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that might be worth looking into then! there are definitely many articles and videos about relationship accommodations and ways to cope with developmental disabilities so you are able to get things like this done. the “doing exactly what i tell him to do happily but nothing else” also (just as someone with autism) makes me think of autism? the two are frequently comorbid and also fairly similar in many respects. its possible that he thinks he IS being thoughtful by doing exactly what you ask and doesn't understand that you might want or expect him to do anything else. if he also only seems to respond to really direct requests then its possible its autism aswell and just a genuine misunderstanding (autistic people can also have issues with executive functioning like adhd). for example if he would do the dishes if you said “could you do the dishes tonight?” but he wont do anything if you say “the dishes need to be done.” its possible he is taking the second statement as a literal statement of fact instead of a request, and accommodations can be made so that you both understand when you want him to help with something.
of course, even if he does have a developmental disability, if you try to accommodate him or work through this and still find yourself doing all of the work and himself unwilling to try and find solutions to this uneven distribution if responsibilities then having the disability isnt an excuse and shouldnt be tolerated indefinitely. just saying that if this isnt a malicious behaviour and instead has a psychological explanation there are many resources that may be able to help you both to have a more even relationship
My father was in the army and my mom gave up her career to move around the world with him. He changed jobs about every 5 years until he retired. You need to be willing to move around if he chooses to pursue his career. And you need to be flexible, and probably get used to being a pretty traditional wife. Consider all of it before going down the deep end.
I can almost guarantee telling her now will yield a better outcome. People hate liars and she’ll see this as a lie if it comes out. And if you see this being long-term it will only get harder and harder to tell her. And if she’s the type of girl who can’t handle your past adventures, better to know now than later.
Just be ready to work with her if she’d feel more comfortable with different living arrangements.
This is only about you and what you want. He has no say in this. Especially is he thinks the money can go for better things. He didn't show any concern that it is surgery.
If this were the first time he'd ever yelled at her I might agree with you, but this is a regular occurrence. How many times does he get a pass for a bad day when it's at the point where he's scaring their children? Her not putting her foot down sooner IS her extending patience and empathy and she has reached the end of that rope because of the recurring nature of this behavior.
At some point he needs to take responsibility for how he manages his emotions, yes even on a bad day. Growing up in a household with an angry parent is very emotionally chaotic for children. It's not acceptable for him to behave that way around them.
He told me as soon as he woke up but the story was a lite version and I clarify a few facts later. He was not forthcoming that it was two sex workers
So you'd be perfectly fine with a half nude girl in your house with your bf walking out after a shower?
If you have no comprehension of how that looks then you have no business being in a relationship.
He has every right to request a paternity test and if you want his support, I suggest you give it to him.
I think bring up the situation again in person when he's more awake. I don't think you necessarily need to bring up the falling asleep thing, my guess is that he was just really tired and didn't mean to.
Yes. She's super concerned.
'Oh we're not ready for children. Now ram me without protection ?'
They're equally stupid.
If you're looking for a silver lining here it is; you got to find out he was a cheating sack of shit BEFORE getting married or having kids with him & wasting decades of your life. Not everyone is that fortunate. Congrats, you dodged a bullet that was always heading your way.
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She did fume up when sex was off the table, so we had the talk that I cannot be horny 24/7. And it seemed that she understood that and things got better. Seems not lol.
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Leave him immediately.
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absolutely she would keep it to herself being confronted like that, and she probably isnt even aware if she is uncomfortable or not, being that she is only 14
No no RUN!!!!!
The inside jokes thing is uuuuuge. You are so attentive and truly empathetic. Never heard this mentioned but for me it’s the biggest sign of a connection
I don’t believe it either. It just seems too incredible to be believed. I have colleagues from India who have had arranged marriages and some are good and some aren’t. The wives of those men would never accept their husbands getting off with other women. Doesn’t matter who she is and how accepting.
