You essentially told him that you don’t see this as a problem for your relationship, so you put all the responsibility of this onto him and said it’s all his problem.
Your partner wants/needs to feel desired, and it’s very hot to feel desired when your partner never shows you that you are desired. Putting all of the responsibility of initiating sex onto your partner and never initiating it yourself is showing them the exact opposite of desire.
Like someone else suggested, if you aren’t willing to show desire for your partner and put forth the effort to show them through action, which is to actually initiate sex equally, or figure out a solution where you feel like initiating, then you need to rethink whether this is the right relationship for you or do you need to be with someone asexual so you don’t need to worry about participating in that part of a relationship.
God I hate people
Sort of…
You essentially told him that you don’t see this as a problem for your relationship, so you put all the responsibility of this onto him and said it’s all his problem.
Your partner wants/needs to feel desired, and it’s very hot to feel desired when your partner never shows you that you are desired. Putting all of the responsibility of initiating sex onto your partner and never initiating it yourself is showing them the exact opposite of desire.
Like someone else suggested, if you aren’t willing to show desire for your partner and put forth the effort to show them through action, which is to actually initiate sex equally, or figure out a solution where you feel like initiating, then you need to rethink whether this is the right relationship for you or do you need to be with someone asexual so you don’t need to worry about participating in that part of a relationship.