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FUCK STRAPON PUSSY!! [683 tokens remaining]
Date: September 29, 2022
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I meant to say 12 year old. So there is Jake who is now an adult but as a child was diagnosed with serious cancer and it wasn't looking like he would live!. Jake was the miracle boy they had hoped for after the parents had 2 girls before him. The parents said when he was born they didn't want more kids now that they had their son. Fast forward to Jake getting cancer and when Jake is practically on his death bed, the mother starts fertility treatment and they get pregnant with Ryan. OP initially thought Ryan had been conceived as Jakes replacement for once Jake would die; it seems Jake also thinks this because he really hates Ryan and is cruel to him while the parents kind of allow it to happen. Now OP is questioning whether Ryan was actually conceived to be a donor baby to save Jake where they would use his stem cells from his umbilical cord for a stem cell transplant that might have saved Jake. OP wants to find a way to confirm this and find out the truth because the parents are saying nothing.
Which one?
Geez I was looking for this comment. I don’t think this was well intentioned either. SIL kept talking shit about her after the wedding for getting blackout drunk and now she is inviting her to a drinking event? It sounds hypocritical. Please be careful OP.
Your mother is an asshole. F**k her. Seriously. She's not the one who's going to have to life your life if you go along with what she has planned for you.
I know you’re feeling a lot of pressure right now, but try to calm down a bit. You’ve already made your decision and the more you stay in this relationship, the more guilt and anxiety you’ll feel. The best thing to do is break up before you involve yourself into any more commitment that you don’t want.
I understand it’s scary to end a relationship with someone you care for, but staying is doing you both more harm than good. I know she is jealous and has a lot of mental issues, but you are not responsible to give her validation or fix her issues. If anything, I think breaking up, as much as it’ll hurt you both, will give you the space you both need to work on your own issues.
Remindme! 4 weeks
Initially opened it to keep her. But I see your point.
He's a 20yo boy giving her a $200 pair of shoes “just because.” That is a pretty clear signal he's into her.
Both actually
Possibly, but she's still married to the guy over 30 years later, so even if it was a white-picket-fence checkmark marriage it worked for both of them.
This is why 90% of ldrs don't last. You're both very young, and it's unlikely a forever relationship. Honestly you should probably split and use your 20s to find yourself.
I assumed he meant that it was just a hook-up, but idk
I definitely would recommend therapy to help you reconcile that. It’s above reddits pay grade. There’s not a perfect string of words someone can say that will fix it, but with a therapist you can work over time towards your goals.
Whether this is the right move sort of depends on what kind of help he's willing to get. Obviously someone with depression who's self medicating through alcohol can't just stop drinking. Things like “sever (sic) depression and anxiety” are actual medical conditions that require action treatment. So if he's willing to start seeing a therapist and possibly taking medication to manage his mental illness then by extension he'd feel less of a need to self medicate with booze. But if he's unwilling to do that then a separation while your kids are still young might be what you have to do. The older they get as minors the harder and more disruptive a family dissolution is going to be. A six year-old can roll with things better than a tween or teen can.
You say “after meeting” you, were you guys official when this happened?
Exactly, I could not handle being in love or around someone who viewed me that way.
Reddit cannot diagnose this guy for you. Maybe he's asexual. Maybe he's gay. Maybe he's a germaphobe and can't stop thinking about the exchange of bodily fluids when he's having sex. Maybe he's only turned on by anime and real women don't stand up to the cartoon versions in his mind. Are *YOU* enjoying sex? Or just doing what you think will please a partner? Because it sounds like you're just going along with whatever your partner wants.
What you do know is that he isn't enjoying sex with you, for some reason that he himself won't or can't articulate. Don't fuck this guy anymore. Find someone who you can have mutually enjoyable sexitimes with. You're 24 and apparently very amenable to trying whatever your partner requests – the world is your sexual oyster.
He’s paying her to live! there when she pays nothing herself. Is it nice to make rent cheaper? Yes. But that’s not right.
I’m not sure why so many people here are totally cool with this selfish ass behavior. I can’t even imagine charging a loved one when I don’t have to.
You don't have to be jealous to recognize a relationship as inappropriate or crossing boundaries. I'd speak with your husband first.
How does she feel about an unwanted pregnancy and possibly having an abortion? This is an important conversation you guys should have before having anymore sex. Ultimately that would be her decision on what to do if that happen. Condoms can fail too, IUD can fail, both are very effective when used properly.
I second the “girl run” comment.
I don't know if it's sad but I believe there's something to it not helping. My ex husband was obsessed with women younger than our kids. (Legal, but maybe barely.) To the point our own kids knew about it. But couldn't actually perform for me. He too didn't want to be dependent on pills, so while he tried them, it was reluctantly and got pissed if I suggested he try one.
You don't have to take them always, just when you are stressed. Start with viagara, it's more of a right now pill.
It's like you have no idea what “not exclusive” means. Idgi
Tell him “no one can make you feel inferior without your consent” and then pack up and call a divorce lawyer.
So we’re currently seeking therapy and a re- evaluation from a doctor for his anger issues + meds. He was diagnosed with ADD, ADHD, OCD, and Bipolar when he was younger. Long story short, he got the diagnosis as a child but was never given and medication as a child due to neglect and/ or therapy. Now it’s like we have to figure his whole brain out. He knows when he gets mad at me or anything it’s wrong, and he needs help. But with the dog it’s a whole other level of anger and stamina. It’s like he doesn’t even believe in animal abuse, just that it’s the norm and what should be done. It baffles me because he knows right and wrong in other situations but when it comes to he dog he’s blindsided. I’ve told him we need to get rid of the dog ( ? I hate thinking of doing that, I love copper so much ) but it seems the best option for the poor pup. Lol sorry if you’ve seen this before, I wish I could add this to the main list but I’m unsure how to. We do have a daughter together, he’s literally a completely different person with both of us. Sure he still has his mean spurts and mood swings with his ODD and Bipolar, nothing unexpected. But once again, when it comes to animals, he’s overly mean and rough. Technically the dog is his, the vet bills, license. So I don’t know how I would go about that. When I’ve threatened to take away copper and rehome him he’s broken down about it. ??♀️
That’s fantastic
Stop deluding yourself. If he “accidentally” went in the wrong hole, he wouldn’t have followed up with comments about how you like pain, and trying to justify himself. He told you exactly what he thinks of your boundaries. He doesn’t give a shit about your pain, or your choices. If you stay with him, he will do it again. Don’t be surprised next time bc he literally admitted to you that this wasn’t an accident when he tried to justify his actions.
Most people over a certain age grew up with the message that blonde hair and blue eyes are somehow “better” so you’re mom’s reaction isn’t that uncommon. My mom also goes crazy when she sees someone with blonde hair and it drives me bonkers because she refuses to acknowledge how racist that is.
Would she not be able to work as a nurse in your country? Has she expressed a wish to be a sahm?
Your mother can kindly fuck right off. A pedophile should never be protected, you have to tell people about him. Protect the future generations in the way you should have been protected. Your husband will not think less of you, you did nothing wrong, you are a survivor