I dated a guy once who boasted about having a threesome with 2×18 year old girls. I was repulsed and after he dropped me home I declined to meet him again. He was close to 30 and no amount of explaining ever made me change my mind over how disgusting I found it.
For real.
I went on a date with a guy like this. It was our second date and since the first had gone pretty well I had a good feeling. We got to talking about past relationships and he mentioned his last girlfriend was 18. We were both 32.
When I tell you my skin felt like it was going to crawl right off my body. I should have just ended the date there but I felt awkward. He tried to initiate touching and hugging a few times and I felt so repulsed that the second time he put his arm around my waist I batted him off and said I had to go home because I didn't feel well. Which was true, after the whole “my last girlfriend was a teenage girl” thing him touching me honestly did make me feel a bit queasy.
You don’t have to convince her. Get a vasectomy or be in charge of always using a condom. If she does get pregnant, the decision will be hers. Your time is now to be sure you aren’t creating a baby. Don’t try to change her mind. Be curious about how she feels, learn to know her. It’s okay for her to feel that way. But when asked, calmly state how much you love being child free. Don’t argue, explain, or fight about it. And keep your sperm blanks or bagged up.
It’s as simple as he doesn’t respect you.
I dated a guy once who boasted about having a threesome with 2×18 year old girls. I was repulsed and after he dropped me home I declined to meet him again. He was close to 30 and no amount of explaining ever made me change my mind over how disgusting I found it.
For real.
I went on a date with a guy like this. It was our second date and since the first had gone pretty well I had a good feeling. We got to talking about past relationships and he mentioned his last girlfriend was 18. We were both 32.
When I tell you my skin felt like it was going to crawl right off my body. I should have just ended the date there but I felt awkward. He tried to initiate touching and hugging a few times and I felt so repulsed that the second time he put his arm around my waist I batted him off and said I had to go home because I didn't feel well. Which was true, after the whole “my last girlfriend was a teenage girl” thing him touching me honestly did make me feel a bit queasy.
You don’t have to convince her. Get a vasectomy or be in charge of always using a condom. If she does get pregnant, the decision will be hers. Your time is now to be sure you aren’t creating a baby. Don’t try to change her mind. Be curious about how she feels, learn to know her. It’s okay for her to feel that way. But when asked, calmly state how much you love being child free. Don’t argue, explain, or fight about it. And keep your sperm blanks or bagged up.