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Sasha, 19 y.o.
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Date: November 27, 2022
Sasha, 19 y.o.
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I hear you. It feels as though he's choosing porn over you while your needs go unmet. This feels like rejection but there might be something else going on that means it's not personal against you.
I had a higher sex drive than an ex and he felt so inadequate that he just couldn't perform and we barely got it on. He also couldn't talk about it until we broke up because he felt so ashamed and emasculated.
First up, fact check. Was he watching porn or just lost in reddit? I mean, he probably was. It sounds as though your husband is feeling pressured and he might have just needed a moment away to feel in control of his own body.
If he doesn't have a porn addiction (because that's a whole different ballgame), you need to talk – with compassion, vulnerability, and without blame – about why he chose that. Why is the most important thing here. Solo time just feels different. Maybe he needs it a certain number of times a week, which means both of your needs aren't getting met now that your drive is higher.
And lastly, I want you to feel empowered. It's your body, it's your horniness, so, if he's not up for it when you are, please take care of yourself. Let go of the dissapointment and have some fun.
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It's not out of your control, you're 23, not 13. You need to start acting like a professional adult.
I feel like with my emotions I would lash out and say things I don't mean so I freeze and the situation just repeats over and over repeating that feelings and it's hell.
He cares about her soul apparently