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Sirene, 99 y.o.
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Date: October 19, 2022
Sirene, 99 y.o.
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I get that you’re sad and feel all the feelings. But he is playing you, he is keeping you around for this sole benefit and you need to ditch the guy.
The OP is coming off as self centered? Oh hell no. The guy got so drunk it required a team of people to take care of him through the night between at least one coworker and his fiancé, but his fiancé is the selfish one? All she wants to do is study for her finals. Christ Reddit can be absolutely fucked.
You two are nowhere near ready to be married, postpone that stuff immediately. She might not even be ready to be in a steady relationship with you at this point. She is so uncomfortable telling you she is going out, she lies and says she is going to bed. I doubt it's a sput of the moment thing she goes to bed, then gets back up to go out. Women don't go to bed, then get back up and reapply makeup and such. Add in the fact she doesn't want to text you when she does go out, says she will talk to you tomorrow. You sound as if you view the relationship as serious, she doesn't by any means.
You need to sit her down the next time you talk and ask her what she wants from this relationship, how she feels about you, and if she is ready for marriage. Let her talk and don't fill in the blanks. Don't lead her into answers you want to hear either. Before you talk to her, prepare yourself for answers going good or bad. She sounds as if she is going to disappoint you with this talk.
This isn't funny or cute or adorable. The dude is showing a serious lack of empathy. You need to stop giggling and start thinking about finding a safe home for the kitten, if you choose this horrible man.
I wouldn't call smiling cheating if you have no intention of doing so. You can be a little easier on yourself.
I had to look it up I didn’t know what you were talking about. It’s the number of people she’s slept with. More ghetto slang that I haven’t heard before.
Contact a lawyer.
This is a tricky situation, grounds for divorce and settlement is different depending on where you on-line.
Like a marriage, a settlement is a contract. It may be very hot to undue what has been done.
People be sure you know what you are signing at ALL TIMES!
Yeah and she tries to blame the crying it on her being “always too emotional”. it smelt bad at the beginning and now just smells worst
He takes ibuprofen when headaches are especially bad? So then why does he need to take anything else if ibuprofen helps a really bad headache?
Absolutely. There's an excellent episode on the You're Wrong About podcast which delves into this. I think it's called Losing Relatives to Fox News.
I must be a bad person too but I’m also scared to have kids in this ridiculous world where the will be influenced by this kind of bs, sorry??♀️
Also it's not like he was the only one that married young
Don't use Draino in anything, actually.
Baking soda and boiling water works way better and won't cause issues like Draino does.
Draino will turn hair into goop, like thick oil.
Oh shut up. You weren’t some helpless jellyfish that couldn’t leave. “Wah! She lied but muh looooove!” Just like a predator to blame the victim.
Your wrong about not being his first of anything. If you make it through this then you could be his first marriage, first one buy a house with, the first one to have a child with him. There are still a million possible firsts. Ones that can be so much more important.
He knows it wasn’t a joke, he believes saying something is a joke is a get out of jail free card to be an obnoxious jerk. He needs real life consequences for his actions. What those are are up to you, perhaps a separation?
She won’t be in this profession long. Unless you’re taking something specific like the pig hormone that treats only thyroid problems, she’s delusional and just guessing. She’s also not a good friend.
I though it was because of porn, some women consider that a boundary.
Anyway why don't you do it in bed, if she considers you going out of the room “dirty” just keep he awake while you do your business. I wonder is she never helps her self, I would find that odd.
Tell her you going out is to not disturb her while she sleeps, but you will more than happy to do it in front of her or keep her awake when you can not sleep for the lack of it.
Here goes women's favorite phrase
“My body my choise”
It really does. Best of luck.
