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You definitely need to talk to her. I can’t say this would work for all but my current prnter and I agreed what the value of each of our 401ks was before we got married, that the amount that can be left to whomever we chose (kids, siblings, whatever). Balance goes to the surviving spouse. Our kid is fiancé/ half goes to the surviving spouse and balance to whomever we choose. We both owned homes. He sold his bc mine is bigger for when all the kids are home to visit with their SO’s. His went to purchase. A vacation home and a small flat in our local city. The house we live in goes to my kids, the 2 other properties go to his kids…..the only caveat is that they cannot sell the vacation home while I’m living unless I agree and I get 12 weeks a year there (Jan-March) and pay 25% of the taxes and maintenance. OR I can but they out at fair market value. If I pre-decease him, he knows my kids will sell the home we live in ;too pricey for them taxes and maintenance wise) and he doesn’t want to live here without me.
Pretty specific and not for everyone and took a lot of conversations.
Actually many men go to these massage places and get a HJ. It’s cause they don’t get any home usually…. They are almost starving for touch.
You seems fine being the second choice
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You’re reading way too much into this.. I’ve double texted in similar ways lots of times for all kinds of reasons (none of them malicious).
Thank you for pointing it out
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When did you divorce from your ex?
As long as he has a machete…what could go wrong?
Has your husband ever been tested? You may have just been bad timing that chlamydia didn’t show up in earlier tests because it was too early to test for it.
Here's the advice my dad gave me and it helped me weed out the flakey people.
If the person likes you, they will make time for you. They will call you/text you, or return your calls and text messages. So find a person that wants to make plans with you, and is excited to talk to you and listen to you at the end of a work or school day.
It worked too! Been with my fiance now for about 10 years, he didn't string me along, ghost me, or play mind games with me. He just enjoyed spending time with me and called to ask about my day. Keep looking , you'll find your person.
Leave. She is toxic asf if she Said that shit. She feels superior in the relationship. Like she is the settler and you are the reacher. Leave.
How do you have fwb live?
She was a prostitute who worked for goods and services instead of money. Yes it's sex work.
They don't need to understand
We have broken up….I’ve just been trying to tell myself that this is for the best.
Why can't he do it himself?
Well use your common sense. Adults have an open conversation about sex before they have sex to establish boundaries, likes, dislikes, kinks, fetishes. They also mention key info like stds, and being virgins in their 30s.
And by doing that, she’s teaching her daughter that she can get anything she wants if she acts mean enough to the people around her. She’s teaching her daughter to be a bully.
It’s an unusual way for her to bulldoze you into engagement, but you’ve been together for 6 years. What are you waiting for? Sometimes people need a little push.
It takes time to heal, and I want to heal the damage that I've caused. I am filled with so much guilt it makes me nauseous. I feel like I could've saved this. I want to give him a better life, and I hope forgiveness is an option.
He will never be able anymore to sit still in peace at home or do work while she is on vacation. His mind will race and ask himself questions like where is she now? Its 30 minutes since her ladt message, thats enough time to cheat on me, is she doing it right now? Etc.
For your own mental health cut her lose, you cant come back from that.
Thank you. OP sounds like an absolute wank.
Well he clearly has a passive aggressive communication style is not assertive and is insecure. Why bother. Especially that he’s older than you and vague posts about it like that instead of say something to you directly, so Red flaggy honestly. Doesn’t seem like good bf material.
She works. I don't really know too much about her cash flows because I don't ask because … why should I? It's none of my business, which is why I think mine is none of hers.
What does she bring? That's a loaded question, lol
But she definitely got a reaction. I snapped and broke up with her.
Oh boy he has really believed everything tate has said, and here I thought my friends were tate radicals. I mean I am 17 so naturally came across many tate videos but can still differentiate between right and wrong. I can tell that most women are not lying about rapes, he fell down this rabbit hole because HE WANTED TO.
