I don’t know why everyone is calling your wife your business partner… this them trying to discuss finances. I also don’t think anyone is taking into account that divorce is always a possibility in life especially since you and your wife seem to have different priorities for your money as well as different standards
If you and your wife got divorced while your name wasn’t on the title of your current house, you would have no claim to it
If you and your wife ever get a divorce, she could take the house without having put down any money…. And there is a bug difference between 10k and 100k
I think you should seek counseling or at least get a contract written up if you don’t already have a prenup
If I was in her position, it wouldn't be the masterbation or the porn that bothered me. It's your lack of self control. Since you couldn't have sex with her because she was sleeping, you went elsewhere to get yourself off. You couldn't wait until the next day? Can you not ignore or control your urges?
This comment took ME to Ouchtown. Ouchtown, population: me, OP and anyone else who let out an audible, “oof.”
I don’t know why everyone is calling your wife your business partner… this them trying to discuss finances. I also don’t think anyone is taking into account that divorce is always a possibility in life especially since you and your wife seem to have different priorities for your money as well as different standards
If you and your wife got divorced while your name wasn’t on the title of your current house, you would have no claim to it
If you and your wife ever get a divorce, she could take the house without having put down any money…. And there is a bug difference between 10k and 100k
I think you should seek counseling or at least get a contract written up if you don’t already have a prenup
Lol he’s already considering cheating on you and leaving you. Like are you not listening to what he’s literally telling you?
I appreciate this. I was going to therapy for this and then life got busy. I should probably go back. Thanks for your sympathy. It means a lot.
Right, I mean, who would want to marry a sex object?! /s
If I was in her position, it wouldn't be the masterbation or the porn that bothered me. It's your lack of self control. Since you couldn't have sex with her because she was sleeping, you went elsewhere to get yourself off. You couldn't wait until the next day? Can you not ignore or control your urges?