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Date: October 27, 2022
Yes. He lovebombed and ran back to his family
If the time spent together is mostly at her place, it's not surprising you want to keep the current arrangement more than her. It's also not fair.
Like she's already taking most of the burden of living together, right?
Go do what’s best for you
I’m judging. OP is ridiculous if she thinks this relationship can work.
Blaming you for her abuse of you is textbook abusive behavior.
It is also manipulative and despicable.
You get what you put up with OP. Don't put up with it.
All you can do is tell your friend that he won't be part of group text messages where people talk about private things, and that is HIS decision. You don't know his girlfriend of 4 months as well as you know the rest of the group, nor did you choose to befriend her and bring her in. Of course you don't want her reading messages that are about private issues.
Sure you can still invite him to things and use text messages to communicate normal things- how was your day, congrats on X, whatever- but he cannot expect the group to just include his girlfriend in private conversations.
Tell your friend and his girlfriend- they get to decide if they want to read each other's text messages, and YOU get to decide what kind of text messages you send to people. The GF saying you shouldn't care if nothing “dodgy” is going on is remarkably ignorant- or intentionally manipulative because of course that isn't true. I have friends I will tell my relationship issues, and some I don't tell as much. That can be because of trust, longevity of friendship, prior history, the advice they give, relationship with my partner, etc. She doesn't get to decide that it is fine if she gets in on personal conversations.
Tell the friend he is making his own choice here, and by the way if he says she isn't reading them anymore, of course don't believe him.
Damn man, she doesn’t see you as an actual partner. More like a friend that pays for her therapy and validates her emotions.
You already know it over man. Shes taking everything from you and giving nothing back. Just end it
Which he can get from a real lawyer in his area rather than redditors who aren’t
They're not brother and sister, they're not even relatives, let them be together and move on. Children are not stupid, they know who is a sibling and who isn't.
You openly displayed sex marks during a family gathering and you wonder why your family doesn’t trust your judgment
Cut ties. Now.
So you act like his mother and don’t have sex with him and wonder why he wants to fuck other people….
He had all this with you.
But you didn’t want to be committed to him, you wanted to fuck around and he didn’t want that, he wants a committed relationship, he doesn’t want to be fucking around pretending to be in a relationship, he wants a monogamous relationship. She’s offering exactly that and you’ve already said he can’t have that with you.
You’ve made your own bed here, he sounds genuinely happy with her I hope he leaves you to be with her in all honesty, because you shouldn’t be wasting his time
I’m a guy, first I’ve heard that. Apparently I watch porn like a woman.
That’s all you need to be. But why are you with somebody who abuses you verbally and is hitting you while calling you homophobic slurs? Don’t you think that you deserve better and be allowed to explore things about you without being belittled and abused?
Your girlfriend isn’t a nice person. She is a bully.
I absolutely love my husbands beard. It’s very full and long, he takes very good care of it. I would be heartbroken if he shaved honestly! Everyone is different. How would she feel if you wanted control of her hair? Throw the whole woman away. Jk
She needs someone who specializes in body dysmorphia disorder (BDD) treatment. Just to share, it’s often due to experiences of being excluded/ignored/devalued (emotionally or physically) along with appearance being shown as a way to be included/seen/valued. Humans have a biological need to be included and not feel alone (herd animals). So the more the healthy ways of inclusion aren’t available (emotional validation, attention, support, affection) and the more appearance is seen to provide inclusion, the more important appearance becomes. And then when that external sense of value gets internalized that’s when you get BDD.
Treatment often is about working to undo those thought patterns (Cbt), changing the environment such that it excludes or limits appearance focused activities (various types media, entertainment, employment, social groups) and emphasizes healthier value systems, and/or identifying the roots experiences of exclusion (bullying, abuse, neglect) and of prioritizing appearance (diet culture, exposed to routine judgement of others/self based on appearances) so as to see where the thoughts originated so they lose their power.
Thank you this is very affirming. It didn't end well last time, I think we were both responsible for that TBH. Is there any kind of location that you would recommend that is neutral and safe? Thank you again!
This is a pretty bad take. Why would playing DnD make someones dating pool any smaller? If anything it would be the opposite since it increases the number of people you end up socializing with.
If you think the dating pool is smaller because it's a “nerdy hobby” and “only nerds play DnD”, that's just a ridiculously narrow mindset. Additionally, any person that's not willing to date someone based on playing DnD (or any other innocuous,r non-offensive hobby) simply because it's “nerdy”, is someone that's not worth taking the time to date anyway.
May have been my bank. It didn’t do loans like that.
If i am missing context then please let me know so I could fill in the gaps. Thank you.
Idk. I'm kind of hoping that he'd eventually pick up social cues after a while of being in a relationship. He does say that he doesn't want to have another gf and he's improved a lot in terms of showing how he cares when he's around me. It's just the days we're apart is more than when we're together and when I try to close the gap, it feels like he doesn't want to meet me halfway.
It feels like falling into a routine like we're bf/gf Friday nights to Sunday evening and then just two people on earth the rest of the week.
Well, there’s a reason he has changed his mind. Not sure you’ll find out so pursue your own dreams
Exactly and now his brain can’t handle that for some reason? He’s gonna have a tough life.
Then leave him because he’s being a manipulative ass who is trying to isolate you from your mother.
She has every right to be upset and concerned with someone who is incapable of loving her daughter. The fact that your boyfriend doesn’t get that and wants you to go no contact is deeply concerning. The fact that he’s doing this after he got you pregnant is textbook abuse tactics.
Don’t get attached then.
Well I’ve go signed on these loans before. Do we know her Mom won’t simply pay it?
Are you a doctor? Because you’re making an awful lot of really outrageous declarations here.
Yes I know I am probably a victim of a narcissist, and it’s really hard. I’m always trying to find a way to justify his actions. I’ve in the past tried to reach out to family and friends, but they don’t believe me, because they don’t see this side of him.
Of course they don’t see this as wrong. Narcissism isn’t something you’re born with, it’s complicated trauma. The people around him are also part of the cycle of abuse that he hasn’t gotten out of.
Abuse is cyclical and it’s very hot to know when you need to leave because you feel guilty as hell leaving someone in a bad situation. At some point they are also the problem though. It’s great that you were understanding of his mental health troubles (trauma is complicated), but there has to be a line. You need to decide what is bad enough that you leave.
I chose wilderness and it’s panned out pretty well, but even my cabin still cost 400k
Housing prices in Canada are FUCKED
Yes he uses Facebook everyday. I was upset at him because after giving. Ruth to my baby it’s only been 13 months he was saying he was not satisfied because we haven’t had sex regularly. This argument led me to look at his Facebook.