Imagining myself as your wife… Unless if it was to prepare a surprize for our anniversary, I don't think there would be any other reason to do that. Especially if my other half wants to meet the friends I hang out so much with, there would be no reason to refuse at all.
Now the Ben guy seems like the type you'd want to keep away from your wife unless you're a very very generous man.
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This is absolutely gaslighting. Telling her she needs help when she calls him out on his lies? Gaslighting.
Imagining myself as your wife… Unless if it was to prepare a surprize for our anniversary, I don't think there would be any other reason to do that. Especially if my other half wants to meet the friends I hang out so much with, there would be no reason to refuse at all.
Now the Ben guy seems like the type you'd want to keep away from your wife unless you're a very very generous man.
It sounded more like he loves her enough not be an a-hole.
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The guy who hit on your is a predator and you were almost his bait. Learn from this a protect your marriage at all costs it would be wise to see a therapist for some IC.
There is a possibility that he doesn’t want kids simply because he sees it as an impossibility and doesn’t want to get his hopes up for something he thought would never happen. Definitely talk to him. He might be happy, he might not, you won’t know unless you tell him.