It may not be implausible that she wants to move to your country. At least catch up and chat.
If he wants a paternity test, I would serve it with divorce papers.
SIL sounds like she’s gonna be the best support and the best Aunt. Sperm donor on the other hand…I have no words for that waste of space.
Yes you fucked up. It's not his job to enable your craziness. Get some mental health help. What you expect is not remotely reasonable.
You need to get help from your doctor, not your boyfriend.
But why does she disrespect you and your relationship so much ?
It sounds like Y’all need couples therapy. You’re not giving her the answer she wants (which is no I don’t want PIV). She doesn’t seem like she’s in the right headspace to grasp everything.
Wait why is she dying? There are other solutions to the eating issue that would make it less difficult for her but no punches to the head.
I appreciate the replies. Just very hot to process and deal with. I loved her and her son. I haven’t contacted her in a few days and am doing my best not to in any capacity. I don’t have the wherewithal to delete her number though. I also should bring up a follow up question to you….I might have a job offer in a state 1500 miles away coming in the next week or two…should I even notify her that I am leaving if I accept it? It feels wrong not to, but doesn’t feel right to tell her either.
Also, and I appreciate you saying what you said, every time I really think about things how can I be a cheap ass as she has called me in the past when I have paid for everything the last 2 months and paid for a majority of things in the past? I also admitted fault in that when we’d go to dinner I’d ask her to guess the bill, not realizing it made her feel uncomfortable. Dogged down and realized I did this because I was starting to resent her for not paying ever and I apologized profusely for it. So I am not without fault here either.
I hope your work ethic is up to it, reading 75 words isn't normally considered arduous. Looks like you've got the world all figured out.
Claire is right, you need therapy because you are obviously not over your dead wife. Also it’s really fucked up to tell her she doesn’t miss her dead husband just because she’s not always crying or grieving like you do. I don’t know how she can forgive you after saying something cruel like that. It’s also fucked up to tell her she is and will always be second. Like who tf says something like that?
Do you even love her? Like really truly love her? Or is she just there for emotional support and because you are afraid of being alone again? You should ask that yourself because she deserves someone who truly loves her and doesn’t act like she’s a gap filler.
But who would mess with her? She knew what my Dad looked like. I have lived in this town all my life and have never met someone who even remotly looks like him. Besides that, he had a very notable scar on his fave from a car accident when he was younger. Definitly none of my friends or coworkers look similar or have a similar scar. And why would someone introduce himself as my dad? If they said they were a friend of mine I could understand were you are coming from. But my dad? And she is 100% sire he was dad. She said she recognized him from pictures.
Mhm, not healthy. Have a serious conversation with her that you're not cool with her saying all this stuff. I know how it is to be made fun of for stuff you can't control by people close to you, and have to pretend to laugh it off because “hey, it's just a joke, right?” But believe me, it will eat away at you slowly and ruin your self confidence.
Stand up for yourself, and if she stops with the jokes, good! Else, you know what to do.
I can understand those points and because of that I’m not asking for much, but not “parading” my relationship with my parents? He’s my partner I’m not allowed to share what happens in my life with him or my feelings with him?
I never thought of that. Then I can take my kid to do fun things together when he’s older and be the cool uncle to him. I think I’ll tell him when he’s 18 that I’m his father if he’s mine.
Do you have an update?
He has been apologizing for years I think he deserves a break.
This honestly sounds like someone who isn’t healthy. I would wonder what led to her shouting. What leads to these arguments where this is consistently brought up? If it’s OP had a tough day, and she uses this to shut him down, I’d be very alarmed. I think we really need more information to give a good response.
By not speaking up, you have given him the message that the behavior is okay and does not bother you. So, he has no reason to change it.
A past post talked about tentacles and Davy Jones
Thats called gaslighting, and its abuse.
Sex is a topic which couples must discuss. It’s essential. It can only improve if there is clear communication. There’s ways to breach the subject gently.