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saraellis Public Chat Channel
Date: October 23, 2022
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A lot of comments are saying to go to a lawyer and get your plan together for leaving, which I agree with to a point.
I think you should speak with your church (is your husband a Christian too), perhaps an older wiser man/group of men at the church could help him see the error of his ways?
His gaming seems to be his vice that makes him neglect his responsibilities, his job doesn’t end when he gets home from work!! (I also have trouble making my husband keep this in the front of his mind).
I think you need to sit down with your husband and talk about how his actions are affecting you and the consequences that you decide on if he isn’t willing to work towards a compromise.
I would advise you to open a new bank account that you have no current affiliations with and change your wages into that account (see if they can withhold post to your address and advise that it is due to financial abuse) and chat with a lawyer about what happens in the case of divorce so that when you chat with your husband you know what the alternatives are.
In regards to finances, I would advise that you separate them and transfer your share of bills into a joint account (that you both have access to) you have expressed no inclination towards violence (just selfishness and narcissism). Let him know that until you can amicably come to an agreement and action a new way to manage your finances, you will not be sending him any money. If he can’t afford to keep the house on his own wage it will incentivise him to sort it with you promptly.
They could do it with the siblings. If they come up half then they know something is off.