breastfeeding, and no possibility of a pregnancy and that's something she needs to come to terms with. Preferably with the help of a therapist and not using their son as a prop to her fantasy. His needs come first.
Honestly only wanting hand stuff leads me to think porn addiction bc of death grip. He’s been “dry” for a reason and it’s probably because he’s not sexually satisfying anyone…
You’re far too young for these types of problems. Had a bf with a similar issue when I was 19… it did not improve and I was with him for several years. Get out.
Do you want to meet to see if there’s a chance of getting back together or to be friends?
Stop talking to your ex for either of those reasons.
If it’s to explore the possibility of getting back together: why did you 2 broke up and has the issue been resolved or are you 2 just lonely or going back to familiar dynamics?
The fact that you are over here jealous of hun seating next to a girl you don’t know show you’re not ready to be friends.
Cancel and stop taking to your ex. You’re not ready or able to be a friend to him.
That's not what I said. I didn't say for no apparent reason…. I've read multiple stories on here where the girl goes through the phone when she suspects her guy, and she's generally applauded if not just given a pass even when she's wrong. Suspects…. Without anything but her “woman's intuition” backing her up. The guy generally doesn't get the same latitude/treatment when the genders are reversed. He's called controlling and she's just being cautious. Again this is just my observation.
Well you need to change that view point. The nice things don't cancel anything out. The nice things are purely done to control and manipulate you. So basically he is cancelling out your concerns and feelings by saying what he did was slight? It wasn't slight at all by the sound of it. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like he will ever see your point of view. You will always be wrong in his eyes.
Bf now has the opportunity to earn a referral bonus from someone he gets hired. Would he then have to give OP a cut for referring him in the first place?
I've encouraged her to find other partners outside our relationship, but she said she would only want to do it with me. Which I'm okay with but no one is to her liking. So I thought let her seek out our partner. I feel she expects me to be something I'm not, its too much.
I do powerlifting. I was an active competitor until covid hit. Im somewhat in the “fitness community”.And yes, there are LOADS of guys thirst trapping in social media, not as many as girls, since the market is much lower. But loads anyways.
I had 2 gf that where in this social “group” too. And I could not give less fu*** about it. They both opened insta and probably 110 out of 12 posts where oiled guys nearly naked, working out, pumping, sweating, playing the “Im so hot” game. Still dont care.
Everyone nowadays is one google away from seeing more porn than they could imagine, social emdia is not that much different. Everything everywhere is sexualiced. You could try to live in a bubble, or you can just mature and adapt.
Your husband hasn't done a thing wrong and you need to get a grip on these personal insecurities of yours because if you don't, you will ruin a very good relationship with a loving man. 2 very hot people can absolutely work together and not ****, this is civilized society and not the animal world. Unless you have an absolutely appalling quality of relationship or are married to a very low breed of man, then your husband doesn't just stay loyal to you because he never worked with anyone that naked until now.
I think you both should sit down and talk to each other about sex openly and honestly. Something I personally would like to do with my man once we break the distance is to have talks every month or other month where we check in with each other about our sex life like if there’s anything either of us wants to change or try or things like that. Something I think a lot of people don’t realize or maybe don’t know is that sex is very much about communication and being completely transparent and honest.
I think you two are adorable and I am like your wife I have had low self esteem for a long time and so I understand where she’s coming from she was most likely worried that since she can’t give you what you want that you might want to find it elsewhere and leave her so she offered this so she could try and please you and not loose you. I think you should sit her down or maybe you already told her this but that while yes this is something you want to try that you would never leave her over this and that your ok never doing it but that you like trying new things an experimenting with her cause she’s your wife, you love her and you feel safe with her.
Her offensive approach and desire to rug sweep it screams guilt. The fact you're left feeling like something isn't right, is your gut telling you something is off. Your subconscious has picked up on something.
Trust those feelings man, they're so rarely wrong imo.
I’m more than willing to make this a long term commitment. I fully understand that I still have things that I need to work on. I only ask because it’s also made me really self conscious and honestly, a bit insecure. It’s really easy to see the mess ups in hindsight, and my biggest regret from that night wasn’t even my DUI—it was letting her down yet again. I’ve been so disappointed in myself with this entire experience and just wanted to know that I wasn’t crazy in believing there was some bit of hope in the current situation. No matter how long it takes.
You should’ve moved out of your room ,she’s the one who pays the bills right? You try to bully her into giving up her room and demanding that she cater to your sister. The only person that needs to be inconvenienced is you and your sister not the daughter who’s paying the bills. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. She’s been supporting you probably because she loves you but that’s a shitty way to be to your daughter. You need to apologize. you brought this on yourself.