Welcome to the 18th century, where being obedient to your moronic overbearing jackass husband is more important than your own kids
So toxic of her
Haha fair I didn’t mean that in a rude way towards you
I'm really sorry this happened. Are you on the spectrum by any chance? This isn't necessary, but I've found this kind of issue more common when people are bad at picking up social cues and so misjudge how close other people are to them – you seem to have had a circle of acquaintances, not friends much less close friends, and while that's a whole other potential issue, the immediate issue is that you weren't aware they were just acquaintances.
What an asshole! Screw him, let him make his own food, by himself.
There’s no legitimate reason for him to hide your existence from people. If something feels fishy, it’s because something IS fishy.
Glad to hear you have some plans made. I hope you have a good time and get to try some new experiences. ( you could start like a travel diary or make posts about it to help remember everything) It'll be good to keep busy while trying to figure everything out. And give yourself time, don't be too nude on yourself if this doesn't get resolved super quickly.
I'm also glad he recognized what he did was wrong and hopefully really did learn from it. If you're worried about him reading it again you could get a little lock box or something. Keep an eye out for jealously issues, if they come up talk to him about it.
One other thing you could explore is therapy. Not because something is wrong, but because it's a neutral person there just to listen to you and offer insight or advice. Sometimes it helps to have a few sessions to get everything off your chest and feel heard. Again, not because there's something wrong, just because they're a good resource to help people work through things. And your secrets are safe with them 🙂
In the end, listen to your heart and your intuition. You're the expert on yourself and what you want in life and who will make you the most happy.
Your BF doesn't want to allow you to invade his privacy because YOU have issues. Seems perfectly reasonable to me. I wouldn't either.
You should seek therapy to help YOU deal with YOUR issues.
I suspect your YOU problems will shortly cause your relationship to end.
No matter how good that bj is, it isn't worth being in a relationship with her. As a matter of fact you absolutely don't want her to give you the best bj of your life. You don't want a reason to want to go back to her.
That fwb sounds like someone to at least attempt a relationship with. She's talking about things and showing you she's calm and available for you.
No its not, have a good day
The only thing I'd need to talk about is how to get the rest of my things and end it.
This is abhorrent!
You don’t want this to negatively affect your relationship.
What relationship? She made other arrangements behind your back. It didn’t happen overnight either. You two had talked about it for a couple of weeks, went house hunting together and worked things out with the landlord. You only “found out” yesterday about her other plans? How did you find out? You are the one who had to ask her about it – she wasn’t planning to tell you at all. The time to have told you was when she changed her mind. She’s a horrible person for doing this. She didn’t want to disappoint you but she is perfectly willing to screw you over financially. Sorry, but you got played for a roof over her head until her friends were ready to get a place. She used you and abused you. There is no relationship.
She pushed a watermelon sized human out of her small hoohaw, is overwhelmed by a huge influx of hormones, and is probably sleep deprived from caring for a newborn.
What’s happening is that you’re learning that your dick isn’t priority #1 all the time. Welcome to life. Take care of your wife and kid.
You had a tough beginning. However , you are throwing a lot of things in there that aren’t direct results of your upbringing: wiping front to back isn’t a thing my parent taught me either. It is a thing to prevent cystitis, or similar. I feel for you and you know you should get therapy but the single biggest thing you can do for yourself ids throw all this anger from you: it will not change the past. You are aware. You can begin to take things one by one and see if you can learn and move forward by yourself: watch other people and see how they discuss. I learnt debating at school, not at home. Your mum probably did not have it much better as a kid , I would guess. Most women are very anxious. Please don’t keep looking at what is wrong with you but start looking at what you are good at. Be positive about yourself and your aims. Do not sit back and wait for fate. Make things happen and change your mindset to being the best person that you are. You are you. You have a unique set of values, intelligence and gifts. You don’t have to drag all the baggage with you. Be special to yourself and don’t apologise for being you. You are a survivor.
So why not plan one with just the two of you on the weekends where she's not going with the girlfriends?
Just drink at home it’s cheaper and less weird. Taken women don’t go to bars alone, it’s completely abnormal