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You deserve way better than this! That is a way cruel of a mindset to put into someone's head – a real partner will think you are beautiful every day. Please try to not listen what he says anymore because it sounds like utter bullshit.
Don't settle for a man like that who says those things and then dares to call it as a “fact” generally, like he is some Einstein that knows everything that comes to those things. Don't LET HIM TAKE ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME, PLEASE. You go find a better man for yourself, i know it's easier said than done but i really hope you take care of yourself and realise that you are better off without a person like that in your life. I hope you also remember that what he says DOESN'T DEFINE you.
You deserve better. You can still be beautiful and sexy even though it might not feel like it after such harsh words, he is just one, not really that special of a guy according to this. The way you express something, really matters. You gotta be careful with other people's feelings, if he wants out, he could've expressed it much less hurtful way but i really hate that he said it like that to you.
He can go wank off to his “so called” “more ideal” women. Please, also, you NEVER DESERVE TO BE COMPARED TO ANYONE ELSE. This society is cruel in a way how it compares people to others. Women and most likely also men get compared to people whose job is to look perfect every minute of the day with all kinds of ways. Sometimes it's like there's no realness – we are all humans, with our flaws, no one is flawless, not even celebrities. Often it's forgotten what makes a person really unique and beautiful.
It's the way were made to this world by our looks and by our personality. We constantly give others something either with our smile, our personality and with our closeness. We can't give in to that view what the whole world wants that everything is shallow. We don't have to be perfect, we can be beautiful by both ways, by how we look to someone and what is inside of us.
In moments like this, it's good to realise, this person wasn't right for you to begin with. Just take care of yourself, okay? Find some way to not be around someone like that and focuse on yourself, making yourself happy and finding new, good people into your life!
Full main character syndrome. Anything outside of his frame of reference doesnt exist.
Its like racists who think eveyone is racist, but they're the only ones brave enough to be honest about it.
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His mind games continue. Block him an dif he shows up call the police and don't answer the door
Just for context I'm a 29M. Girl run!! There are reasons he is going after someone so young. No offense but you two are at completely different stages in life. I personally would never date anyone who is 19 or 20 because of that age difference. The fact he is, whole living with his parents and fighting for sobriety, yeah run!
He is using you, no way around it. Him saying he doesn't want to be alone or you are his soul mate is classic manipulation. Deep down you know all of this. The reason your feelings change is because of his manipulation. Not to mention he is using your car.
I work in Mental Health and drug addiction was the first client population I worked with while in college. Reality is there is a good chance he won't remain sober. Manipulation is text book addict behavior, and if he does relapse you are in a vulnerable position to be stolen from and exploited further.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Find someone closer to your age and who has their life intact, well as much as they can for 19-21. Good luck!!
And you should be right now too. Sorry to say.
She belong to the streets!!
Leave his sorry lazy ass
I’d consider a super direct approach. “You should not wait for me. I want to be single and go on dates with people other than you”
Maybe its because I don't want it ruin my night but I suspect this is all fake and OP is really committed to the bit.
I mean seriously, he rescued her from being a waitress at a strip club?
Oh jesus, just block the guy already. He is your ex, not your friend.
4 acts of closure. Move on.
I should yeah
You can search but I think if there are the Mods would know best.
I'm pretty sure they will review this thread or maybe you can file a notice
and get their attention.
Perhaps. I just read someone mentioned I might be intimidating. I don’t try to be just acting regular and friendly but not overly friendly I don’t chase chats or conversations. Thank you ?
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They didn’t get back together
She’s comparing you to a 35 year old man whose probably got a stable job dating a 23 year old who he most likely is grooming
Lmao
At least you were willing to give her stickers 🙂
Yeah. An administrative error should not be coming up in this convo.
You and your wife likely had multiple issues. Maybe she was more at fault than you, but chances are you contributed to the problems. It's always easier to see what's wrong with others than to see the part we play ourselves. Maybe she's narcissistic and you're controlling.
Everyone is allowed to make their own decisions. They're just not immune to the consequences of those decisions.
Who cares. It's not the point.
Mad because you don’t want to partake in sexual acts is abuse.
You were 18 when you got with him and allowed this behavior and you have the Right to stop it as well.
Do not do anything you don’t want in order to please him. That is not what a husband should want. They shouldn’t be angry because you don’t want to do things that hurt you or make you feel bad.
Please get a good therapist and unpack this all.
To be honest, I do in fact fundamentally agree with you. I’m the first person to come on here and call out objectively inappropriately age gaps, and in this situation, I’d have said exactly what you did.
But at the end of the day they’re legally consenting adults. Maybe he won’t take advantage of the inherent power imbalance. We can’t really know until we know.
