I hope OP listens to you! If she started putting her time and energy into her escape, the world will start to open up. Her sex life is horrid, they’re out of synch on family plans, and she feels stuck. Unstick! This is not a marriage – it’s an anchor and she doesn’t have to keep tied to it.
If he isn't giving back what you put in you need to dump him and find someone who is willing to put in the same effort you do. This is true when it comes to finances, sex, housework, gifts, doing nice things for each other, thoughtfulness ect.
Is she being looked at or being harassed?
I hope OP listens to you! If she started putting her time and energy into her escape, the world will start to open up. Her sex life is horrid, they’re out of synch on family plans, and she feels stuck. Unstick! This is not a marriage – it’s an anchor and she doesn’t have to keep tied to it.
If he isn't giving back what you put in you need to dump him and find someone who is willing to put in the same effort you do. This is true when it comes to finances, sex, housework, gifts, doing nice things for each other, thoughtfulness ect.
So what’s the hobby he insists on having a massive monthly allowance for?