I assume he’s operating off the current “shoulds” one reads online or hears at the OBGYN. Between 25 and 35 pounds, blah blah blah. I gained at least forty each pregnancy (and I continued distance running through most of each one) and returned to my pre-pregnancy weight (not body!) after about a year and a half. Your husband is an asshole, and you can tell him I said so. You are young, you grew a healthy baby, you’re doing a wonderful job and you will be just fine. As long as you ignore this jerkbag and look after you and your little one with the tenderness and excitement you both deserve right now.
Erm… yuo are being pedophobic and mapphobic. You are just being paranoid. You’re crazy
I assume he’s operating off the current “shoulds” one reads online or hears at the OBGYN. Between 25 and 35 pounds, blah blah blah. I gained at least forty each pregnancy (and I continued distance running through most of each one) and returned to my pre-pregnancy weight (not body!) after about a year and a half. Your husband is an asshole, and you can tell him I said so. You are young, you grew a healthy baby, you’re doing a wonderful job and you will be just fine. As long as you ignore this jerkbag and look after you and your little one with the tenderness and excitement you both deserve right now.