Now, despite saying all this, I think you’re projecting quite a bit. I’m certainly not dismissing everything you’ve dealt with and I’m sorry for that. But even though I don’t like this situation, I don’t want to just sit here and call the guy a predator. I think there’s likely a power imbalance. But they’re 27 and 20. I don’t want to sit here and act like the guy is a pedofile either.
So on that note, I honestly do think you’re overreacting in terms of how you see him and how you feel and act around him. I mean, you know the guy. I’m making an assumption that he’s maybe taking advantage of someone immature. You legitimately know him. Do you think that’s what he’s doing based on what you know about him? If so, then you should be questioning why you’re still “friends” with the guy to begin with if you think he’s that big of a piece of shit.
But if he’s otherwise shown you to be a solid person, it’s crazy to have this big of an emotional reaction to the situation. Take a step back and be honest about it. Good luck.
I can see no growth and self awareness in what you wrote.
You want an obedient forever young woman who would jump all the hoops you want, when you want and how you want.
You've not grown from what I can see, judging by your old posts.
Now! If you wait, she will be mad that you were there for so long and didn't visit.
I would say the kids definitely don’t miss out and we live comfortably. Never once have they gone without because we would rather save.
This reply is the exact thinking my wife has and I will be honest, i makes me squirm haha. It’s just so ingrained in my nature to save it. But it is nice to get another perspective.
u/IntrovertedGinger12, have a look at these comments. Not much effort, not much money. Still love, attention, and care.
It’s not a lot to ask.
Batteries last between 3-5 years, and the new model year starts showing up on dealer lots in late summer/early fall, i.e. there's a very good chance OP's car was built in 2018. 23-18=5.
It's not that it sounds like it, it's that there was a very basic chance that it was based on general automotive knowledge, particularly so if OP lived somewhere cold that's harder on batteries.
Maybe introduce toys, ones that vibrate are usually pleasurable for both people involved.
But she's on here mooning over him still
She has a ton of debt and is financially dependent on him
I agree with your husband. It's one thing if he brings a woman from overseas into your home. But he isn't doing that. He's pursuing a hobby, ham radio. It's not a horrible thing. I'll wager that the majority of devotees are nerdy men.
If you can't deal with it, therapy is a good idea.
Yeah so how u ignore a fact which is staring at ur face?
Asking people about someone isn’t stalking
Honestly- I think you should get therapy. Specifically, therapy focused on mindfulness, which is sometimes called CBT.
The basic principle of mindfulness is that rather than just do what comes naturally, you consciously think about what you are doing, what you are saying, and even what you are feeling. By applying conscious thought to things, you can make better decisions and overall be happier.
For example when you talk to him you feel mad or aggravated. But, stop and think about that. Are you mad at him? At something he said or did? Or are you mad at something else and he's just the one in front of you? I'd offer that perhaps you are mad at the situation, you are mad that you have a face on a phone rather than a warm body that you can hug and kiss and go on a date with. You are mad that he's not with you. You're hating the way that makes you feel, and that bad feeling feels almost like an attack that you must get riled up to defend yourself from (in an old brain sort of way, like 'there's a predator I have to get worked up to defend myself from it').
That's just my quick 2c. But mindfulness and therapy helps you track that sort of thing down.
I don't make the case that it's OK. I have at no point expressed my own position on that point. I make the case that millions of people think it's OK. Check out out the number of people in r.sex talking about whether it's OK to watch.
That book will have as an essence:
it is totally unimportant, WHY someone does things.
THAT that someone DOES them is the important focus.
Never mind HIS reasons.
YOU reasons matter. Why are you still even tray to talk a berzerk silverback gorilla driver ,(sorry for the indult, silverback!) ….
….into REASON, when he clearly is totally out of reason/ beyond reach and so very very dangerous?
Would you do this at the zoo? Putting your arm into that gorillas cage and expect anything positive out of that?
Nope, huh?
WHY then…do YOU expect that from him?
Rather than doing the obvious: immediately R E M O V E a deadly threat from your life!
Alcoholism is a progressive disease, it's not that he :let himself get like this”…it's just how addiction works. It must get worse; it can't platuea and be fine forever because then otherwise it would just be casual use.
Its tough love you're giving me but I do think you're still wrong. On our first date I found her beautiful, and to this day there's many moments where I still do. I hope for at least my sake that these thoughts are just calls of the void, and frankly I think they're more insecurity based than superiority complex based.
I've never had issues with feeling superior to people but I have had issues dealing with what others think of me. There is a small chance you may be right, but I believe there's a more likely chance that I'm applying a fear that others will think she's ugly; and frankly who gives a fuck about those people? I dont want to live in a world where my value is tied to how attractive my partner is to others
There’s a huge population on TikTok taking paraguard as a parasite cleanse. It’s marketed as micro flora.
The ingredients are all herbal, but the directions say to take 30 drops multiple times per day, which “cleanses” your intestines of “parasites” because apparently everywhere else in the world you take a parasite pill once a year?