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white tub is full of black mildew
Eww.
he’s had 3 separate dirty used Tupperware’s and containers in his room for at least 6 months that are growing mold
Oh, oh wow, what?
his hair stinks
piles of clothes that stink up his room
didn’t change them for 5 weeks
And….you want to on-line with this when it seems just seeing each other is a big enough problem?
need advice on how to tell him I can’t deal with the lack of hygiene
You tell the guy, you can only put it so many ways.
“X, your personal hygiene makes a college frat-house (post-party) look like it's run by clean queens compared to you – you fix this or we can't on-line together”.
Or, not that blunt, but you get the drift. You cannot, surely, be thinking to conscience actually moving in with this guy while he's like this, right?
You have no guarantee that this will improve, or that he'll “change” – all the things you've listed so far are things that aren't just under his control, they are directly his responsibility and he won't do them.
Heck, you said he argues about the mouldy tuppaware?
Are you sure he isn't maybe….depressed? Has some kind of mental health concern going on which is why things are like this?
You need to sit down and talk with him, period. Either things improve, he comes clean on what's going on or….well I don't even want to say the final choice here but if you can't live! together and he won't change, is that acceptable for you as a future and relationship?
I don't think it's a bad thing either and I'm quite good at being alone. I do want a relationship though. A really good one. I feel like I have so much to give to the right person. I love spoiling someone but I like being spoiled too. I just feel lost right now. I put so much into this and… I don't know.
white tub is full of black mildew
Eww.
he’s had 3 separate dirty used Tupperware’s and containers in his room for at least 6 months that are growing mold
Oh, oh wow, what?
his hair stinks
piles of clothes that stink up his room
didn’t change them for 5 weeks
And….you want to on-line with this when it seems just seeing each other is a big enough problem?
need advice on how to tell him I can’t deal with the lack of hygiene
You tell the guy, you can only put it so many ways.
“X, your personal hygiene makes a college frat-house (post-party) look like it's run by clean queens compared to you – you fix this or we can't on-line together”.
Or, not that blunt, but you get the drift. You cannot, surely, be thinking to conscience actually moving in with this guy while he's like this, right?
You have no guarantee that this will improve, or that he'll “change” – all the things you've listed so far are things that aren't just under his control, they are directly his responsibility and he won't do them.
Heck, you said he argues about the mouldy tuppaware?
Are you sure he isn't maybe….depressed? Has some kind of mental health concern going on which is why things are like this?
You need to sit down and talk with him, period. Either things improve, he comes clean on what's going on or….well I don't even want to say the final choice here but if you can't live! together and he won't change, is that acceptable for you as a future and relationship?
I don't think it's a bad thing either and I'm quite good at being alone. I do want a relationship though. A really good one. I feel like I have so much to give to the right person. I love spoiling someone but I like being spoiled too. I just feel lost right now. I put so much into this and… I don't know.