I should elaborate and include my thoughts surrounding my marriage and what I thought was love. I loved my married life, was absolutely loyal. Yes it was peppered with bad times, but my view was that was just part of marriage and I loved my wife, at least who I thought she was and all that comes with “falling in love, getting married and having kids”. So when my gf and I started having “those feelings” I began thinking that our relationship was moving into just a swinging scenario that only involved shared play and not soloing, at least that’s where it looked like it was heading. But this is territory that neither one of us considered.
I see 3 scenarios:
Continue Continue but cease our physical relationship and develop our friendship. Go our separate ways.
100% agree. This reads like wish fulfillment fantasy written by some guy whose girlfriend dumped him for being boring.
I should elaborate and include my thoughts surrounding my marriage and what I thought was love. I loved my married life, was absolutely loyal. Yes it was peppered with bad times, but my view was that was just part of marriage and I loved my wife, at least who I thought she was and all that comes with “falling in love, getting married and having kids”. So when my gf and I started having “those feelings” I began thinking that our relationship was moving into just a swinging scenario that only involved shared play and not soloing, at least that’s where it looked like it was heading. But this is territory that neither one of us considered.
I see 3 scenarios:
Continue Continue but cease our physical relationship and develop our friendship. Go our separate ways.