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Date: October 28, 2022
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Do you ever notice any other strange behaviors?
For example, does his elbow ever get stiff so his arm locks out at a 45 degree angle, palm-down?
Does he talk in his sleep? Or more specifically, scream in German?
Is he really into fashion? Hugo Boss in particular?
Does he wear a gray cap with skulls on it?
Is he a big fan of Charlie Chaplin? The moustache especially?
When he encounters a problem, is he always talking about finding ‘the final solution’?
Setting clear boundaries now is going to make things a lot easier for you. You don't HAVE to hurt anyone's feelings to get what you need. Saying that you have other commitments (work, friends, health, personal growth/development organizations or classes, etc.) but can be there for X amount of time during set dates will help the issue. That's not to say there won't be pressure applied to try and get you to do what they want, but if you set a schedule before you go, and stick to it, you'll have a much easier time and a more enjoyable time as you know exactly how long you're there for, and it'll be on your terms. If you only live an hour away, there's no reason you can't go for just a few hours for the bigger events where there's more family to distract from too much of the deeper probing questions and guilting for only being there for small spurts of time. You need to take care of you.
You think throwing a soft you at a dog is abuse? Are you concerned he did it out of anger? I guarantee that the dog was not hurt unless you're leaving a big part out. I toss toys at my dog all of the time. She either catches it and brings it back or chases it and brings it back.
Why did your boyfriend apologize? This makes no sense as written.
Absolutely not. Love women. Fuck yes to women 100%.
Marriage is a hassle, and many think it’s worth it.
And his words just get worse and way hurtful every time
You mentioned this in your text and offered one example. What exactly is your boyfriend saying to you during these arguments? Is he namecalling you or putting you down, or something else?
My experience doesn’t really matter much because your gf is telling you clearly that she’d like to have more financial responsibilities. What is manageable and agreeable to y’all is what your both agree on.
For my partner and I, what was appropriate and agreeable was that I took on my financial responsibility as she reduced her work hours in order to concentrate on school.
. I work on the road alot and came home a couple weeks later and found a deleted text thread on her phone with him . He was very professional and to the point in his texts but hers seemed very personal and her replies to him were sometimes heart emojis and flirty face emojis. She asks about his kids basketball games and seems very interested in his life and his kids. Asked him for pictures from his hunting trip and other more personal type stuff .
Not a lady, but none of this is ok.
You say this isn’t inappropriate, but all those things are all highly inappropriate. She deleted the messages because she’s trying to hide this from you. The other wife doesn’t know who she is, so her husband is also acting inappropriately. And she’s started up again, probably going to the kids’ basketball games while you’re on the road.
Your wife is at least having an emotional affair with the dude.
Came here to say the same thing, mainly the sunk cost fallacy. Getting stuck in that can cause you to waste so many years. Relationships aren’t linear, but time is. This time a year from now it’ll be 6 years, then 7, then 8, and so on. Clinging to this reasoning will only make things worse, not better.
Another great piece of advice someone else said: see the man who is in front of you, not who you wish he was. People change. He is going through something for sure, but it sounds like he’s going down a path where you cannot join him without losing yourself ?
Nothing is mandatory – there is no rule that says you have to stand by your partner while they self-destruct because you've been with them X amount of time. You wouldn't be throwing away the past you shared. You are taking things as they come and you do NOT have to be collateral damage in his self-made life crisis.
Pretty crappy. Caribbean people do this and it’s insanely common (though gen z is fighting this) for people (especially older women) to tell you you got fat even before greeting you. I have Chinese and Japanese friends who have told me this is common in their families as well, that in Japan someone might even jiggle your belly. Yea, I agree it’s super super rude and just hurtful to say and I’ve wanted to yeet a grandma many times in my day, but if it were me I would’ve stayed quiet also. Like how do your even respond to that? They expect you to go “yes I did indeed get fat, you are correct! I’m a shameful disgusting beast!”
Eww, no. Why are you with this person?
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Omg i don’t know how you can ask this again or tell her it’s gross but it IS gross! Does she shower and put dirty underwear on?
