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Date: March 23, 2023
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The sailing trip, if it happens, is many years away. As you say, the first step is actually to get into a sailboat together. You will learn much more at that point. “If the wind is right you might find the joy of innocence again”.
Let him have his dream. Us boys need unrealistic dreams to keep us going.
Great! Try it and update me. Good luck!
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Don't meet her demands. Don't text every 10 min. Let her know you are not playing along with this. Tell your friends to never respond if she is looking for you. Let your friends tell her you asked them not to spy on you
Tell her it's a line in the sand and if she doesn't stop you will end the relationship
I had to actually look up what scat meant, it is shocking. Maybe she just didn’t realize this was a type porn people can watch, I had no idea. And if she did know about it, maybe she thought you would never take part in it. Has she seen any other videos? It’s one thing to know about your past, it’s another to actually see it. And I mean it must have been shocking to see you in this type of porn. I don’t think you can ever unsee that type of image, especially if it’s your husband.Plus you lied by omission, I totally get why, but still to learn about on her own. She p’s got a lot to process, she’s probably in a little bit of shock. Maybe after a few days she will calm down enough that you can talk about how to move forward
As she is refusing marriage counseling, there's no other alternative except divorce.
This isn't going to change because she doesn't want it to. My guess is that if she decided your son needs a little brother/sister, then she'd turn on the charm again. This isn't what you signed up for when you married her; 5o have a sexless marriage before you were 30yo!
You and your wife are modeling behavior for your son: being an adult, a spouse, a parent. As he grows and sees this, he will have a very warped idea of personal/sexual relationships. PLEASE get out and find someone new. Having 2 parents in two different happy homes is much better for him than watching the dismissive, disgusted repulsion that your wife is showing. You and your son deserve better. Your wife does, too, but only she can be the architect of her better life!
DUMP this woman already! She's interfering with your education, she's moved into your home to leech off of you. She's sucking up all your time and all your attention and all your emotion.
There's a better woman out there for you (working on her education, has ambition, independent and fun), but you're never going to meet her as long as you're wasting time with this woman! She managed to survive just fine for 24 years before she met you. Kick her out and let her live the next 50 years without you, too!
Yes tell her. If she didn’t say all that shit and you caught her that’s one thing. But yeah doesn’t need to put fear/guilt on you for her fuck up. Man some parents…?
This makes me so sad. One day you’re gonna be 22 years old, joking around with some teenager at work, and you’re gonna have this sudden realization that this 16 year old is just a child compared to you. You’ll be paying bills and getting interested in furniture and thinking about how this high schooler is worried about the test on Monday and planning their homecoming outfit.
From birth till your twenties, you develop SOO much every year. Nobody here is going to change your mind about the appropriateness because this adult met you during a very formative time in your life and was able to guide you in a lot of ways, whether you realize that or not. That’s just what grooming is, sadly, and that’s what’s so scary and disgusting about it. You don’t understand that this is wrong because you’ve been taught to like it.
One day you will be 24 years old and realize how little you have in common with teenagers and you will look back on this and see your girlfriend for the bad human she is.
Honestly. Sounded like she is grooming you with her stories and you are sucking it up.
Need to cut off that supply and severe the sexy chat. Maybe the friendship.
You and husband made a monogamous commitment. He didn’t sign up for you to cheat or guilt him into open marriage. Either be classy, leave him and pursue your sexual and romantic urges or find a way to shut Pandora’s box. No pun intended. O
She made her choice, mate. The next time she drank, she will kiss someone else. Move on, by the way, did she bring the food when she came back?
You are way too young to hitch up with a girl who currently suffers from an integrity problem.
She is also young and clearly understands what she's doing. You are observing the beginning of a serial cheater's lifestyle.
You’ve put up w it for 5 yrs, so wait another couple weeks til her classes are over and tell her that the two of you are just too different. That’ll give you a couple weeks to find a new apartment, maybe someone to sublease your current one, etc.