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If she cheats with you she will eventually cheat on you
You need to throw Mary straight under the bus and not think twice about it. It's one thing for Mary and Tony to be in this situation. It's quite another to drag the rest of you into it. Their problems need to stay between them. I know you want to do right by Tony but he's asking of things that are costing you (and the others involved) dearly and it's not healthy.
Completely given it up. Not even for the relationship but for myself. It is toxic and here it is again messing me up lol
These questions of like, “what will my family / my partner's family think when they see this?” or “do I really want this image on the public Internet?” actually have nothing to do with you. By which I mean, she should be able to answer those questions without even taking your desires into consideration. If that's the way she wants to present herself publicly she needs to accept the consequences. This is a much larger issue than just your potential insecurities.
Oh, Right! I'll also be sure to keep you updated if you want to, I'm definitely gonna be trying out your methods.
This happened to me once and really, just give the bwnefit of the doubt to the former coworker and on the ex, she must have been worried about how you would feel, especially since she must have known you and her current lover had a bit of a beef. Same goes to the casual friends.
Relax and support your friend.
You’ll learn in life as you get older that mentioning exes will sometimes offend people. Eventually you’ll say “friend”
I trust my partner, so no. the temptation has been there, but I recognize that said temptation is triggered by my own insecurities and not by my partners actions. the only time I go through my partners social media is when i use her discord to look at porn lol
You need to talk to your partner and come at this as a team. It’s highly likely that Sherry is having a mental health crisis brought on by her breakup. Maybe before you do anything with Sherry you should get yourself added to the lease. Once that’s done and dusted, you should both talk to her and explain that you’re concerned for her well-being. Tell her that you’re concerned about the changes in her behavior and ask how you can help. If nothing changes, you might have to ask your partner whether he’s willing to ask Sherry to leave or change her behavior. If she still doesn’t you might have to kick her out or find a new place to live. The main thing is really getting your partner on board and making him understand why you are upset.
He won’t change. Here’s how to decide if you stay or go. Is he a good enough partner that you would give up on marriage to stay with him?
You deserve better and you certainly are NOT worthless without her, but she’s treating you as if she thinks you’re worthless now.
Don’t be anyone’s little secret. Break up.
You thought you'd spend the rest of your life with him after chatting for two months and going on 3 dates? He didn't call you for a day or two and you sent him a text that is saying you're done. It was a very manipulative text as you know you didn't want to stop talking to him. Maybe he saw that as a huge red flag the same way I'm seeing it. His lack of response is your closure. Move on.
I'd be checking all my social media and text history for the day and the week after the alleged incident and see if there are any signs that things were off after the incident. If there are not indicators that something went wrong that night, screen shot everything just incase. Surely there'd be some signs of distress after the incident in question.
I’d think it was kind of weird, since he already knows about my obsessions with fountain pens and cats. (Even better, cats with fountain pens.) Oh, and bitching about work.
You’ve known each other your whole lives, but you didn’t know he routinely gets butt works abs scratches his ass, then doesn’t wash his hands after. So clearly you didn’t date long enough before moving in. Dump his itchy ass.
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“How dare you open my eyes to the bitter truth?”
If all he wants is to be alone, tell him to leave the house for a while and go do whatever he likes – alone.
Idk, I think if a guy messaged me over the holidays and asked me out i would just think he’s trying to cuff and not looking for anything serious, but maybe that’s just me
The thing is i don't FEEL angry at him anymore. It happened two years ago and i thought i was further past it.
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Take the opportunity to teach them and make it a fun learning experience.
I think I dated her, Ms.Gold Digger right? Give her a break up for Christmas.
Tell her you just got a promotion at double your salary and won't have time for an active personal life for the next 8 to 10 months.
Maybe you'll call then. Lol.
Tell him you’re passionate about and focused on sex. Then go get some sex from a someone who isn’t trying to change everything about you.
This is one of the reasons I tend to recommend fantasy romance novels over stuff in a modern, realistic setting. Nobody comes away from Kushiel's Dart thinking “We've never even escaped being enslaved by a barbarian warlord together. Is this relationship worth it?”
Mutual help with problems is a reasonable expectation. Both of you doing stuff to progress your lives to a place where you could support kids is a reasonable expectation. I don't think it's nuts to have a talk about budgeting or what would need to happen if you wanted to live together.
If you're pushing back and refusing gas money or gifts, some of the problem is on your end, work on that. I'd also suggest raising the subject of cheap dates that feel like dates. I don't have the budget to imitate even most Hallmark movies, but it's not like cooking before you get there or going out occasionally is a huge ask.
My love, this is sexual abuse. This is a dangerous person. Don't ever go back.
Be safe ❤️
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So you didn’t answer if you would be ok with your bf meeting up with a girl 1:1.
It was actually a peck. Lol. You gonna lie on here to get the response you want. Looks like she deleted her post because people are agreeing it’s totally fine. Too bad she lost me over this and now reelize it’s normal. Maybe it’s totally weird to her because her family hardly even hugs each other. She’s someone else’s problem now
He says he was upset and my nagging pissed him off, but he forgives me and is sure that I’ll do better next time.
