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Date: December 26, 2022
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The fact he blocked you on everything is the best possible result ever! Abusers are very nude to get rid off unless they aren’t getting from you whatever it is they need. So count your blessings, and move on. You don’t need that abusive asshole. Concentrate on your Mom and spending the last moments you have with her. I am so sorry you’re going through this alone but believe that’s much better than being with this weight of a trashbag that you call bf.
Open and direct is good. “Hey, if you don't already have plans, I am having a little get together new years eve and I know it's short notice, but I'd love for you to join us “
Because I know you aren't thinking about asking a girl you aren't yet dating to spend NYE with you alone at your place….right?
That's really shitty for your mother to do with the rings, your sister has 2 items of importance of your grandmothers and you have none. The fact that she even offered you that ring makes me so angry at her oh your behalf, and you're an internet stranger. Why would she think for even a second it was appropriate for you to propose to a woman you love so dearly with a ring from a man who hated you? That ring has bad energy and you're right not to use it. I absolutely would sell it though, and not tell your mom. When she sees a different ring on your fiance, just say “Oh, the ring you gave to me when I came to you for my grandmothers ring you had promised me was nice and all but I decided I just didn't want her wearing something from such a terrible part of my life and traded it for something without negative memories attached.” I never recommend drama where there doesn't need to be any, but what your mother did was so wrong and she needs to know how hurt you are over 1) giving the ring promised to your sister and 2) trying to make up for it with a ring from a man who caused you pain and sadness-she needs to know it was wrong. Good luck.
Yes you did. Paragraph 6, you basically asked: “Do I ‘possibly’ keep him in my life?” As an option. Which is not a clear indication of immediately dropping him at all.
So you did mention keeping him as a friend, possibly or not, and that’s what I’m taking umbrage at. You can certainly make clear to POS friend why you’re cutting him off, yes, but further than that? No way.
Funny that you assume reporting means he's going to prison. It's not acceptable at all but a LOT of people don't report because unfortunately they often don't do much. This is especially the case for men.
But he is a good person. 95% of the time he was the man of my dreams. Tbh I have him another chance because my gut told me it’s the right thing but now I’m laying in bed having a different feeling. I really don’t know what to do now.
But neither of you have got serious about anyone else. It’s been 6 years.
He pretty much told me that if he breaks up with his girlfriend he’ll see me again. He was really talkative when we first met up and even came to my 20th birthday celebration. I told him congrats for his relationship and he said “thanks for congratulating me”. He’s kind of drifted off so:(. I really hope what you say can happen, I’ll try to work on social interactions because I do go to college but I also work a ton as I’m a manager at my job. All I can do is stay optimistic! Thank you!
Only thing that matters is if you want this baby and are you prepared to abort it if you go with your husbands plans?
This actually might be your only chance to have a baby because any future round of ivf might not work. I wouild say get your husband into therapy.
I say get him flowers, but also do something else thoughtful. Maybe make him his favorite dinner, or get takeout and beer he likes. If you aren’t sure that he likes flowers, you have a plan B gift.
It’s her choice to be with you. Don’t make the choice for her by breaking up with her that would be a stupid and selfish decision. I suggest working on your self esteem, therapy if possible, and try your best to give her what she deserves. It’s the little things too. Tell her how much you appreciate, bring her her favorite snack, give her flowers, remember when she says she likes something and get it
Well my bestfriend kinda lied to me too. And we are not “close close” after they broke up.
I mean 6 years you either want to get married or not
If she told you she was pregnant really just 3 weeks after having had sex, I've got really bad news for you.
Almlst nobody notices their period missing that soon soon and no pee test would detect it.
That he doesn't see the problem. His brain goes ” oh nude girl, hot”. Hot things are nude. Nude girls are meant to be looked at. This time he apologized, but i think it's because i made a big scene. I started off my asking if he respected me and i think it might have gotten him thinking? He seemed really remorseful, i just don't know how long it's gonna take for me to forgive him
That guy is a groomer. I have a 20 year old daughter. I would change his mind about wanting dating my daughter.
Im glad your in the outside world. Continue merging both worlds. People dont always get it but keep trying.
Yeah I'm not gonna respond to you anymore. Looking at the comments you make, it seems like you like to be contentious. Don't comment on a post like this if you're going to refuse to give relationship advice and instead try to be a converter. This is the 3rd or 4th comment you're doing this.
I'm asking for advice on how to navigate this communication with counseling, not trying to have a personal stance conversation.
Correct. Christmas, birthday, valentines even on our 6 month mark he gave me a card at least. He gave me my fave perfume, candy, a beautiful photo frame and flowers. For our one year I gave him a scrapbook of our year together.
I think you re right but how can I get over him? it is necessary for my mental health to talk to him for the last time
He’s like my best friend though.
By telling him you no longer want to on-line with him and his rude guests. There are better men with better families.
Not just exhausting but (and please make note of this): NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO SOLVE. OR WITHSTAND. We dont even need to know anything else about him to know that NOTHING ABOUT HIM IS WORTH DEALING WITH ALL THIS. (Said with love, not with yelling!)
Go off to school and enjoy it. I hate to say it but the odds of you two staying together are pretty low. I am almost a completely different person than I was when I was 18, I think you'll regret not going.
first ,thank you , i really think that am empathetic with her and care about her feelings(she often tells me that i do) i just wanna know if this will affect the relationship in the future cuze it ll be a waste of time and energy tbh . but lemme give u an example,for the past 4 months i did my best to spend time with her and give her affection as she wanted (that's my 'job' ik) but she is just ungrateful for it ig , the last week i just felt overwhelmed and i told her that i wanna spend time alone that night(we r both introverts) i thought she would repsect it but she just said 'okay , i did a mistake for cancelling my plans for hanging out with my friend and stayed with you' , and tbh this was really weird ,what's the point if she s pleasing other people and don't care abt her partner's feelings ?
Idk about everybody else, but this shit is real. I lived my entire youth like this, from puberty to college. The fictional husbands are hole fillers, in many metaphorical ways. It’s daydreaming and storytelling and escapism.
I do feel like it’s cheating. At the very least, she’s getting things from another source that she could be getting from you-her actual living partner. It creates a distance that isn’t good.
Idk how to help. I had these fantasies before living with other people, embarrassed to be found out by anybody. Your wife does this openly and without shame? Gets me concerned for her mental health honestly.
Take him breaking up with you as a gift and go ahead and block his number as well. If your parents had to book you a room and a flight things are clearly not good at all. If you are hiding your relationship then you know in your heart this is over. It sounds like he wanted to sleep with someone else and if you find out after taking him back again he will use the Ross line of ‘we were on a break.’ This is real life and not a sitcom..make a choice to get yourself unstuck and make the choice to put yourself first and walk away from this drama and nonsense.
Don't wait until he wakes up. Tell the hospital that you are not together and that the ex wife is next of kin.