Priority one needs to be you moving out of this co-living situation. You can't just stay there as a RWB (roommate w/ benefits) and watch while he gets on with his messy life. Even taking the wife and child out of the equation, he was already moving on in wanting to bring another person in. Things “go wrong” for you because you chose to be with someone much older who's got a completely chaotic life and no interest in monogamy. This isn't bad luck. He's just a bad person who doesn't respect you. That's not going to change just because you allow yourself to be his backup booty call. Get out and start over. You're only 25 and you deserve to be with someone who's devoted to only you and doesn't have this much baggage.
I had to google that awhile back. Vaginas vary just as penises do. Size… shape… width… length… This could be a good thing for the two of you once the issue is resolved.
Since her dr didn’t find anything alarming I would for sure ease into it and see if she’s willing to go to therapy. I wasn’t raised in the church (holidays and special things only), but know some who were. They haven’t mentioned issues with this but have mentioned that the ‘sex is bad’ thing messes with their heads. I was raised to believe men only want sex and will do and say anything to get it. Didn’t help that it was proven true by everyone I ever dated. I still struggle with it sometimes.
Dee sign on her childhood she could’ve been taught or told something that stuck with her even if she doesn’t remember. Therapy can help with figuring out what it is and if she feels guilt or shame then to work through that. There are even sex therapists. Wish we had one in our area actually.
Probably a bit tmi here but has her hymen broke? A girl I used to hang out with years ago said hers was still in tact even after having sex. I found that odd but haven’t researched how that could happen.
Priority one needs to be you moving out of this co-living situation. You can't just stay there as a RWB (roommate w/ benefits) and watch while he gets on with his messy life. Even taking the wife and child out of the equation, he was already moving on in wanting to bring another person in. Things “go wrong” for you because you chose to be with someone much older who's got a completely chaotic life and no interest in monogamy. This isn't bad luck. He's just a bad person who doesn't respect you. That's not going to change just because you allow yourself to be his backup booty call. Get out and start over. You're only 25 and you deserve to be with someone who's devoted to only you and doesn't have this much baggage.
I had to google that awhile back. Vaginas vary just as penises do. Size… shape… width… length… This could be a good thing for the two of you once the issue is resolved.
Since her dr didn’t find anything alarming I would for sure ease into it and see if she’s willing to go to therapy. I wasn’t raised in the church (holidays and special things only), but know some who were. They haven’t mentioned issues with this but have mentioned that the ‘sex is bad’ thing messes with their heads. I was raised to believe men only want sex and will do and say anything to get it. Didn’t help that it was proven true by everyone I ever dated. I still struggle with it sometimes.
Dee sign on her childhood she could’ve been taught or told something that stuck with her even if she doesn’t remember. Therapy can help with figuring out what it is and if she feels guilt or shame then to work through that. There are even sex therapists. Wish we had one in our area actually.
Probably a bit tmi here but has her hymen broke? A girl I used to hang out with years ago said hers was still in tact even after having sex. I found that odd but haven’t researched how that could happen.