When I say my blood fucking BOILED
it's every day on this sub. imagine how tired we are
Yeah for now I am.
Look, this guy is trouble, not more. Block him, move on.
Yeah for now I am.
Look, this guy is trouble, not more. Block him, move on.
It’s time to put on your shining armor and show your girlfriend that you trust her and can let the past be the past.
You can do this man. If your chick says your good enough for her, don’t look back for a second.
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She has a mental health problem or she’s extremely clueless and/ or inconsiderate. You’re not crazy for reaching ur limit with this bs
We have been together for a long time
Totally and completely changing the dynamics of a long-term relationship is a very big deal and you're going to need to sit him down and be very honest with him.
You are being arbitrary in your decision about sexual abstinence, but he doesn't have to be OK with that. So, you should be prepared for him to end the relationship. I would, if I were walking in his shoes.
Okay, but you can find that security without being married. You can get it from a partner without marriage, from friends, from family. From government aid.
And I would disagree with you. Married women have less rights in many undeveloped countries. They basically become property the husband can treats how he wishes. Many governments don’t address domestic abuse or martial rape at all. Even in developed countries like China that’s an issue.
So yeah, still don’t see any security in marriage. The security people talk about marrying for is money. Which they don’t have.
I mean, that's up to you. But I'd at the very least sit him down and say that you know what he's doing and it's not going to work on you? If it's something he's been taught in terms of standard things to do in a marriage then it might be possible for him to unlearn it, but whether or not you want to put that work in is entirely up to you.
no need to apologize. if someone is rubbing on one point too much , that can be a personal preference and doesn't harm society, she is the asshole. may be cut your losses and move on.
don't destroy other relationships due to her though.
I think losertron might be a good one too?
I’m gonna call it violence because it is.
Now you've learned a lesson. You pick up the pieces, fix what can be fixed and carry this lesson into the next chapter of your life. That's it. Life is complicated and you made a choice. Now you feel that the choice was not worth what was lost. Now you know not to make that choice again.
Yea it's done, abrupt or not he told you how he felt. Mourn that loss abd move forward with your life. Seriously wish you nothing but the best OP.
this isn’t funny, OP needs actual help.
You are having a medical emergency. Please call for help. 988. Tell them why your thoughts are causing unbearable panic.
You’re overthinking. And he probably gave you a stretch-8 if you want to overthink some more. It’s not much different from him wanting you to think he’s the tallest person in the world in your eyes. Not objectively by any measurable standard, but you, at least, should think so.
Be happy that he loves you so much for who you are that he backs it up by spending the only life he has with you.
Yeah, love bombing at the beginning is classic abuser/manipulator tactic
She's given you her answer. She gave you her answer all the way back in September. She wanted to be your friend. That's all.
this. I was going to say, his mother is mixed and he has other interracial marriages in his family that are accepted, I feel like he used this as a cop out
Ace is short for asexual, which means a 0erson who does not experience sexual attraction. (The feeling of liking someone sexually)
However your partner may be Ace but still enjoy the act and feeling of sex. You would need to research Ace and then talk to her about what she feels about it. You might come to some sort of agreement.
if she wanted to meet up, she would’ve asked you to meet up. You guys are really far apart in age and it would be weird if you were casual friends.
You painted a bizarre picture that is not what happened at all with OP. If my fiance was feeling needy and wanted a hug I’d oblige even if I wasn’t feeling it in that moment. If I felt that she was pushing my boundaries to the point of making me nervous I would remove myself from the situation and have a talk afterwards.
Just stop equating a hug from your fiance with a situation of desperation where an extreme violent reaction is required or even warranted.
As a husband AND a dad, I wouldn't do any of this crazy shit. Like add up the math, doesn't want to be around, fighting, dick pics, lying, out all night. It sounds like this guy wants to live a very different life than the one he's in.
Therapy would be wise. Not all decisions are made with ease and peace.
Don't get yourself too wound up over this aspect of it. Real life isn't often as dramatic as TV. In fact most law enforcement agencies have pretty strict rules about this sort of crap. He may be too busy trying to keep his job to use it against you. Not to mention the divorce or…theoretically…reconciliation.
Unless you live in Bumfuq, Nowhere where the “good ol' boys” make their own laws and all those other old cliches, you'll be fine.
It is hard but you have to just move on. You can believe what you want to believe about why the relationship ended. It sounds like she did find someone new and if she did so what. That shows she was not the one for you or you were the one for her.
Instead of trying to figure out why she left how she did, work on yourself. Become a better person.
Lastly she is not worth your time even if she did not find someone before she left you. The reason is she does not want to be in your life. Then she was vague with why you broke up. She was not being honest with you so that should be good enough for you to move on.
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Can you go to a friend or family for a while?
He's shifting the blame on you because he still doesn't care about your feelings. He is hurt because you looked at his phone.
It sounds like more of a fantasy than something he thought long and hard about.
