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I know. I’ve been exactly where you are. If books, pleading, crying, and the other extraordinary efforts you’ve made over the years don’t already convince him, there’s nothing that will. You shouldn’t have to try this hard to get your partner to care about what matters to you.
Hey, I know what this situation is like, from your boyfriend's side. My partner was diagnosed with cancer in early 2020. It was an extremely serious type, and our entire lives turned upside down.
I know for us, having hospital employees (like a doctor, nurse, psychologist, sex therapist) talk to us and give us resources and leaflets about cancer and sex was very useful. Learning how to keep me safe from chemo, what we could and couldn't do, how sex could be beneficial to both him and us, was very useful in making both of us feel safe about it. We also had a lot of therapy to ensure we stayed romantic partners and I didn't just become his nurse. I would start there.
Secondly, you shouldn't underestimate the toll your cancer may be taking on his mental health. Being the closest person, the main caregiver, and also facing the prospect of potentially losing your life partner, can be overwhelming. It is super scary and can cause a lot of worry, and he may not know how to handle it or how to talk about it. Caregiver fatigue is very real, and it is quite normal to have a reaction to seeing your life partner literally battling for their life. Some partners turn off their libido and start feeling like they are in a nurse-patient situation instead of a romantic relationship as well, that is pretty common.
So is there someone be can talk to, to help him process? Like a therapist or social worker? It helped me a lot to have an outlet, because worry and exhaustion is a libido killer. If he can't talk to anyone, perhaps hanging out over on r/caregiversupport and their discord server can be an option for him, as well as r/cancercaregivers and r/cancerfamilysupport?
You shouldn't push him to have sex if he clearly shows/says he doesn't want it, because it is equally valid for him not to want sex as it is for you not to want it. Even if that sucks. If he doesn't want it, I would focus on the points above first, to educate yourselves and give him an outlet for his worries and then see where that lands you.
Thirdly, you might want to ask this question over on r/deadbedroomsmd, it is a space for dead bedrooms for medical reasons, and I found it to be both helpful and nice, although it wasn't very active when I used it. We had people on both sides of dead bedrooms come by there, and you might get input from other cancer couples.
Last, I just want to say I'm sorry you were dealt this shitty hand, and here's hoping your treatment continues to be successful!
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