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I get it plenty lol… which is probably how I’ve ended up married with a wife that understand I’m invested in this relationship. She’s known it from the beginning. Pretty sure I also stated in my OC that it makes no difference to me whether it’s a girlfriend or a wife. Taking a look at the context of OP’s post, maybe it’s just me, but it sounds like after dating this person for the last few months, they’ve made it official. At the very least, that’s her implications and intentions for their relationship.
Feel like I’ve said this in a few comments now, but at some point in your relationship (dating/girlfriend/wife), you’re going to need to start treating them like a long-term partner, which means telling them the things you would tell a long term partner. I don’t keep secrets from my wife, or lie to them for our friends.. nor did I when we were dating. What I think people here don’t seem to understand is a relationship will end or your person will lose faith in your relationship if they learn you’re willing to omit information from them that is their right to know when deciding if they want to pursue a relationship with you. Information coming out later than would’ve persuaded them to not pursue a relationship with you is almost a guaranteed way to end a relationship.
In my opinion, it’s better to start treating them like a long term partner and act with that same intention from the very beginning if you have any hope in actually turning that relationship into a long term relationship. Just because it’s worked for me, doesn’t mean it’s worked for everyone.. but it’s worked for me. Secrecy and lies by omission are a very easy way to kill a relationship. It’s also her right to know and decide whether or not she wants to pursue a relationship with someone who has essentially engaged in sex with his best friend. The fall-out from finding out months or years later can be way more catastrophic, probably lead to insecurity and trust issues as well toward other potential future partners.. on a human level, it’s pretty fucked up to be okay with that. Relationships are about looking outside yourself toward your partner. But everyone is allowed to have their opinion ?♂️
Let me translate: “I don’t know” means “Yes, if he will have me”
He has an EA with her, and that is why she doesn't want you around. She considers you expendable, and he has gone along with it, so have you. Stop it and change the dynamic.
If he has to sniff your armpits to look for smells, then you’re not the problem. Maybe he should work on his armpit-sniffing compulsion instead of making his weirdness your problem.
Yeah it's becoming a bit of a problem. Thanks for your input
I’m done lying
For what is worth, everyone knows you’re lying. Falling on your face when ice skating looks very different from getting punched in the face.
No he met her after she turned 18. During their first ever conversation she says “I turned 18 last week”
I don't remember asking you to be a regular partner of mine? As i would probably not want to be one of yours either, as it would be confining and suffocating, IMO. Just bc i don't require or want a bunch of mollycoddles after sex ? nor do I want cuddles or someone making demands of me all the time to fulfill their own happiness and needs. That shit gets exhausting. i spent 9 years of my life doing that shit. People have reasons for being how they are, and some people are compatible and some people aren't. That's just that.
There's a calendar app on your phone mate. No excuse.
Keeping your word, prioritising your family and being reliable is the issue here. You screwed up badly. Ironically if you'd asked her if you could change plans when you first heard about golf she might well have been cool with that.
Run now, save yourself a lot of frustration and heartache