not being cool with your family having a relationship with your ex is normal
Yes, we've come to our point of disagreement.
This is a toxic belief that we should all be fighting. A good proportion of marriages end in divorce. We should be promoting amicable divorces, because they're best for children and for the parties – it's not emotionally healthy to go through life carrying hostility and resentment.
If you have this notion, and don't try your utmost to fix it, you're contributing to a society where many kids grow up feeling torn between their parents. That's not OK with me.
I think it's wrong to do that when someone is on the brink of death.
Like, dude is life or death right now, that's not about you. Once that has resolved itself one way or another, the hurt of cheating can take center.
not being cool with your family having a relationship with your ex is normal
Yes, we've come to our point of disagreement.
This is a toxic belief that we should all be fighting. A good proportion of marriages end in divorce. We should be promoting amicable divorces, because they're best for children and for the parties – it's not emotionally healthy to go through life carrying hostility and resentment.
If you have this notion, and don't try your utmost to fix it, you're contributing to a society where many kids grow up feeling torn between their parents. That's not OK with me.