That's a crazy reaction to someone telling you to suck their dick in an argument.
Guess he won't be putting his dick in crazy anymore.
The fact they he constantly kept asking her out & the day of your wedding he asked one last time! Wow he’s garbage! If she said yes he would’ve left to be with her. It feels like he settled for you.
Yeah, I'm going to have to remember that consequences from me telling would be his fault, not mine. Because he's the one who's a piece of slime
no worries I say this because your MIL sounds like one of my SIL's where she talks about her adult children's business to the point she didn't know one of her sons had gotten married and he didn't tell her about the pregnancy till a month before the baby was born.
You only control your actions and you have the same issues.
The level of impossibility is depends on what you are willing to trade off. You best have a plan or your life won’t improve. Maybe dating can’t be your priority but working more to save to get out?
To be fair, even if you were to be that small percentage that changes their mind, your girlfriend is not going to want to have a child with you. So, if you change your mind, you’re going to have to have a child with someone else.
Nope!! Certain small things can be very telling about a person's character and this is one of them. It would be enough for me to dump him and move on.
I didn't unfollow her as it just caught my attention now. She wasn't reposting any triggering stuff. She started this about a week ago as if she was trying to show these posts to me. Maybe since I didn't text her, she wanted to get a reaction out of me.
Counselling. A sex therapist may be helpful but if she doesn't see the point then you have a decision to make. Divorce most likely.
This fellow is a truly manipulative predator. Does he seem to flash more money around for a while after these rendezvous?
I can’t imagine why you, as someone who was 70-80% sure he wanted to be a parent, decided to marry someone who was only 10-20% sure. That’s a huge thing to simply overlook when planning out the rest of your future.
Look dude. You can’t change her mind. If she doesn’t want kids (it’s glaringly obvious to me that she doesn’t and you seem to be the last person in the world privy to this) and you do, you need to leave her and find someone willing to have kids with you. I will never understand this whole “oh she’ll come around” thing that men do. You can’t force her to want kids, and you’re kinda stupid for marrying someone who did not align with your vision for the future.
A few ways forward from here. 1. You force her to be pregnant and raise your children against her will. Somewhere along the way she resents you and you end up in a miserable marriage or potentially divorced. 2. You give up your lifelong dream of having children. Somewhere along the way you resent her for not giving her what you want. You end up in a miserable marriage or potentially divorced. 3. Divorce now, avoid the heartache, and do what you should’ve done years ago which is find someone who aligns with your desires, rather than force someone else into some weird fantasy version of your life where she “rolls over one day and decides to spontaneously get pregnant” (seriously???)
Sorry dude, I hate to be harsh but kids is like the one thing in a marriage you absolutely cannot compromise on. You can’t half ass having kids, nor can you force a woman to go through with a pregnancy that will change her whole body and life forever when she doesn’t want that (I mean you can but…. It’s pretty rapey)
Go to your graduation !
Also excuse me wtf your brother picked the date of your graduation for his wedding? That’s pretty rude of him. He could have just picked the week after – or any other date, really. Some people, man…
They don’t even typically test for it when they do a pap if the pap is normal.
we all go to these. they have too. they may be as scared as you, or they may have reached the state of acceptance (read kubler-rose and erikson about this)
the only thing you can do is to not have regrets after the funerals. have quality with them.
I was just thinking about that as I read this thread. This is why men have poorer health outcomes when their spouses die vs women. It’s so sad to me.
Oh…I wouldn’t reply. I’d just block him & go about my day. This man has issues & needs to not date atm.
Seems like you’re just on different wavelengths. She did nothing wrong but it doesn’t sit right with you. Then perhaps she is not the right girl to be dating.
My ex husband still owes be 6k that he borrowed. He has no money but sure travels a lot with his new gf. Get that money back. Red flag ? never marry him
You’re not overreacting, I’m afraid you don’t see the real threat.
I do not mean that. I meant “get to know her”, my wording was bad. I do respect her :/ I’m asking for advice on how to start a conversation, I don’t know how.
You truly are an incredibly unintelligent person. I do not believe you to be worth my time. I hope you have a great day. We are done here.