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Date: October 2, 2022
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I ended up with rhabdomyolysis while in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend drove all the way in from across Texas in the middle of the night to make sure I was okay.
You deserve better. Throw the whole man out
Have you two sat down and discussed this? I know it can be uncomfortable especially when you’re younger and less experienced. But if you’re mature enough to have sex then you need to be mature enough to talk about it.
I (44F) have no idea why your GF only wants sex once a month. But having been an 18YO young woman and having been in relationships with various men in the 25 years since, here are some ideas to consider.
1) maybe the sex isn’t good for her. Maybe it’s not satisfying, maybe it flat out hurts, maybe there’s not enough foreplay. Maybe she feels like she’s basically a living sex doll. I had mostly bad sex until I was in my late 30’s because most of the men I dated—especially in my late teens/early 20’s—only seemed to care about their pleasure. And they didn’t bother with foreplay so sex was often painful if there wasn’t any lube available. And even then, it was over so fast that to me, I was just a sperm recepticle, never enjoyed it, and felt like it was a chore.
2) maybe she has serious anxiety about pregnancy. It can be hot to get in the mood if you’re terrified of becoming pregnant. If you’re in the US where Roe v Wade was recently overturned, it’s scary as a woman knowing that if you get knocked up, you may be stuck raising a kid on your own if you don’t have the means to go to a state where you can have an abortion.
3) is she on any medication that is known to reduce libido? Antidepressants and some hormonal BC can really tank your sex drive.
4) she may be asexual. This is the least likely but it’s possible.
As for her not wanting to cuddle or kiss because she’s afraid it will lead to sex she doesn’t want to have? Communicate your need for it and promise her you aren’t asking for sex in those moments.
With all that said, your needs matter. Sexual incompatibility is as fine a reason as any to end a relationship. I broke up with a man I really loved after 3 years of bad sex. He tried. It just wasn’t working out and by that time, I knew good sex was possible and was tired of forcing myself to have unsatisfying sex just to keep my partner happy. In your case, lack of sex is the issue and it’s okay to want to be with someone who is a better fit.
Don't forget that about every post here starts with the same format.
“We are super nice together.”, “Super new level of super love between us”, “Everybody always says we are cute together”, “everything is going great together”. “Everything is fine, except”
And then some horrible shit that no one in their right mind would put up with.
You haven’t been in a relationship before so I can understand you being eager to see where this goes. But you have to think rationally about this. Realistically how would this work? And that’s ignoring the fact that he has already said he is against any type of long distance relationship.
As someone who has had a lot more experience I’ll just say that this probably won’t be the first time this happens. I’ve met people and had an amazing time and then we both go out separate ways and nothing comes out of it.
All of this to say just be careful about setting expectations and getting your hopes up about this leading to something more. It’s ok to just enjoy something for what it is, even if it’s just temporary.