Maybe his fantasies are stronger than his imagination to really understand the reality.
It was an idiotic thought. He clearly didn't think about how his question would impact you.
But walk him through it. Ask him if he has researched how many many marriages that went poly ended up in divorce. Or if he has thought about the idea that you could have a different man every night if you so chose.
Let this be a lesson to everyone who is greedy, who wants to he a cake-eater, who wants to have it both ways, of the serious damage you can do to even the best relationship by asking for this and/or doing it.
Wtf are you on about?!
Same person?
For OP she played one person alright. The loving and faitfull wife.
For that dude in Costa Rica she played a different person – so who is she really?
Stop with the bullshit. We can love more people, but the lying and cheating part is what sucks for most.
Not only is he a misogynist, according to op’s other posts, he’s an emotionally and verbally abusive alcoholic who does 0% of the parenting.
It’s time for op to face reality and protect her daughter.
Sounds like he wants to use the dating sites, no matter how you feel or what it does to your relationship
Hahaha this is hilarious. Excellent at what you do? You went into it not knowing about the industry at all and are acting like she should just trust that you’ll be successful. This is honestly one of the most trash posts here, and I struggle to believe you are not a troll by how obtuse you are in your post and through these comments. She wants a partner, not a man child.
That’s the only option you have for now , if he keeps doing it , move on .
Appreciate it ??
So? She can't steal someone who doesn't want to be stolen.
…i think so
Oh man. This just made me sad. Physical affection is actually really good for humans in a lot of ways! Good physical touch produces oxytocin which makes ya feel GREAT! It also lowers cortisol production! – The stress hormone. You should ga-google the ways in which physical affection is beneficial.
Video him doing it so if he lies you can show everyone what a gross weirdo he is.
You had to live without her.
Or with her lowest and evilest sides.
Now she is dying alone with precisely those.
She made her bed.
Do get therapy to get that hatred out of you. You deserve to live! a happy life. Free from her cursed inheritance.
This woman is waving red flags in your face like a parade for Lenin!
You need to move on dude.
That's could be fun actually, I will think about it!
My MIL wore a white dress to our wedding and I figured she just wanted to feel special too. I know she didn't have a big wedding because she got married very young when she was pregnant with my husband. I lent her jewelry and a handbag from my own things so she felt loved and fancy. It didn't matter at all. This is a great time to decide “the hills to die on”. There will be many more challenges ahead with your in laws. Being compassionate in this moment may be a great time to start practicing for the future.
If she's not already cheated she's planning on doing it. Litterslly meeting the dude to plan it.
Throw her out.
I agree, his execution was messy, but to me her insistence on continuing despite her crying is even more appalling.
So I’d say this is a case of rude awakening. And better OP be the AH and help her realize the flaw in her judgement than her realising it when it’s too late.
This is what happens when you skip steps. It's late, but you need to backtrack and have the conversations Now.
Does he pay rent. Is he a tenent, or co-owner. Tenants aren't expected to do house repairs, certainly not renovations. Is his housework or rent buying equity in the house? Or is he just renting a room in Your home? What rights does he have. How much say does he get in what gets done. How much if any, is His space.
Money vrs Chores. Who's bringing what to the table. Is he paying more than he feels is his share? Is he a freeloading bum who neither pays bills nor cleans house. Do you want a house husband, a bill paying working partner, or a mix of both?
What is his natural state of “clean” vrs yours?
If you haven't kicked him out yet, move on to:
Inlaws. Expectations regarding end of life care, holiday visits, child rearing help. If tragedy strikes, who's allowed to move in with you under what conditions.
Children. Styles of parenting, abortion, schools, nanny vrs stay at home parent. Who raises the kids if you both die.
Religion. Yes, no, who's. Family obligations re weddings, christenings, etc etc.
Is this house your final home? What about moving for carer advancement. Sell it or rent it out? Is this house a fixerupper as a stepping stone to your dream home? Will he be paying into that one? If you break up, does any equity get returned to him?
You guys need to have many, deep, hours long conversations.
Also I didn't say OP had to do both portions of laundry, I just said it could be done easier
Okay even then, there’s still a few things that make it unhygienic. Such as the dick touching the toilet bowl while they shit, pee, precum, if they have a wizard sleeve and the surprises it may hide. Even if I didn’t swallow, I would still clean my mouth out with at least mouthwash. But maybe I’m just weird lol.
Oh it is almost 100% always what you think. Woman to woman, trust your gut. He’s shady.
I’m not insecure?? What does needing respect have to do with that?
Break it off for good.
So she has the moral fortitude to not cheat (or as far as you know) but she is still to much of a coward to just end the relationship.
So she wants to ‘a break’ so it’s not cheating when she fucks whoever she has in mind for her next relationship, while having you as a safety net.
So you give positive reinforcement.
“I love it when you kiss my neck. It makes me feel so wanted.”
“Your hands on my thighs send shivers up my spine. I wish you'd touch me all over.”
“Grab my ass and fuck me like you mean it.”