Right? Firstly hardly anyone is hiring, secondly if you work for $9/hr you'll be spending that much in travel and whatnot for the job, and end up with next to nothing left from that measly paycheck. Just exhaustion, burnout, no professional growth, no savings and more depression. It's just running to stay in the same place.
Damn. You must be really young. Let me explain, OP is a young man, trying to navigate his feelings. Feeling jealous about his gf posting her butt doesn't mean he'll stop her from doing what she wants to. And if OP doesn't like it at all, he has the right to dump her and get himself a lady for isn't into posting butt pics just like OP's gf has the right to find a man who is happy and supports posting butt pics. Neither is wrong, it's preference and OP's feelings are valid.
As you grow, you'll understand that life isn't black and white.
I mean he knows she’s a cheater so idk what the comment on friend and family knowing has to do with? He’s either telling people or not but she knows he knows she cheated. She just doesn’t know he knows she’s STILL cheating.
Do not let this person near you or in your life. Keep that restraining order, this guy is unhinged and bad news.
They defintley were not around in 2018. These are the cotton thong from PINK/ victoria secret. They didnt release cotton undwear in 2018
It’s a tough spot to be in. Of course it’s her choice ultimately (but you know this, clearly) and you want to be supportive but you’re right, this isn’t something to decide on a whim and (in my personally opinion) it rarely ends well. Nose jobs are finicky. It rarely looks natural and it’s often a gateway to “more work”. Lots of people see plastic surgery as a quick fix and that’s just simply not the case. It’s complicated, painful and rarely delivers the results we want. Just tell her that you love her, and while you support her in whatever choice she makes, make it clear that you LOVE her face as is. I’m sure with the more research she does and the more support from you that she gets, she’ll decide it’s not what she actually wants.
Tell your sister in law that you are telling your husband and she and his best friend should be prepared. Be very clear that you are not keeping this from him and you are furious that she put you in the middle. As everyone else says, they are adults and your husband has no say in what they do. If he gets upset, he can take it up with them and you have to back him up. If he decides to go no contact with them, that’s up to him and you go no contact too. But this is a lot of drama for nothing.
Hun, block her ass before she does another mindfuck on you. Please.
Very true! thanks for your comment
A hooker in Costa Rica almost 100% has an std. she probably sent him home with an extra Christmas gift for you. Merry Christmas, happy birthday jesus, you have syphilis
Thank you, this really has made me feel heard
I'm a lawyer and, respectfully, you don't know what you're talking about. I assume that it's the stress of learning that your wife cheated on you that is causing you to jump to the worst possible outcome before you've even looked into your options. None of this is Legal Advicetm because there are rules about doing that anonymously over the internet (i.e. don't) but here are a few general pieces of information:
Fathers can and absolutely do get primary or even sole custody. Especially when infidelity is involved. Especially especially when the cheater has no income. If you get primary or sole custody you won't be paying child support. Even if you do end up paying child support they're not going to take a flat 50% of your income just to fuck your life. How in the hell would financially ruining you – the only one with a job – serve the interests of the children?
Take some time to cool off and stop spiraling. Call a lawyer and figure out what your options are. If you don't like what they have to say then call a different lawyer. Repeat as necessary. It seems like you really care about your kids, so show them that you're not going to take this lying down and you're willing to fight as very hot as you can to stay in their lives.
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I agree, thanks for the advice ?
Life is much better after deleting Facebook. I recommend you do that. Download all of your pictures and pull the plug
It was 25 years ago. You’re not responsible for this woman at all. Focus on your wife
That’s what I was telling myself while crying in the shower! But I don’t know because I don’t have much experience with relationships
I did.
You do not love her if you encourage her obesity. And you went behind your wife's back.
Even without the cheating and ex situation, you guys fight non stop. You even took a break for months just because of that. Do you want a marriage where you fight every day? And where your husband goes to fuck his ex whenever he feels “down” and sorry for himself?
First of all, just because somebody is beautiful on the outside doesn’t mean that words don’t hurt, or they might have days where they don’t feel attractive. That is how they feel, and doesn’t correlate to how you feel. Secondly, his comment was also misogynistic, but carry-on, since it’s all so fucking funny.
Bro wtf is going on here
We are not in the US so they are available
My head would be spinning too. A quick google search shows condoms last/expire in about 5 years. Date wise, they could be from when you got together. Now , just two is the weird part. Unless he got them from a friend or something.
They’re not, personality is, and his is shit. So you could stay with him and put up with this shit, or you could dump him and let him continue being an idiot, or you could start undermining this ridiculous narcissistic behaviour and bring him back down to earth.
