are there other things you do around the house that help him? like, how do you two divide housework, shopping, etc? because if you're doing this much to accommodate his “needs,” i wouldn't be surprised if you're also pulling more weight in other places. it seems very clear from your post that he should absolutely be living alone if he's this particular about having someone else in the house, but he might feel like he doesn't want to lose the benefits that come with a live-in girlfriend.
it wasn't exactly the same situation, but i lived with someone during the pandemic who was ultimately not in love with me. i think she would have ended things much sooner, but i did a lot to support her (in the hope that working nude enough would get her to reciprocate and meet my needs). i think she stayed in the relationship because she didn't want to lose the things i was doing for her.
Is it a real physical album or a Facebook album? Either way I think you're reading way too much into it. If they weren't dating then yes that would be weird, but since they are I don't think you should worry too much. If he starts photoshopping his face into pictures with her then I might get worried.
are there other things you do around the house that help him? like, how do you two divide housework, shopping, etc? because if you're doing this much to accommodate his “needs,” i wouldn't be surprised if you're also pulling more weight in other places. it seems very clear from your post that he should absolutely be living alone if he's this particular about having someone else in the house, but he might feel like he doesn't want to lose the benefits that come with a live-in girlfriend.
it wasn't exactly the same situation, but i lived with someone during the pandemic who was ultimately not in love with me. i think she would have ended things much sooner, but i did a lot to support her (in the hope that working nude enough would get her to reciprocate and meet my needs). i think she stayed in the relationship because she didn't want to lose the things i was doing for her.
Is it a real physical album or a Facebook album? Either way I think you're reading way too much into it. If they weren't dating then yes that would be weird, but since they are I don't think you should worry too much. If he starts photoshopping his face into pictures with her then I might get worried.
Honesty is always the best in dealing w kinks.
Why stay in such a relationship?