You can “take her back” with a clause of a post nuptial, would that work? Then when she eventually cheats again uou can divorce her and keep your stuff? You'd have to talk to your lawyer if that would work?
Thats some good points. Now I feel I am overthinking the smallest things due to all the criticism I got from her… The best thing would be to stay away I think, with how she sees me as her full support network, and that could be horrible if we were in a serious relationship and her being away from her family and so on. I was starting to lose myself, and is scared to lose myself completely in the relationship if we were to try again. But maybe she has learned a lesson now, and if we were to try she would have to be fully aware of how things should be and that she can not expect me to carry her all over when times are tough.
Do you make more money? I’d be interested if the roles were reversed how the responses would be double standards im sure
You can “take her back” with a clause of a post nuptial, would that work? Then when she eventually cheats again uou can divorce her and keep your stuff? You'd have to talk to your lawyer if that would work?
He made his decision.
Delete your messages.
These are not his children in any stretch of the imagination.
He’s not on the birth certificate and you have a new husband.
Block him and his family everywhere and delete all of your social media.
Can your husband legally adopt the twins?
That may quash the whole situation with the ex, especially since he was never on the birth certificate and never established paternity.
If you want to store pictures, get a photo album, not the internet.
Sounds like this is more about your relationship insecurities around her visiting her coworker than talking to her mother about issues.
Thats some good points. Now I feel I am overthinking the smallest things due to all the criticism I got from her… The best thing would be to stay away I think, with how she sees me as her full support network, and that could be horrible if we were in a serious relationship and her being away from her family and so on. I was starting to lose myself, and is scared to lose myself completely in the relationship if we were to try again. But maybe she has learned a lesson now, and if we were to try she would have to be fully aware of how things should be and that she can not expect me to carry her all over when times are tough.