Question if he’s really going to wear that out then refuse to elaborate, laugh quietly to yourself when he says he’s so beautiful. Sarcastically agree when he calls other guys ugly and himself pretty. Start checking out other guys and when he says he’s prettier than them be patronising in your reassurance that he is. When he’s banging on about his looks, start scrolling your phone and just reply “uh huh” while he’s talking. When he’s telling you he can have any woman he wants, tell him “ok!”. Stop faking it in bed, ask him if he’s done already and use a vibrator to finish. Comment occasionally that you think is hair is starting to look like it’s thinning out. Keep telling him he has something in his teeth when you’re out for a meal. Leave a little food oil stain on his shirt quietly when you’re out for a meal and don’t mention it. Start following male model accounts on instagram and sharing them to your story lamenting how you wish you could meet a guy this very hot. Get your girl friends to all help, get them doing all the same stuff.
You need to undermine him, he needs his ego popped, not just deflated. Have fun with it, gaslight him, psychologically destroy him, THEN dump him ?
That's ridiculous. Either she's over thinking and worried for no reason or i'd be more concerned she's ashamed of you and has people in her life that are important to her that would make such assumptions. Either way it probably doesn't bode well for your relationship.
Call hospice too ask for someone to talk to..
Also get a rose bush look up your daughters birthdate Select the rose bush of that month Plant it in a big pot
Name it your daughter name.
It really helps give you something to touch..talk to and go through the grieving process.
A dear man at hospice shared this with us because we all wanted dads ashes..
It help each of us kids have a part of dad. His rose was yellow.
Hugs Remember be gentle to yourself…it takes time to go through all the stages of grief. Some longer then others… Mine was loss of advice so I was angry longer.
I’ve tried to talk with her about what I would feel satisfied with/how often I would like to have it if my partner was on the same wavelength as me. She doesn’t take any medication and has felt with some depression/anxiety but the weird thing Is it was so much worse last year then it is now. Yet we’re having less sex now. I hear her out and don’t want to do anything with her if she doesn’t want to do anything it’s just odd how big of a difference it is now and how instant it changed.
This, your gf doesn’t get a racism pass bc she’s a POC. That makes her a POS
Oh if it's inflicted external then yes it is probably psychological in nature. Although you both are 22, can't you like, live together?
It sounds like you need to get this out of your system. I think you should talk to her about it so that you can understand what each other’s feelings are.
Yep this is something she needs to take up with a therapist. At the end of the day she was born a man and will never stop carrying the XY sex chromosomes. She'll never experience certain things only those who were born with XX chromosomes and have had to go through life as biological women and fully functioning parts. There's no period, no eventual menopause, no breastfeeding, and no possibility of a pregnancy and that's something she needs to come to terms with. Preferably with the help of a therapist and not using their son as a prop to her fantasy. His needs come first.
OP, his behavior towards you will only get worse. As someone who was in your exact situation (minus the dick pic)…my heart aches for you.
Honestly only wanting hand stuff leads me to think porn addiction bc of death grip. He’s been “dry” for a reason and it’s probably because he’s not sexually satisfying anyone…
You’re far too young for these types of problems. Had a bf with a similar issue when I was 19… it did not improve and I was with him for several years. Get out.
You really need to let him go. The disrespect is reason enough.
Do you want to meet to see if there’s a chance of getting back together or to be friends?
Stop talking to your ex for either of those reasons.
If it’s to explore the possibility of getting back together: why did you 2 broke up and has the issue been resolved or are you 2 just lonely or going back to familiar dynamics?
The fact that you are over here jealous of hun seating next to a girl you don’t know show you’re not ready to be friends.
Cancel and stop taking to your ex. You’re not ready or able to be a friend to him.
That's not what I said. I didn't say for no apparent reason…. I've read multiple stories on here where the girl goes through the phone when she suspects her guy, and she's generally applauded if not just given a pass even when she's wrong. Suspects…. Without anything but her “woman's intuition” backing her up. The guy generally doesn't get the same latitude/treatment when the genders are reversed. He's called controlling and she's just being cautious. Again this is just my observation.
I wouldn’t tell him or anyone else a damn thing. Your past is your past. Were you face out?
He wanted to leave the relationship to cheat. Now he has done it he feels guilty. Dudes a pos and his best friend is covering for him.
Well you need to change that view point. The nice things don't cancel anything out. The nice things are purely done to control and manipulate you. So basically he is cancelling out your concerns and feelings by saying what he did was slight? It wasn't slight at all by the sound of it. Unfortunately it doesn't sound like he will ever see your point of view. You will always be wrong in his eyes.
His hygiene is fucking disgusting and it doesn't look like it's going to change. Get some self-respect and dump his filthy ass.
