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Date: November 23, 2022
“Leaving him isn’t really an option and I don’t want to go through the rest of my life like this.”
The problem is, not leaving him means this is exactly how the rest of your life will be. Literally THE DAY you got engaged, he “changed” and that’s in quotations bc I believe he was always like this. The man you were with previously was the mask. The one used to lure you in, to agree to marry him and the second he got a ring on your finger, he believed (believes) he had you trapped. All of his actions since that moment only solidifies his mindset. Now that you’re pregnant, he really thinks you’re completely locked down.. and not in a good way. You are his property hence the “my baby, my child” You are just his incubator. His house slave. His to command. FUCK THAT. He is cutting you off at every turn from any avenue that could take you away from him. He took your freedom of independence ie the ability to leave the house on your own. Then he took your job, your ability to interact with anyone else, along with your ability to financially support yourself. He stole all the money you’ve earned, making you entirely dependent on him in every single way. He has made you his prisonerno doubt about it. He is emotionally and financially abusing you, likely also verbally and eventually, it will be physical if it hasn’t become already.
There is no changing someone like him. The rapidness in which he made these moves … it just does not bode well for you and the sooner you make plans to leave, the better. Your life and now the life of your child depends on it. You can choose to stay, but I promise you, things will not only stay the same, but get worse. You are a grown woman. You are not being treated like one. It was not his place to talk to your boss. He used the guise of concern to make you lose your job. It has nothing to do with concern but power. You don’t deserve this and neither does your child. The longer you stay, the harder it will be to break out of these walls he is building around you. Right now, you can still see that this is wrong, that you shouldn’t be expected to online like this… but you can’t see that you WILL be expected to on-line like this so long as you stay with him.
Getting out isn’t easy. It’s nude to reconcile the man you have in front of you now vs the man you thought you have known and loved. The man you loved was the facade. If you have any family or friends, please, I implore you, reach out to them. Go over the the sub ‘abusive relationships’ (idk how to link them sorry) They can share their stories with you and will have resources you can utilize for help. Just don’t let him know if you plan to leave bc that is the most dangerous time. When they realize they are losing their control over you. Wipe your phone or computer history. It wouldn’t be surprising if he starts to monitor your phone usage and who you communicate with.
Please know you deserve better. This is not what love looks like
I’m comparing it to my experience having a baby (which can be the result of failing birth control). I think it’s fair to compare the side effect of birth control to the side effects of pregnancy and childbirth.