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You partner should learn to communicate his feelings to you, we do wrong unknownly. So sometimes if he doesn't communicate it to you, you won't be able to figure it out.
You are the exception. Generally, you don’t know a person well enough to make decisions about marriage in 4-6 months. You don’t know how that person handles finances, family issues, anger, sickness, etc. My fiancé and I knew after a few months that we wanted to spend our lives together but we also know that people in the honeymoon phase make dumb decisions, so we waited. Got engaged after 2 years together and after living together for a year as well.
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Main question: Is there a reason you haven't opted to try the threesome with a girl now?
I'm not saying it'd fix problems but considering this seems to have damaged your confidence a little bit, maybe having the opportunity to have sex with another girl would balance the scales for you? For lack of better phrasing.
It was his family wedding, not your family's or a mutual friend's. You already know he's a bit anti-social and disconnects from his family. Why push the envelope? He said he was ready to go and you made your choice. Why are you upset he called your bluff?
It isn’t about the game, it’s about how he let someone berate you for their own stupid behavior while he sat around doing nothing… and he is more than old enough to know in situations like that silence implies consent. Not cool of him.
Honestly I wouldn’t game with him anymore. Against him any time, but never with him again.
you sound like an awesome person to be in a relationship with, jim sounds like an ignorant asshole. I feel like there are other guys out there who would be better boyfriends more fiting for you.
Both of you are too young and immature to be married. You have ignored all comments that suggest you find employment, but you are 21 years old and entirely dependent on someone who withholds affection because you can’t be bothered to uphold your end of the bargain. You guys need to step back from each other and really evaluate if this is what you want. Preferably before you get pregnant with a Hail Mary baby.
I know it may seem as if I only care about what she does for me but I also care about how she makes me feel.
R…right. Like, you're aware those two are basically the same thing, right? How she makes you feel, it is still just about what you get out of her, it is still something she does for you albeit indirectly. You've sort of only reinforced the concerns I have.
So what, you are dragging her down in order to make yourself feel less like a loser or something? You're forcing this despite being aware your addiction is inevitably always going to be a point of contention. That despite her lifting you up it seems currently you drag her down.
She can't fix you. That core insecurity is something you need to go face in therapy. Maybe once you feel less bad about yourself you won't be so hung up on living out fantasies with other women, pretending you're something you aren't to get off. Like can you start to see how you dating this girl starts to come across as you doing role play yet again?
Hello, thank you for taking the time to reply to me, I appreciate it more than you think. Yeah lessons sometimes have to be learned the hot way unfortunately, I was a stupid 16 year old. I dont have any way of knowing if he is doing defamation, as he won't make these statements to me, and the ones he would talk to (technically my two closest bosses) absolutely would NOT let me know. In order for it to be a defamation case I need to prove he said something untrue about me. Also, getting another job wouldn't solve my problem. I have dedicated over 600 hours of formal training to this job, and all employers in the area are in very high communication. To get away I would have to transfer to at least 2 counties away, which is not possible for this job.
I also like it all goes onto Op and they are skipping past the fact of what he saw 2 years ago from his wife and her phone which caused the promise of not looking at each others phones.
Unless it's the bride that's pregnant, keep your plans. It's not your job to accommodate all your guests. Neither they can come and participate, or they can cheer you on from home.
You partner should learn to communicate his feelings to you, we do wrong unknownly. So sometimes if he doesn't communicate it to you, you won't be able to figure it out.
Communication is key in a relationship.
You are the exception. Generally, you don’t know a person well enough to make decisions about marriage in 4-6 months. You don’t know how that person handles finances, family issues, anger, sickness, etc. My fiancé and I knew after a few months that we wanted to spend our lives together but we also know that people in the honeymoon phase make dumb decisions, so we waited. Got engaged after 2 years together and after living together for a year as well.
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Betterhelp is pretty good and cheap for what it is. If you don’t get a good therapist who’s attentive and vibes with you, try another match.
In the meantime, read the beginning of “Why Does He Do That?” By Ted Bundy on the PDF available live.
Yeah dude y'all gay
This isn’t infantilizing. There are reliable sources you and OP can educate yourself from or stay ignorant. You don’t like it I don’t care .
Main question: Is there a reason you haven't opted to try the threesome with a girl now?
I'm not saying it'd fix problems but considering this seems to have damaged your confidence a little bit, maybe having the opportunity to have sex with another girl would balance the scales for you? For lack of better phrasing.
It was his family wedding, not your family's or a mutual friend's. You already know he's a bit anti-social and disconnects from his family. Why push the envelope? He said he was ready to go and you made your choice. Why are you upset he called your bluff?
Lol ok
It isn’t about the game, it’s about how he let someone berate you for their own stupid behavior while he sat around doing nothing… and he is more than old enough to know in situations like that silence implies consent. Not cool of him.
Honestly I wouldn’t game with him anymore. Against him any time, but never with him again.
Try /r/LegalAdvice
you sound like an awesome person to be in a relationship with, jim sounds like an ignorant asshole. I feel like there are other guys out there who would be better boyfriends more fiting for you.
Both of you are too young and immature to be married. You have ignored all comments that suggest you find employment, but you are 21 years old and entirely dependent on someone who withholds affection because you can’t be bothered to uphold your end of the bargain. You guys need to step back from each other and really evaluate if this is what you want. Preferably before you get pregnant with a Hail Mary baby.
That's exactly it. You will have no say in your children's lives as they will be his property….not yours!
Exactly what I was wondering ?
I know it may seem as if I only care about what she does for me but I also care about how she makes me feel.
R…right. Like, you're aware those two are basically the same thing, right? How she makes you feel, it is still just about what you get out of her, it is still something she does for you albeit indirectly. You've sort of only reinforced the concerns I have.
So what, you are dragging her down in order to make yourself feel less like a loser or something? You're forcing this despite being aware your addiction is inevitably always going to be a point of contention. That despite her lifting you up it seems currently you drag her down.
She can't fix you. That core insecurity is something you need to go face in therapy. Maybe once you feel less bad about yourself you won't be so hung up on living out fantasies with other women, pretending you're something you aren't to get off. Like can you start to see how you dating this girl starts to come across as you doing role play yet again?
hahah ok. so first thing is wishing her a happy birthday. then a few days later I can inquire about the religion.
is it too much to send flowers for her birthday? is a simple phone call better?
Hello, thank you for taking the time to reply to me, I appreciate it more than you think. Yeah lessons sometimes have to be learned the hot way unfortunately, I was a stupid 16 year old. I dont have any way of knowing if he is doing defamation, as he won't make these statements to me, and the ones he would talk to (technically my two closest bosses) absolutely would NOT let me know. In order for it to be a defamation case I need to prove he said something untrue about me. Also, getting another job wouldn't solve my problem. I have dedicated over 600 hours of formal training to this job, and all employers in the area are in very high communication. To get away I would have to transfer to at least 2 counties away, which is not possible for this job.
I also like it all goes onto Op and they are skipping past the fact of what he saw 2 years ago from his wife and her phone which caused the promise of not looking at each others phones.
This. Please get her to a doctor asap. She’s in deep depression.
Unless it's the bride that's pregnant, keep your plans. It's not your job to accommodate all your guests. Neither they can come and participate, or they can cheer you on from home.