Personally I wouldn’t.
Bf now has the opportunity to earn a referral bonus from someone he gets hired. Would he then have to give OP a cut for referring him in the first place?
Let me make this absolutely clear – unless he is suffering some mental health issues, if a guy wants to hook up they will do ANYTHING to get there.
Honestly, stop chasing him.
No need to be rude just don’t initiate any conversations with him.
I've encouraged her to find other partners outside our relationship, but she said she would only want to do it with me. Which I'm okay with but no one is to her liking. So I thought let her seek out our partner. I feel she expects me to be something I'm not, its too much.
This situation does freak out almost everyone I have dated in the interim but I haven’t had anything very serious since.
I think if your goal is to find a long-term partner, continuing your situation is going to make things much more challenging for you.
I do powerlifting. I was an active competitor until covid hit. Im somewhat in the “fitness community”.And yes, there are LOADS of guys thirst trapping in social media, not as many as girls, since the market is much lower. But loads anyways.
I had 2 gf that where in this social “group” too. And I could not give less fu*** about it. They both opened insta and probably 110 out of 12 posts where oiled guys nearly naked, working out, pumping, sweating, playing the “Im so hot” game. Still dont care.
Everyone nowadays is one google away from seeing more porn than they could imagine, social emdia is not that much different. Everything everywhere is sexualiced. You could try to live in a bubble, or you can just mature and adapt.
So i should just say when the time is right ?
Wow, this man treats you like trash. I would not stay with this man. 100% he's gonna cheat again.
Your husband hasn't done a thing wrong and you need to get a grip on these personal insecurities of yours because if you don't, you will ruin a very good relationship with a loving man. 2 very hot people can absolutely work together and not ****, this is civilized society and not the animal world. Unless you have an absolutely appalling quality of relationship or are married to a very low breed of man, then your husband doesn't just stay loyal to you because he never worked with anyone that naked until now.
“I just learned how to speak pig Latin! M-the-guy n-the-game I-the-gis Sa-the-gar-a-the-guh. Now you try!”
I think you both should sit down and talk to each other about sex openly and honestly. Something I personally would like to do with my man once we break the distance is to have talks every month or other month where we check in with each other about our sex life like if there’s anything either of us wants to change or try or things like that. Something I think a lot of people don’t realize or maybe don’t know is that sex is very much about communication and being completely transparent and honest.
I think you two are adorable and I am like your wife I have had low self esteem for a long time and so I understand where she’s coming from she was most likely worried that since she can’t give you what you want that you might want to find it elsewhere and leave her so she offered this so she could try and please you and not loose you. I think you should sit her down or maybe you already told her this but that while yes this is something you want to try that you would never leave her over this and that your ok never doing it but that you like trying new things an experimenting with her cause she’s your wife, you love her and you feel safe with her.
Her offensive approach and desire to rug sweep it screams guilt. The fact you're left feeling like something isn't right, is your gut telling you something is off. Your subconscious has picked up on something.
Trust those feelings man, they're so rarely wrong imo.
I’m more than willing to make this a long term commitment. I fully understand that I still have things that I need to work on. I only ask because it’s also made me really self conscious and honestly, a bit insecure. It’s really easy to see the mess ups in hindsight, and my biggest regret from that night wasn’t even my DUI—it was letting her down yet again. I’ve been so disappointed in myself with this entire experience and just wanted to know that I wasn’t crazy in believing there was some bit of hope in the current situation. No matter how long it takes.
Oh good I thought I offended you. Phew
You should’ve moved out of your room ,she’s the one who pays the bills right? You try to bully her into giving up her room and demanding that she cater to your sister. The only person that needs to be inconvenienced is you and your sister not the daughter who’s paying the bills. Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. She’s been supporting you probably because she loves you but that’s a shitty way to be to your daughter. You need to apologize. you brought this on yourself.
RUN.
As fast as you can.
What if you have a child with your boyfriend? How would that work knowing what you know?
There is no cure from paedophilia
You can't make a gay person straight. You can't make a straight person gay.
And you most certainly cannot change an adult man whos sexual preference is CHILDREN.
Right? Firstly hardly anyone is hiring, secondly if you work for $9/hr you'll be spending that much in travel and whatnot for the job, and end up with next to nothing left from that measly paycheck. Just exhaustion, burnout, no professional growth, no savings and more depression. It's just running to stay in the same place.
I can see why
Yeah, this practice isn't remotely legal. Your BF is probably already in legal trouble, it's merely that no one has caught it yet.
He may want to get one of those free legal consults to see what his options are.
You did not post a location, but if you are in the US, this definitely violates labor laws.