She got pregnant after one try? Not believable at all. I got my ex pregnant after 6 months and we didn’t use condoms. Sometimes it happens quick other times with other people it takes awhile.
My guys last marriage was open. He agreed because he loved her and was afraid of losing her. Wanted her to be happy.
He said it turned out to be a nightmare. Stomach clenched in knots when she went out on “dates”, always wondering who she was chatting to for all hours on the phone, loss of time spent together while she was chasing other guys and never feeling like he was enough.
Sound like fun? No, not fun…….he left after a year of this insanity because he was going to end up killing himself or someone else. At this point she had a full blown affair going on that she denied until the bitter end. Open marriages are just a bullshit excuse to fuck around.
Well… he obv has some issues going on…. If he hit you… or this outburst was a regular thing… I’d Think you should leave…
But the fact that you are already ready to bolt? For his sake, nows the time to do it… cause you don’t seem ready for the “in sickness and in health” part…
You also need someone who isn't going to drag you down. Once the going gets nude with med school he will bitch and moan that you aren't doing enough around the house. You don't need that. You need to focus on your future, not this boyfriend
I’ve said this before on another post, but here it is again:
Everyone on here comparing being polyamorous to being gay, lesbian, or bisexual is just… wrong. It’s not a sexuality. It’s a lifestyle preference. Everyone is capable of being attracted to multiple people. People who are willing to have multiple partners simultaneously are fine, but they don’t HAVE to do so. They may choose not to BE monogamous, but being polyamorous isn’t a requirement, either. Neither choice is wrong, unless the poly partner tries to coerce the monogamous partner into being poly/being okay with themselves only being poly.
Spoiler alert: it’s abusive to accuse the monogamy preferred partner of “immaturity, jealousy, possessiveness, closed-mindedness, prudishness, or of lacking “enlightenment” to guilt them into acquiescing to participation. Monogamy is the preferred choice for the majority of people, and that’s okay.
If the poly partner promises to be monogamous with you to maintain the relationship, then other sexual or romantic relationships ARE cheating, regardless of their preference for polyamory. If the monogamous partner agrees to the poly relationship and then punishes the poly partner for engaging with others sexually or romantically? That’s abuse.
Nah only the first couple paragraphs were to you. But you're welcome.
The rest is for OP since apparently I was “mean” in the first one. I was just too lazy to separate the two. Oh well, can't win for losing lol
That's where the pee is stored, not sperm.
You know exactly what your husband’s intentions are when you mentioned his attitude in addition to his preferences. You husband was a creep early on but you wanted him anyways as the pick me girl. Even if she was qualified for the job you know your husband. Be charming and put a bug in her ear about the boys club mentality. You wouldn’t want to her to regret anything when she she’s your age karma has a way of coming around.
There’s a video I saw of someone smashing a plate and telling the person who did it to say sorry… it doesn’t put the plate back together. IF it’s possible, it takes a lot of work. Maybe OP needs to show her husband this video meant to explain (to children) how sorry doesn’t undo nasty behavior.
Personally I hate the smiley face in this kind of scenarios. It just feels like trying too nude to seem “nice” or “likable”. The better use of emojis is to add a little extra when the conversation is flowing. Otherwise, your response was fine.
Thanks everyone. Man has it been a month!
I ended up ending it with him, and now he is definitely showing his true colours! I’m in the process of trying to stay away for my own safety and get my kids and myself safely elsewhere. It’s going to be a long and painful process but I hope that soon my life will be a little less chaotic.
It was definitely something that needed to happen to get me away from such a toxic oxygen thief. I appreciate all your inputs and kind words.
Onwards and upwards!
What is her need at this point?
Any involvement with you is her need, any reaction to her action.
My dad is entitled to have his own accounts, yeah. Prior to the money issues, they both had separate accounts, however they had to get a joint account after because one of my mum's accounts got closed after they realised what happened.
Thank you !
It’s okay people on Reddit have a nude time understanding anything beyond the literal words on the page